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Don't argue with me. The contemporary United States is far and away the best place to live, ever, for anybody. I don't care if you're retarded or a woman or Jewish or disabled or gay as a daffodil.
(OK, being black has, in various contexts, been problematic in the United States.)
But still! We're the third most-populous nation on the planet!
Thing is, according to this map, the fourth most-populous nation gets by with as much wealth as does our fifth-most impoverished state...
Crid [CridComment at Gmail]
at February 2, 2014 2:36 AM
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2014/02/weepy.html#comment-4233465">comment from Crid [CridComment at Gmail]
Thanks, Crid, for that Cathy Young link. I'm harassed all the time. Like many men, I don't report it.
Here's a recent one I could remember from my email (because I could search "joker"):
Sent: Wed, Jan 1, 2014 12:13 pm
Subject: The joker
God damn Amy, you are one ugly ass mother fucker. You and that ugly 1989 batman joker smile.
Yawnies, whatever.
I can barely make it through my email and still have time to write and see my boyfriend and feed my dog.
The fact that somebody takes pleasure in writing some nasty email to me tells me they're probably a pretty miserable person with a bad life who can only feel better by bringing somebody else down. Stings sting, but their need to sting reminds me that I have it pretty good by comparison.
PS And remember that a website of scumbags went after my book, trying to hurt my sales. They also did this to a man. It's about wanting to hurt people and people who want to do that will go for your Achilles heel, whatever they perceive it to be.
In 'Merica, Teevee people are nicer to kids than in other places.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail]
at February 2, 2014 10:02 AM
Get that man an H1-B visa and a desk, stat!
Gog_Magog_Carpet_Reclaimers
at February 2, 2014 10:04 AM
As a rule, admiration for the 'talent' of actors is 100% bogus in all cases. We all all know this, and there's no finer proof than an Oscar ceremoney. A 'great actor' actor is when you like someone's cheekbones, or you feel affinity for the script, or you like the soundtrack and associate it with the person on the screen.
But Phillip Seymour Hoffman was in good movies, and his scenes were always the most interesting ones. So far as I know, he never went to a single publicity or show-business event. We know nothing of his romances or his hobbies or his politics. He just gave us faith that ten dollars for a ticket wouldn't be wasted... And in the context of automated entertainment, that kind of trust is precious. He'll be missed.
(Disclaimer: I never saw his Tom Cruise/Mission Impossible movie, but no harm/no foul. It's OK to collect an easy paycheck when the money will so obviously never be mine.)
Crid [CridComment at Gmail]
at February 2, 2014 11:32 AM
Sorry about the all all actor actor. Proofreading, right?
"As a rule, admiration for the 'talent' of actors is 100% bogus in all cases. "
Considering that you hold many people in contempt, I don't put much stock in this.
While I have not worked with actors, I have spoken to a couple dozen - none of them have been so vain and petty as you frequently express. All of them are from the "rank-and-file" category – the actors that make the scenes and story work, not necessarily big stars. In those cases I have been impressed with the number of different things they can do: speak multiple languages, play multiple instruments, handle horses, motorcycles and cars.
Love them, Raddy. Admire them! Watch "Inside the Actor's Studio" on your television, and feel it very deeply. Watch the Oscars, and weep at the magnificent interiors of these blessed performers! It will be fun to talk with you about them the times ahead!
Professional wrestling, too. Do you, for ONE MOMENT, think you could survive 10 minutes in United Wrestling Federation's infamous Circle of Suffering™ with Edgar "Butch Britches" Kirkdork? Of course not! The man's a machine, Raddy... A machine for punishment!
Those guys are professionals, Raddy. They have thousands of skills that you don't even know about!
Graves of a Catholic woman and her Protestant husband, who were not allowed to be buried together.
https://twitter.com/ChirurgeonsAppr/status/429653579939315712/photo/1
Amy Alkon at February 1, 2014 11:14 PM
Turns out the little weasel is educable.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 1:39 AM
Don't argue with me. The contemporary United States is far and away the best place to live, ever, for anybody. I don't care if you're retarded or a woman or Jewish or disabled or gay as a daffodil.
(OK, being black has, in various contexts, been problematic in the United States.)
But still! We're the third most-populous nation on the planet!
Thing is, according to this map, the fourth most-populous nation gets by with as much wealth as does our fifth-most impoverished state...
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 2:36 AM
...And being Indonesian sucks.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 2:37 AM
This has to be seen to be believed..
http://www.indiaagainstislam.com/2014/01/27/afghanistan-then-and-now/
Annie at February 2, 2014 5:50 AM
Cathy brings it:
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 8:14 AM
Rock and roll drum solos have always sucked, but the first sixty seconds of this one are magnificent.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 8:16 AM
The syncopated piano passage goes on too long and is mixed too loud anyway, but this is still one of the most beautiful songs of the last ten years.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 8:24 AM
Children of today's diverse media environment will never understand how much teenage fascination was contained in this photograph.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 8:26 AM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2014/02/weepy.html#comment-4233465">comment from Crid [CridComment at Gmail]Thanks, Crid, for that Cathy Young link. I'm harassed all the time. Like many men, I don't report it.
