Advice Goddess Radio, LIVE Tonight, 7-8 pm PT: Dr. Stanton Peele On Overcoming An Addiction With Values And Self-Determination
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Stanton Peele points out that most people recover from addictions on their own -- without AA or rehab, and what makes the difference is values, not biology.
On tonight's show, he'll debunk many of the myths in addiction treatment -- especially the notion that addiction is a "disease" people are powerless to overcome. That defeatest message is especially counterproductive to overcoming addiction, and it's been supported with bad science and hearsay.
Join us tonight to hear what solid science says about how addiction or bad habits can be overcome -- to the point where people are not just going cold-turkey off some substance or behavior till their next relapse, but where they develop meaningful ways of coping that no longer have them turning to their old crutch.
Peele's book we'll be discussing is Recover! Stop Thinking Like an Addict and Reclaim Your Life with The PERFECT Program.
Listen at this link at 7-8 p.m. Pacific, 10-11 p.m. Eastern, or download the podcast afterward:
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/amyalkon/2014/07/14/dr-stanton-peele-on-overcoming-an-addiction-with-values-and-self-determination
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> most people recover from addictions
> on their own -- without AA or rehab,
> and what makes the difference is values,
> not biology.
Despite the shady qualifications of its wordings, that's as loathsome as it is absurd.
Amy.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at July 13, 2014 1:03 PM
Crid, why not look at the science instead of assuming your assumptions are true. Feel free to listen to the show and the evidence. It's exactly correct, what you said was "loathsome." You may wish the truth were different (invested in belief in AA, perhaps)? But it is the truth.
Amy Alkon at July 13, 2014 6:42 PM
In short, you are wrong and there's a pile of data that show it.
Amy Alkon at July 13, 2014 6:57 PM
How many people do you know who quit smoking with a 12-step program?
Amy Alkon at July 13, 2014 7:22 PM
Crid,
Have you ever listened to any of her shows?
And this one you should listen to because she brings up your whining foolishness with Dr. Peele.
So open you mind a little and you might actually learn something for once.
Amy,
Another good show.
Jim P. at July 13, 2014 8:05 PM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2014/07/advice-goddess-176.html#comment-4843336">comment from Jim P.Thanks, Jim. Crid, how can you go around thinking you know all about subjects you have no expertise in. Stanton published "Love and Addiction" 40 years ago with Archie Brodsky. He has spent the past 40-plus years looking at the research on this.
Amy Alkon
at July 13, 2014 10:11 PM
> Have you ever listened to any of her shows?
Can't listen to a phone call that isn't my own.
Amy, if science was on your side, we'd know.
Mostly I think your sunny chatter about this is rude to those whose lives have been punished by alcohol and the other grand addictions.
Naughty.
Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at July 14, 2014 5:13 AM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2014/07/advice-goddess-176.html#comment-4844022">comment from Crid [CridComment at Gmail]Love this -- no need to investigate. You just take the "Lots of people believe the earth is flat" approach. Disappointing.
Amy Alkon
at July 14, 2014 5:19 AM
> Amy, if science was on your side, we'd know
I was also initially a bit skeptical, so I started doing a little reading up on what the scientific literature actually says, and so far it seems to confirm that the science is on Amy's side. E.g. http://pubs.niaaa.nih.gov/publications/AA70/AA70.htm ( / www.thecleanslate.org/self-change/substance-dependence-recovery-rates-with-and-without-treatment/) "... what we find when we broaden our scope, like in this study, is that the majority of people with Substance Dependence (as defined in the APA’s DSM-IV) actually quit on their own without any sort of treatment or 12-step involvement"
Lobster at July 14, 2014 9:06 AM
http://www.forbes.com/sites/jacobsullum/2013/11/04/everything-youve-heard-about-crack-and-meth-is-wrong/
"Carl Hart ... a neuropsychopharmacologist at Columbia ... has done bold, path-breaking research that challenges widely accepted beliefs about crack and meth"
"Before he became a scientist, Hart believed that people who use crack generally get hooked on it and thereby lose control of their behavior. But when he looked at the data on patterns of drug use as an academic, he could plainly see that only a small minority of people who try crack become heavy users. “Even at the peak [of] widespread use,” he writes, “only 10–20 percent of crack cocaine users became addicted.” According to the National Survey on Drug Use and Health, just 3 percent of Americans who have tried this reputedly irresistible and inescapable drug have smoked it in the last month."
"Hart’s own research with heavy crack smokers found that, in contrast with the stereotypical addict who cannot help but immediately consume whatever crack is available, they frequently rejected the drug in favor of small cash payments or vouchers"
Further references via: www.columbia.edu/cu/psychology/fac-bios/HartC/faculty.html
Lobster at July 14, 2014 9:15 AM
http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/can-you-cure-yourself-of-addiction/
"A survey by Gene Heyman, a research psychologist at McLean Hospital in Massachusetts, found that between 60 to 80 percent of people who were addicted in their teens and 20s were substance-free by their 30s, and they avoided addiction in subsequent decades"
Lobster at July 14, 2014 9:22 AM
I assume there are more references in Stanton Peele's book.
