Floss One Tooth: How To Ingrain A New Habit
The secret to changing habits may be starting small, Drake Baer writes at FastCompany that the tinier your habit change, the easier it is to establish:
After coach/speaker/workshop leader Margaret Lukens found out that the secret to changing habits is to "make them so small that they seem trivial," she decided to put the theory to the test. While she'd always meant to be a regular flosser, she never quite got the oral hygiene habit to stick. So she decided to put her mouth where the motto was: she'd floss just one tooth to establish the habit. Her takeaway:Don't try to cajole yourself into action by saying that you're going to do one tooth then do them all. Just floss one. Do it every day. And watch what happens. I can tell you what happened to me - one day, about three weeks in, I had an itch for completion. I wanted, needed to floss them all. I wasn't even particularly aware of the change, which seemed natural and unconscious. And now I can't not floss. Mission accomplished.In flossing just one tooth, Lukens avoided biting off more behavioral change than she could chew. But once she started flossing just one tooth every day, she worked up an appetite to floss fully. Soon after, the habit became automatic. It integrated into her routine.
The "floss one tooth" example is a classic of productivity, care of Stanford psychologist B.J. Fogg, whose research into lazy-smart habit formation we've talked about before. Since the habit is so tiny--like flossing one tooth--you'll feel ridiculous for not getting it into your day. Then, over time, that minuscule becomes a part of your day, rather than no part at all. You could think of that absurdly tiny habit as a skeleton for an extension of your routine--once it becomes "normal" to your routine, you'll glide right into it.
Since the habit is so tiny you'll feel ridiculous for not getting it into your day.
The tiny habit hack can be applied across areas: To eat healthier, eat one extra vegetable. To become more mindful, sit for five minutes of meditation. To get more knowledgeable, savor two pages of reading. And to get more active, you could do like Tiny Buddha's Stephen Guise did and challenge yourself to doing one pushup per day.
I do one minute of slow-burn workout with weights. Inevitably, I feel so good about that, I want to add more minutes to it. Yesterday, I did 10, which, per my show with science-based fitness trainer Fred Hahn, is about all you need to do every five days. (I do more than that now because it's good for my brain.)
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Another motivation is money... Having spent thousands on dental work to correct the damage done by incompetent orthodontia, it behooves me to give it the proper maintenance. So yeah, I floss every day at least.
Cousin Dave at December 6, 2013 12:11 PM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2013/12/floss-one-tooth.html#comment-4097228">comment from Cousin DaveI learned that tooth decay can be associated with heart disease. I just made myself floss nightly. You start a habit and you keep it up.
Amy Alkon
at December 6, 2013 12:48 PM
The same approach can be applied to any mammoth task facing you.
I used to build scale models. Some of the ideas I had for dioramas were so complicated I thought they'd take forever. But I'd just break the thing down into a whole bunch of little models that I built one at a time.
The same with writing books. First I start with an idea, then a basic outline, and then a chapter outline. I write down all the scenes I want to include (or information, in the case of nonfiction) and insert them into the proper chapter.
Then I fill in the empty spaces. At the end it's like, "How the hell did I write all that?"
By breaking it down into a lot of smaller tasks.
Thomas Wictor at December 6, 2013 1:31 PM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2013/12/floss-one-tooth.html#comment-4097345">comment from Thomas WictorGood advice, Thomas Wictor.
I often decide to answer questions for my column that terrify me (in terms of what it will take to answer them right, in a science-based way, and get it all into a small space and make the answer worthwhile).
I started using a timer to write. I time out an hour and cannot do anything but write during that time. This way, I simply start. There's no gnashing about whether I'm smart enough, wise enough, blah blah blah. There's just starting and ultimately, that usually gets me onto some thoughts that make me see that maybe I can do it, and then I look some things up, and something starts to take shape -- at least in the direction of where I have to go. Or, if it's the wrong direction, at least I've gotten to see which direction is wrong so I can go in another direction.
Amy Alkon
at December 6, 2013 1:43 PM
I happened to get the weekly newsletter from an organization. The editor mentioned that he recently read a book The War of Art by Steven Pressfield. In it, Pressfield introduces the idea of Resistance. Yes, that’s with a capital “R.”
He writes, “Resistance cannot be seen, touched, heard, or smelled. But it can be felt. We experience it as an energy field radiating from a work-in-potential. It’s a repelling force. It’s negative. It’s aim is to shove us away, distract us, prevent us from doing our work.”
Basically the editor found that if he forced himself into an hour of quiet time every morning he was getting stuff done. He actually put it down to his staff to do three hours from 9 to noon. No desk visits, no cells, etc. and productivity has gone up noticeably.
Jim P. at December 6, 2013 2:08 PM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2013/12/floss-one-tooth.html#comment-4097419">comment from Jim P.Terrific book. Here's a link through Amazon (that credits me if you buy it):
The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles
I love how he advises acting like a professional as an amateur. Doing your work as if you are getting paid for it.
Amy Alkon
at December 6, 2013 2:29 PM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2013/12/floss-one-tooth.html#comment-4097696">comment from Jim P.Jim P., what did he mean by "an hour of quiet time"? Meditating on the work? Working alone?
Amy Alkon
at December 6, 2013 5:05 PM
I just forwarded the e-mail to you. It's easier that way.
Jim P. at December 6, 2013 6:19 PM
"I learned that tooth decay can be associated with heart disease."
Has anyone here seen any data that establishes the causative relationship for this case?
I suspect they are both the result of a common behavior, not the one leads to the other.
Radwaste at December 7, 2013 12:41 AM
Raddy needs to stop being such a niggling little pri---
Well, actually, I was thinking the same thing. You should floss, and tooth decay is something good to avoid. But I noted Lustig's comments a couple of weeks ago about how so many health problems are caused not by obesity per se, but in the vast number of inflammations which damage tissues stressed by poor diet, minor insults which can maim when suffered over a lifetime.
"Associated" is a wickedly promiscuous word. It'll hang out with anybody.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at December 7, 2013 2:28 AM
Do you know, the toothbrush was invented by a Southerner?
If it was invented by a Northerner, we'd call it a TEETHbrush!
Regarding the link to tooth decay and heart disease: Helicobacter Pylori is the bacteria known for causing gum disease and stomach ulcers. It's also being found in the arterial lesions of heart attack and stroke victims. Linus Pauling touted Vitamin C for promoting healthy arteries, preventing H Pylori from finding weak locations to take up residence.
Since my 6-tuple coronary bypass operation, I'm dismayed to find the doctors utterly un-curious as to what actually made my heart become so blocked.
jefe at December 8, 2013 12:38 PM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2013/12/floss-one-tooth.html#comment-4101732">comment from jefePauling was full of shit.
http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/07/the-vitamin-myth-why-we-think-we-need-supplements/277947/
Amy Alkon
at December 8, 2013 12:43 PM
"Has anyone here seen any data that establishes the causative relationship for this case?"
I've read a few reports about statistical correlations. But yeah, that's a long way from establishing cause and effect, and I don't know how they would go about eliminating confounding factors, for starters. Given that the source of tooth decay is bacterial, and that the mouth is a place where stuff can cross from the external enviroment to the bloodstream, it's plausible. But there remains a lot of work to be done.
Cousin Dave at December 9, 2013 6:58 AM
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