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If someone offers you cake and you say, ‘Oh, I’d love some!’, that’s consent.
If someone offers you cake and you don’t really feel like eating it but say, ‘Sure, I’d love some!’, because you don’t want to hurt their feelings, that’s also consent.
If you say, ‘Thanks, but I don’t think so’, and they convince you to change your mind, that’s also consent. It doesn’t matter how many times you said no. It doesn’t matter if your friend was being an obnoxious, guilt-tripping, sulky, passive-aggressive pest. (Well, it matters. It may be a reason to reconsider your friendship. But it’s certainly not a reason to go to the cops.) As long as you were free to refuse the cake without risking some tangible harm, it’s up to you to grow a spine.
If you’re drunk (but sufficiently in control of your faculties to eat cake…), that’s also consent. If you weren’t thinking straight and ate so much cake you were sick the next day, chalk it up as a valuable learning experience.
Now, somebody make the above a public service announcement. I even have a title for the campaign: ‘Consent: it’s a piece of cake.’
Speaking of illegal immigration, SanFran's sheriff lost relection. No tears from me, or Kate Steinle. A taste of his misdeeds:
He had his driver's license briefly suspended for failing to properly report a minor accident while driving a department-issued car, and he also flunked a marksmanship test.
Before those two incidents, a drug gang leader escaped from jail, and guards were accused of staging and gambling on inmate fights.
In November 2014, Mirkarimi also was forced to apologize for the bungled search for a San Francisco General Hospital patient whose body was found in a stairwell weeks after she wandered from her room. The sheriff is in charge of the hospital's security, but deputies didn't search the building until nine days after her disappearance. The city paid the patient's family $3 million to settle a lawsuit.
But Mirkarimi is now known nationally for his strident defense of sanctuary city policies, taking the practice to a new level under his leadership.
EPIC. FAIL. Or "laws are for little people". Surprised that no one moved to have him removed from office.
I R A Darth Aggie
at November 4, 2015 2:18 PM
Interesting article on how it's more unusual to have a middle class than to have a few super-wealthy folks and a huge group of desperate slaves.
Cathy Young womansplains consent:
I R A Darth Aggie at November 4, 2015 8:25 AM
Legal immigrants aren't big fans of illegal immigration. Shazam!
Cousin Dave at November 4, 2015 10:12 AM
Speaking of illegal immigration, SanFran's sheriff lost relection. No tears from me, or Kate Steinle. A taste of his misdeeds:
EPIC. FAIL. Or "laws are for little people". Surprised that no one moved to have him removed from office.
I R A Darth Aggie at November 4, 2015 2:18 PM
Interesting article on how it's more unusual to have a middle class than to have a few super-wealthy folks and a huge group of desperate slaves.
This is exactly the sort of dangerous loose talk that could lead to your CEO not buying a fifth corporate jet, a la Carly Fiorina.
Gog_Magog_Carpet_Reclaimers at November 4, 2015 6:00 PM
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