Here's a recent one I could remember from my email (because I could search "joker"):
Amy Alkon
at February 2, 2014 8:41 AM
Seahawks by 5. Sorry, Peyton.
(It's really a shame, because Manning seems to represent the strength of maturity.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 9:29 AM
Amy, whatever happened to the NOAA guy? I can't here a mention of that agency without thinking of the clown you clocked.
Also, I love Cathy Young (above) like crazy, but "toxic" is a word that we shouldn't use anymore.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 9:31 AM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2014/02/weepy.html#comment-4233530">comment from Crid [CridComment at Gmail]NOAA guy is Kevin Dailey:
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2008/08/28/sadly_on_the_ta.html
I understand that he kept his job.
Amy Alkon
at February 2, 2014 9:43 AM
I wonder what his marriage is like?
In 'Merica, Teevee people are nicer to kids than in other places.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 10:02 AM
Get that man an H1-B visa and a desk, stat!
Gog_Magog_Carpet_Reclaimers at February 2, 2014 10:04 AM
As a rule, admiration for the 'talent' of actors is 100% bogus in all cases. We all all know this, and there's no finer proof than an Oscar ceremoney. A 'great actor' actor is when you like someone's cheekbones, or you feel affinity for the script, or you like the soundtrack and associate it with the person on the screen.
But Phillip Seymour Hoffman was in good movies, and his scenes were always the most interesting ones. So far as I know, he never went to a single publicity or show-business event. We know nothing of his romances or his hobbies or his politics. He just gave us faith that ten dollars for a ticket wouldn't be wasted... And in the context of automated entertainment, that kind of trust is precious. He'll be missed.
(Disclaimer: I never saw his Tom Cruise/Mission Impossible movie, but no harm/no foul. It's OK to collect an easy paycheck when the money will so obviously never be mine.)
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 11:32 AM
Sorry about the all all actor actor. Proofreading, right?
No!
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 11:33 AM
this is still one of the most beautiful songs of the last ten years.
If it were the background music for an actual song, with lyrics and vocals, I'd agree. As a stand-alone piece. . . meh.
Rex Little at February 2, 2014 12:00 PM
Your heart is coal. Never again look me in the eye.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 12:08 PM
Incredible.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 3:13 PM
"As a rule, admiration for the 'talent' of actors is 100% bogus in all cases. "
Considering that you hold many people in contempt, I don't put much stock in this.
While I have not worked with actors, I have spoken to a couple dozen - none of them have been so vain and petty as you frequently express. All of them are from the "rank-and-file" category – the actors that make the scenes and story work, not necessarily big stars. In those cases I have been impressed with the number of different things they can do: speak multiple languages, play multiple instruments, handle horses, motorcycles and cars.
I know you can do all these things. Salute!
Radwaste at February 2, 2014 4:24 PM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2014/02/weepy.html#comment-4234262">comment from RadwasteAn actress I know just learned to play the ukelele.
Amy Alkon
at February 2, 2014 4:39 PM
There are worse things in life than death. Have you ever spent an evening with an insurance salesman? -- Woody Allen
Jim P. at February 2, 2014 4:54 PM
Love them, Raddy. Admire them! Watch "Inside the Actor's Studio" on your television, and feel it very deeply. Watch the Oscars, and weep at the magnificent interiors of these blessed performers! It will be fun to talk with you about them the times ahead!
Professional wrestling, too. Do you, for ONE MOMENT, think you could survive 10 minutes in United Wrestling Federation's infamous Circle of Suffering™ with Edgar "Butch Britches" Kirkdork? Of course not! The man's a machine, Raddy... A machine for punishment!
Those guys are professionals, Raddy. They have thousands of skills that you don't even know about!
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 4:58 PM
> An actress I know just learned to
> play the ukelele.
How can we know for sure? It's the ukelele.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 4:59 PM
The best thing I've read about Woody Allen this weekend.
þ: Gillespie.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 5:16 PM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2014/02/weepy.html#comment-4234306">comment from Crid [CridComment at Gmail]Agree, Crid, on the Woody Allen thing.
Amy Alkon
at February 2, 2014 5:32 PM
Moar and moar.
(Yes, I'm burned out for another 20 years, too. Call me when 'Ronan' is checked out of Betty Ford.)
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 9:50 PM
Right on cue, Crid. Sigh.
Radwaste at February 2, 2014 11:29 PM
Sigh! Sigh!
Pretense! Cues!
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at February 2, 2014 11:49 PM
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