Rules Are For The Little People
(Everyone but Senator Chuck Schumer.) Ann Schroeder Mullins writes at Politico, who referred to a flight attendant as a "bitch" after she told him to turn off his phone before takeoff:
Schumer and his seatmate, Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand (D-N.Y.), were chatting on their phones before takeoff when an announcement indicated that it was time to turn off the phones.Both senators kept talking.
According to the GOP aide, a flight attendant then approached Schumer and told him the entire plane was waiting on him to shut down his phone.
Schumer asked if he could finish his conversation. When the flight attendant said "no," Schumer ended his call but continued to argue his case.
He said he was entitled to keep his phone on until the cabin door was closed. The flight attendant said he was obliged to turn it off whenever a flight attendant asked.
"He argued with her about the rule," the source said. "She said she doesn't make the rules, she just follows them."
When the flight attendant walked away, the witness says Schumer turned to Gillibrand and uttered the B-word. "The senator made an off-the-cuff comment under his breath that he shouldn't have made, and he regrets it," Schumer spokesman Brian Fallon told Shenanigans.
Translation: The Senator showed what a tiny little person, entitled creep, and giant boor he is, and "he regrets it."
Thanks, Robin!







Meanwhile a man asks for orange juice and he's looking an investigation and possible jail time in the eye.
brian at December 16, 2009 8:47 AM
You're welcome, Amy. Yes, I'm sure he regrets very much that he was caught. I'm also sure he knows this will be a very small storm because he's in a couple of protected classes: Senator and Democrat (imagine if John McCain had called the stewardess a bitch).
Robin at December 16, 2009 8:53 AM
They don't have to participate in the Social Security pyramid scheme, either.
Pirate Jo at December 16, 2009 8:56 AM
It would have been evidence of his "legendary short temper" and proof that he was unfit to be considered for President so aren't we so lucky to have Barack Obama?
brian at December 16, 2009 9:05 AM
Was the senator a jerk? Absolutely! Public figures should be held to a higher standard because they SHOULD be. They're examples for the rest of us, whether they know it or not.
Was the flight attendant a bitch? Could be. Still doesn't excuse his reaction, but it's possible. I'm on planes a few times a week and have run into my fair share of cranky flight attendants.
It's a thankless job, but it's still a chosen profession...one that requires you to deal with rude people in a small space you can't escape. This story is a good reminder that you get to choose your attitude at any given point in time. You act like a jerk, you deal with the consequences.
Thanks for sharing and exposing, Amy...and for leveling the playing field so there are no "protected" classes.
TallDarkNGruesome at December 16, 2009 9:11 AM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2009/12/16/rules_are_for_t.html#comment-1682749">comment from TallDarkNGruesomeThanks TDNG.
And on an entirely opposite note, I recognize that it's harder to be a flight attendant than ever, and make sure I ask for "coffee black," so the flight attendant doesn't have to ask "Would you like cream or sugar?" Just a small thing. But, at root of manners is empathy. I'm thinking of the next person who sits down when I clear my trash out of the seat pocket before I get off the plane, and when I throw away my trash and wipe up any cup bottom puddles on the table when I'm leaving Starbucks or some cafe. Takes very little to make the world a little nicer for other people.
Amy Alkon
at December 16, 2009 9:21 AM
don't you people realize that the rules are for everyone else, not for the Senior Senator from New York? really, they aren't. just ask him, he'll tell you.
still here at December 16, 2009 9:34 AM
Our political elite class have made it quite clear that rules are for the unwashed masses.
Reference point: Government healthcare for us, but not for them.
What an ass Shumer is. Period. He can't even apologize for himself but has his spokesperson do so. Does Shumer do ANYTHING for himself?(except act like an AH?)
What a great class act.
Charlotte at December 16, 2009 9:58 AM
Probably was pissed that the flight attendant didn't recognize him, in all of his grand Senatorial-ness.
Give me a break...
other Beth at December 16, 2009 11:08 AM
I know every person's experiences with airlines differ. That said, I've flown both coach and first class. In coach the FA's generally do treat the passengers as non-entities. Get in, do the job, get back out. However, in first class I have always been treated with courtesy and respect. In a few cases the services was so extraordinary I would like to have tipped them but custom and regulation prevented it.
I suspect that Schumer was flying first class so, based on my admittedly limited experience, I suspect the FA was trying to to make the best of poor situation. Once again Schumer demonstrates how he earned the common, vulgar use of his name.
As in a "Pile of Schumer."
parabarbarian at December 16, 2009 11:11 AM
This is my problem with politicians, judges and most lawyers in our country-They reek of elitism!
David M. at December 16, 2009 12:19 PM
This is my problem with politicians, judges and most lawyers in our country-They reek of elitism!
Agreed. And rarely do they pass up an opportunity to make it a show of it.
Flynne at December 16, 2009 12:35 PM
I'm running into this more and more lately with my job (librarian).
You politely explain to someone the rules. They ask for an exception because of blahblahblah. You say, "No, I'm sorry.". They get more demanding, and you have to do the whole rigamarole of "No, it's the rules, I'm sorry." And then suddenly, it's YOU that's being rude! How can I say "No" more nicely. And I'm really sorry that you're late/have a call/have four children/etc, but I'm not going to allow you to break the rules.
These people act like its the first time they've ever heard the word NO in their lives! I think it has to do with the slow degeneration of manners in society. We preach touchy-feely speak, so that our children and the powerful never have to hear a bad word, and then when someone does finally say "I'm sorry, no", it becomes a scene.