Lobster at July 14, 2014 9:23 AM
Values matter -- a lot. A junkie may need love but he needs a fix more. When that fix stops being the most important thing in his life he will be ready to stop being a junkie.
parabarbarian at July 14, 2014 9:38 AM
Is the word "junkie" actually useful for anything or is it just intended to dehumanize and insult?
Lobster at July 14, 2014 9:50 AM
> Love this -- no need to investigate.
> You just take the "Lots of people
> believe the earth is flat" approach.
> Disappointing.
You're clucking like a hen. Clipped sentences. Pathos.
The world isn't counting on me to "investigate" solutions for addiction, Amy. And it's not counting on you, either. This need to position yourself as a courageous, oracular truth-teller standing up to the Man from outside the system can be really silly. Not in AA, thanks for asking, but your reflex to the insinuation describes the desperation of the fantasy, and perhaps a blindness to the horror of the topic. You wanna wear a cape, and be admired for science-matific thinking outside the box... Without a degree.
Again-- if you could cure people you would. In this as in no other field, anecdotes do not count. I could meet you at the beach and round up fifty addicts by two in the afternoon... And count on NONE to be clean from your theories by Christmas. Meanwhile, badgering persuasion of passersby such as myself won't do much for the problem. This isn't about them.
> I was also initially a bit skeptical
So did you consult the "Scientific Journals" of The Men's Studies Press, as with circumcision? We know you're "apt to trust" them! But it's funny, I looked up the publisher on WebMD, and what it said…
…was not literally true. He teaches business, and has apparently never taught psychology. And Roane State Community College doesn't have "professors," only faculty. (Most two-year schools avoid that pomposity... They can't afford to compete for titled instruction, nor can their hires afford to demand it.)Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at July 14, 2014 11:11 AM
> This need to position yourself
Promoting evidence- and reason-based viewpoints is objectively good for the world.
Trashing evidence- and reason-based viewpoints is objectively harmful and counterproductive.
Lobster at July 14, 2014 1:50 PM
> So did you consult the "Scientific Journals"
Yes I consulted "scientific journals", because that's where scientists publish their results. You say that like it's a bad thing? In this case also, as I mentioned above, figures come from the National Institute of Health - if you have evidence that the NIH are publishing false figures then please post your evidence.
Lobster at July 14, 2014 1:53 PM
I've noticed before that Crid doesn't care at all about what is actually true and correct - not one bit (except when it happens to be a means to some self-serving end). so I'll be surprised if he posts any real evidence here to defend his views ... I predict a few more mindless insults (yaawn), i.e. more ad hominem and weak attempts to 'poison the well'. I posted at least three different 'scientific sources' above.
Lobster at July 14, 2014 2:02 PM
There was a scientific study several years ago, and may have been several more since.
The conclusions have universally been that psychiatric treatment has absolutely no effect on the mentally ill.
Just as many people recover or get worse without psychiatric care, and medications, as those who are under the care of a psychiatrist.
And yet, and yet,
Amy sees a psychiatrist on a regular basis, but wants to tell those with addictions to just man up, and get over it.
So how bout it Amy, why don't you just man up, and get over your ADD?
Isab at July 14, 2014 3:30 PM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2014/07/advice-goddess-176.html#comment-4845263">comment from IsabIsab, would you also suggest that people "man up" and stop taking insulin for their diabetes? I apparently have a deficiency of dopamine in my brain. (I deduced this because Ritalin doesn't really work for me but Adderall, which is not just a dopamine reuptake inhibitor but pushes dopamine into the brain, is terrific.) Adderall allows me to be extremely productive and has few side-effects for me. ADHD is, by the way, not attention deficiency, but too much attention. On too many things. Adderall helps me focus on one thing and keeps the little brain squirrels in their seats.
More on the flawed thinking here:
Heroin is not a problem -- it's the addiction to it. If somebody simply uses heroin recreationally, if it makes their life more fun and more enjoyable, which it can, no biggie. It is when they allow heroin to be the thing they use as a substitute for feeling their feelings, living meaningful lives, that it becomes a problem. Stanton, on the show, which you are apparently too big a know-it-all to listen to, made the point about the numerous Vietnam vets who kicked heroin quickly when they came back to the USA. They needed it there to not see the horrors. Back in the US, with things to live for, they stopped doing smack.
It's so dismaying when people argue dishonestly like this.
By the way, cognitive behavioral therapy has been shown to be quite effective for both helping people change their damaging thinking and helping people recover from addictions.
"The conclusions have universally been that psychiatric treatment has absolutely no effect on the mentally ill" -- I don't have time to go look this stuff up now, but I think "absolutely no effect" sounds too overblown to be true.
Amy Alkon
at July 14, 2014 4:00 PM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2014/07/advice-goddess-176.html#comment-4845269">comment from Amy Alkonhttp://www.advicegoddess.com/ag-column-archives/2013/11/the-butt-stops.html
Amy Alkon
at July 14, 2014 4:03 PM
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