Coddled Babies At Yale Aren't Going To Class Because -- Gasp! -- Somebody Disagrees With Them
My parents paid for me to go to the University of Michigan for three years and then, in addition to a scholarship I got for a piece I wrote, paid for much of the cost of my final year at NYU.
I am truly grateful that they did this. Not everybody's parents pay for college, and some kids who are smart and would do well in college never get to go. Sure, you can make something of yourself without college, and truth be told, I only finished at NYU because I know that some might not hire people who lack a college degree. But going to college is a privilege, and I only wish I had the time and resources to keep taking college classes today.
Well, that's a very different attitude than is being expressed by Jencey Paz at Yale. For some reason, her piece in the Yale Herald wasn't available (site down message), but I found it -- titled "Hurt at home" -- in Google cache.
Ah -- here's why.
She sees free speech -- and differences of opinion -- as a form of attack:
Last week, Erika Christakis, the associate master of Silliman College, sent an email to the Silliman community that called an earlier entreaty for Yalies to be more sensitive about culturally appropriating Halloween costumes a threat to free speech. In the aftermath of the email, I saw my community divide. She did not just start a political discourse as she intended. She marginalized many students of color in what is supposed to be their home. But more disappointing than the original email has been the response of Christakis and her husband, Silliman Master Nicholas Christakis. They have failed to acknowledge the hurt and pain that such a large part of our community feel. They have again and again shown that they are committed to an ideal of free speech, not to the Silliman community.
Paz is doing what theFIRE.org's Greg Lukianoff explains as conflating emotional "safety" with physical safety. You have a right to be physically safe from harm. You have no right to not be offended; in fact, the rest of us have a First Amendment right to offend you.
Check out these kids -- at Yale! (which was way out of the price range of the schools my parents would send me to) -- who are not focusing on their education because they're too busy being all hurty feelz because somebody doesn't share their opinion on their right to be coddled. Paz continues:
I have had to watch my friends defend their right to this institution. This email and the subsequent reaction to it have interrupted their lives. I have friends who are not going to class, who are not doing their homework, who are losing sleep, who are skipping meals, and who are having breakdowns.
Yes, it is mindboggling to me that people privileged enough to attend Yale are indulging in "breakdowns" because somebody has a different view than they do.
Grow the fuck up or get to the sort of institution that helps people whose feelings are too fragile to allow them to function in adult society.








Ken at Popehat put his finger on the critical issue:
- There are people who want emotional safety, in that they can choose to withdraw and not listen to others exercising their freedom of speech.
- There are other people who want emotional safety, by denying other people their rights.
Most of these overly sensitive college students are in the second category: They want to deny other people's rights, be it the free choice of halloween costume, or the right to freedom of association, or the right to free speech.
a_random_guy at November 9, 2015 11:01 PM
Reddit user AlwaysGetsDownvoted put it best when explaining this inexplicable behavior of SJWs:
donkeyrock at November 9, 2015 11:23 PM
How does she get any studying done at all with her head so far up her butt. I'd like to send her a box of emotional Tampons. She could pack them up her ass until the pressure on her brain subsides.
Of course if she does ever get it pulled loose she'll be all brown-faced. Will she apologize, or celebrate the end of her white privilege?
Canvasback at November 9, 2015 11:26 PM
"No Dear, Nana did not go to college because someone wore a sombrero and a mustache."
Bob in Texas at November 10, 2015 3:52 AM
Her name is Jerelyn Luther. She's from Fairfield, Conn., where she sometimes works in her Mom's business, Creative Concepts, writing blogs for clients. This Yalie Senior has been inspired by her trip to Israel to want to visit at least 2/3s of the countries of the world - no doubt from the vantage point of four and five star hotels and similar safe places where she can sip bottled water and snack on non-GMO, carbon neutral, organic, transfat free, organic chips, harvested and prepared by content natives who remain in contact with Gaia by heating their homes and cooking with cow dung. (OK, I made up this last part. The rest is from her rapidly disappearing social media accounts. Funny, you'd think she'd be proud that her anti- privilege views had become so well known, and want all to appreciate from whence she'd come and all she had to overcome. But, as we say in the working world: "Reality can be a real bitch when the facts catch up with you."
Wfjag at November 10, 2015 4:55 AM
I'm not sure I have anything interesting to add, but I found this statement to be the most shocking: "They have again and again shown that they are committed to an ideal of free speech, not to the Silliman community."
I've never seen a commitment to free speech being upheld as a fault before. Yes, I think the commitment to free speech supersedes their supposed commitment to the Silliman community. The community is changing every year, but the concept of free speech was here before they were born and, God willing, will be here after they die.
Patrick at November 10, 2015 5:01 AM
This is the best, Bob in Texas: "No Dear, Nana did not go to college because someone wore a sombrero and a mustache."
And great point, Patrick. It was amazing to me, too.
This shrieking woman in the video is black. Does she not understand how essential the First Amendment was to the civil rights movement? And is?
The new civil rights movement is about retaining our rights from people like her, who'd take them away to prevent hurt feelz.
Amy Alkon at November 10, 2015 5:36 AM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2015/11/coddled-brats-a.html#comment-6285519">comment from Amy AlkonMeet the shrieker: http://dailycaller.com/2015/11/09/meet-the-privileged-yale-student-who-shrieked-at-her-professor/
Amy Alkon
at November 10, 2015 5:59 AM
". Does she not understand how essential the First Amendment was to the civil rights movement? And is?"
She doesn't even know what document the First Amendment is in.
The narcissistic bubble these people were raised in, doesn't let much education through.
Isab at November 10, 2015 6:13 AM
"I only wish I had the time and resources to keep taking college classes today." Sounds good in theory, but when you see who is actually teaching, and what the classes are actually about (race! class! gender!), the appeal fades.
Steven at November 10, 2015 6:50 AM
"...the aftermath of the email..."
Wow, good thing it wasn't a Facebook post!
Man, I am so glad I went to a cow college in a flyover state (North Dakota State University, Go Bison!). And 30 years ago, too. I would have gotten screwed up a lot more than I already was/am.
bkmale at November 10, 2015 7:11 AM
"But going to college is a privilege . . ."
Yep, it is a privilege.
And given that schools only have so many slots available for incoming students as I read about the spoiled brats and, especially, watching that video of the screaming idiot, makes me wonder about those who lost out on the opportunity of attending college by the schools admitting these brats instead?
charles at November 10, 2015 7:26 AM
BKMale,
Even at cow colleges you have these issues. Just not as bad. I went to OU in Oklahoma. One of the gender/race profs was famous for requiring all instances of Black to be capitalized no matter how it was used and all instances of white had to be lower case.
So 'I went to the store and saw a Black sticker.' is correct as is 'Mr. white went to the store.' At least according to him. All white students automatically lost a letter grade by virtue of being white in his class. Personally I preferred the Jewish prof who learned physics from the Nazis. He was hard but fair. The Nazis didn't award partial credit either but unlike them the prof did't kill anyone making less than an A.
Ben at November 10, 2015 7:36 AM
"They have again and again shown that they are committed to an ideal of free speech, not to the Silliman community."
Obviously not a black kid raised in a small town where the "right" people decided what community values are, how they are applied, and to whom.
For that matter not a black kid raised in a "black" community either.
Bob in Texas at November 10, 2015 8:56 AM
"Man, I am so glad I went to a cow college in a flyover state..."
Me too. I actually learned some stuff that was acutally, you know, true. Although I don't know if I would have the same experience today. The rot in academia is spreading everywhere.
Cousin Dave at November 10, 2015 6:05 PM
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