Ugh.
BTW, I went back and reread the blog on the firefighter and the lady who defaulted on their mortgages. Thanks to Pirate Jo for suggesting a condo. There are some places here who do duplexes or renting a townhome; I've thought about doing that.
cornerdemon at December 16, 2009 1:19 PM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2009/12/16/rules_are_for_t.html#comment-1682805">comment from cornerdemonThank you so much, corner, both for your comment and for being a librarian. Librarians, probably more than any other people, have made my life better, especially when I was a kid and didn't have friends. In my acknowledgments in my book, along with some of you here (and I appreciate all of you), I mentioned the librarians in Farmington Hills, Michigan, who were there for me during my lonely and painful years.
Amy Alkon
at December 16, 2009 1:37 PM
“Ironically, Schumer has been a friend of US Airways flight attendants of late, lobbying company chairman and CEO Doug Parker on their behalf after several of them asked the senator to help keep them based at LaGuardia.”
One wonders what this “lobbying” consists of. Is the Senator a stockholder in US Airways? Was he expressing his concern as a frequent flyer and customer? I can’t find any constitutional role for the Senator in helping a company to decide in which of the 50 states they should locate employees. If I called up US Airways CEO Doug Parker to discuss some issues I had with the airline, I doubt he would come to the phone, or return the call. No, Mr. Parker takes Senator Schumer’s call for one of two nefarious reasons. Either he is afraid that the Senator will use his power to pass laws unfavorable to the company or do so through his influence over the considerable regulatory structures governing the airline industry, or Parker is rent-seeking and wants special government favors he hopes the Senator may dole out. Either reason is unacceptable in a free capitalist society where business must be free to make any legal decision regarding their operations without threats from those with their hands on the wheels of power, and without promise of special favors to burden their competition.
Scott at December 16, 2009 6:27 PM
Amy,
Off topic, re Ann Coulter's ribbon to the right: are you "endorsing" her in some way? I think she's vacuous and evil.
DaveG at December 16, 2009 7:45 PM
Perhaps I committed premature postulation. The ribbon rolled to a Ford ad; you don't control those ribbons, do you?
DaveG at December 16, 2009 7:47 PM
I second that thanks to librarians everywhere (and you, cornerdemon). I spent a LOT of my childhood by myself in libraries in Dearborn, MI...reading everything from Plato and other classics to Ayn Rand, Adam Smith, etc. The librarians took an interest in me, fed me books, and kept me engaged as well as challenged. Since one branch of our family tree was in the black market, these wonderful women kept me on the straight and narrow.
Now...to tie that into the current thread...it also kept me from becoming someone who neglects others and forgets common courtesy...unlike said Senators and others who think a small amount of celebrity makes them something more than human.
TallDarkNGruesome at December 16, 2009 9:24 PM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2009/12/16/rules_are_for_t.html#comment-1682865">comment from DaveGThe ads are not chosen by me. They're automated.
Amy Alkon
at December 16, 2009 11:35 PM
"I think she's vacuous and evil."
Do be sure to note that actual elected officials have the opinions she does.
And I suggest doing what I do - play a little game: whenever you see an interesting quote, check it and any other public figure for sense by attributing the quote to someone else, or by removing the attribution. It's a great way to see if you're suffering from confirmation bias - the need to have your existing opinion confirmed.
Guess who said this: "Those who are able must go to work."
Radwaste at December 17, 2009 1:59 AM
Guess who said this: "Those who are able must go to work."
My first guess is Obama, but he probably lifted it from someone else?
My next guess would be Reagan. Dunno why.
Flynne at December 17, 2009 5:00 AM
Just googled it. Amazing, I wouldn't have thought Clinton said it!
Flynne at December 17, 2009 5:02 AM
"I think she's vacuous and evil."
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I suggest you read one of her books.
She likes to hold people accountable.
Nothing wrong with that.
She is very well researched and quite funny at the same time.
David M. at December 17, 2009 5:06 AM
Boy, if he thinks Ann Coulter is vacuous and evil, I'd love to hear his opinion of Nancy Pelosi!
brian at December 17, 2009 5:55 AM
Rad, I'll take a guess: Lenin.
My general experience with FAs is that the level of service and general pleasantness is inversely proportional to the number of passengers on the flight, which is no surprise. For that same reason, FAs on smaller aircraft are often more willing to chit-chat for a moment than FAs on larger aircraft. On a large aircraft, it's such a ballet for the FAs to coordinate their movements so they can get everything done that they just don't have the energy left for pleasantries (the exceptions being the very senior FAs usually found on busy international routes).
Eastern Airlines used to have the most unhelpful and unpleasant staff, all the way around. There's a reason that they are out of business.
Cousin Dave at December 17, 2009 6:10 AM
Thanks, Amy & TallDarkNGruesome! I like my job, and in this time of budget cuts (and cuts and cuts) its nice to hear someone saying "Yay for libraries!". This past October, logging onto the comments section of our newspaper was really disheartening; so many "Who uses a library anymore?" comments. But now I've got a case of the warm and fuzzies....
And Amy, I'm hoping we'll order your book (I have no real sway, but I can place a recommendation after a few months of release). In my hunt to see if we had it on order, I did see that we used to have a book called "Free Advice" from the Advice Ladies (Amy, Caroline Johnson, and Marlowe Minnick). I think I'll have to ILL that one!
cornerdemon at December 17, 2009 6:42 AM
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