Mental Illness Chic
Brendan O'Neill has a point:
One of the great media myths of the 21st century is that there's a taboo against talking about mental illness. Please. Then how come I can't open a newspaper or flick through my TV channels or browse social media without seeing someone go into grisly depth, often replete with sad selfies, about his latest bout of mental darkness? Far from taboo, having a mental illness, and talking about your mental illness, is all the rage. It's the latest must-have. You're no one unless you've had a mental episode. And I find this transformation of mental illness into a fashion accessory far worse than the old treatment of it as a taboo (which was very bad)....The problem here is that people are being told it's cool not to be able to cope, to embrace the identity of fragility. They are invited to think of themselves as incapable, to build their personality around being pathetic. That's terrible. The generous reading is that this ultimately expresses society's inability to provide people with a sense of purpose in their lives, with a moral framework for making sense of the world and our place within it, and this gives rise to a situation where people come to understand the problems they face not as social, political or economic, but as psychic. This is true, and it's a very worrying phenomenon. But at the same time, don't people also have choice and autonomy, however diminished these things might now be? Can't they refuse to adopt the mental-illness tag?
Note all those students claiming to be "triggered" by bits of Plato or "The Great Gatsby"? This is part of the whole trend of how it's cool to be mentally weak.
I blogged about this recently: "Suffering Chic: The Longing To Claim Membership In The Victim Class."
Professing victimhood as a way to get attention is a form of "covert narcissism" -- a term I once heard from a professor friend. It describes people who use "Oh, downtrodden me!" and awful things that have befallen them to get others to feel sorry for them, attend to their needs, and generally put the spotlight on them.There's a whole lot of that going on on campus, with so many students claiming to be traumatized. This being America in 2017, with more comforts and ease for all than at any other time in human history, what is there to be traumatized by?
There are people -- of course -- who have suffered actual trauma. But for the rest, hurt feelz will have to do. This ends up causing students who feel in need of attention and something to be a part of to claim microaggressions and all other manner of bullshit to be injuring them. Deeply, deeply.
Unfortunately, a big taboo is telling these people to snap the fuck out of it.
Merely questioning them -- debating them in the slightest -- can bring down all sorts of hell (and especially, social media hell on a person or a professor). Professors without tenure are especially worried about saying the wrong thing -- which, really, is anything anyone says gives them a case of hurt feelz.
The most shocking example of this is a professor friend -- a white guy -- who greeted his white, Jewish dad, who'd stopped by his class, with "'sup?"
He was accused in a student's email of misappropriating AAVE -- "African American Vernacular English."
Luckily, this went no further.
He didn't feel he could debate this. I can't remember what the outcome was. I hope he didn't apologize.
P.S. Elmore Leonard built a career on "appropriating" "African American Vernacular English," like in the great character of ex-Panther Donnell Lewis. Made his books a fun read.








There's a reason that they are called the "chattering class": they firmly believe in talking as a substitute for doing. The taboo is still in place, in a revised form: it's okay to talk about mental illness, but actually doing anything about it is verboten. It's like how post-modern feminism loves to go on and on (in the most explicit terms) about sex, but as far as actually having sex, they are taking us back to the Victorian era.
It's not even that they are well-spoken, for the most part. Well-spoken people know to choose words and phrases judiciously. They know where the optimum point on the curve is regarding how many words are needed to put across a given idea. Most of the chattering classes just spew. Their one talent consists of knowing how to monopolize a conversation and silence others.
Cousin Dave at April 21, 2017 6:46 AM
I think that doing could potentially be a cure -- like working some tough, physical job for a summer.
Too simple?
And regarding the spewing, there's a love of obfuscation -- making what you're saying as unintelligible as possible as a way of suggesting you're really smart and really educated.
My aim in my work is to do exactly the opposite -- to make complex stuff as accessible as possible to as many people as possible. (In my next book, I stop just short of giving a couple of neurons Dockers and a hat.)
Amy Alkon at April 21, 2017 7:13 AM
There are many mental conditions that one can work through, overcome, compensate for. Not all of course. But most of the ones people revel in talking about are in this category. By making it virtuous to be defective, we give no incentive to overcoming one's deficiencies. Some of the "problems" people whine about are as simple as being self-centered or lazy or imagining grievances against themselves (like SJWs do). All of these can be overcome.
cc at April 21, 2017 10:06 AM
Appropriating? They're speaking English. Note that word, it refers to the language of England. They need to stop.
a_random_guy at April 21, 2017 12:10 PM
Had severe depression in mid 20s, got over it, dont miss it in any way or form.
And in terms of appropriation. "African American Vernacular English" implies that those "africans" appropriated that English first, wholly. So, if that fucker likes to cry about one word, then how about we also talk about appropriation of a whole friggin language on top of that. and further bastardization of that language. I dont remember blacks asking for permission to use it. So that idiot can sod off.
Its one of those retarded claims, similar to demands for restitutions for black slavery. Completely ignoring while slavery, that has been going for far longer and involved a lot more white slaves captured by black african slavers.
Simon Grey at April 22, 2017 7:43 AM
Does anyone want to suggest the logical end of this? That is, if nobody is allowed to use stuff from cultures that aren't "theirs" (and how do we define that would be an issue), then only people with English backgrounds can use English.
Also, vaccines were invented by an English guy, so no vaccines either.
I believe a German invented the printing press, so no books if you aren't at least partially German.
Airplanes are American (and pasty-white American, if I'm not mistaken), so no airplanes if you aren't at least pasty-white.
No monotheism if you aren't of Hebrew descent - sorry Vatican - and no crackers either - Jews have a hold of the matzah category too!
It's ridiculous, of course.
Shannon at April 26, 2017 5:50 AM
Leave a comment