Grievance Hunter Takes On Horrible Indignity To Women From A Hotel's Print Ad
I read science journal articles all day, every day, but when I'm waiting for a minute or two to get let back into the office at my volunteer mediator job, I thumb through the ladies' mags in the waiting room.
It's fun. I love fashion. And I love big coffee table books with pictures of it, especially pictures of French fashion.
Yet some Australian journalist who apparently has nothing of importance to write about decided to do what's basically one of those junior high writing exercises where you imagine a bunch of things about a picture.
However, this exercise was basically "Decide that everything in the entire photo has some horrible sexist meaning." Which she did.
The story from Yahoo:
Sofitel Brisbane, a hotel in Brisbane, Australia, is being accused of gender stereotyping after publishing a seemingly innocent yet apparently sexist ad of a young couple having breakfast in bed.Lounging in their bathrobes, with a selection of croissants, fruit salad, and other baked goods on display, the couple stare lovingly into each other's eyes -- but it's their reading material that has social media users up in arms.
A closer look reveals the woman is halfway through a Chanel coffee-table book, while the man is catching up on the Australian Financial Review.
Elizabeth Redman, a reporter at the newspaper the Australian, called out the Brisbane hotel on Twitter, writing "your breakfast looks delicious ... just wanted to let you know I'm a woman and I also read the Financial Review every day."
Others piled on:
"Ah yes, those hotel mornings when you wake up, put your hair in a nice chignon and read a coffee table book about Chanel," one commenter jabbed. "Of course, the fruit platter is on her side, she'd be loath to touch the baked goods," another wrote, while a third said, "No more diminishing please, in any form."
Here's the photo:

As for which food is where, chances are, some stylist put everything where it is -- based on color and proportion.
Does our little grievance hunter think this woman is too passive to say, "Pass me a croissant, hun"?
My problem with this is the same as this guy's who tweeted to the hotel to basically grow a fucking pair. Please, somebody do that the next time one of these nitwits goes all Mel Gibson taking on the Brits over a print ad's supposed sexism.








A picture showing croissants. So insensitive to gluten intolerant people. Oh, the humanity!
(Advice to the hotel’s marketing department: You can’t please everyone, but, you can ignore the crazies. Don’t feed the trolls. By replying, you turned an ignorable troll tweet into a viral event and showed yourselves to be twit-and-a-half troll retweeters.)
Wfjag at October 12, 2018 1:21 AM
I read your headline and was all excited to disagree with you and post about it but then I read the article and yeah, they are really stretching.
I mean, are there no actual misogynistic photos out there to complain about?!
NicoleK at October 12, 2018 4:19 AM
It's an odd thing about humans NicoleK. And is especially apparent in politics. People like to make up all kinds of crazy stories about things and ignore the far more damning real stuff. With both Bush and Obama I was amazed about all the crazy and unbelievable fake stories people pushed about them, while at the same time ignoring real ones that were far worse than the fake ones they preferred.
Ben at October 12, 2018 5:53 AM
> is being accused of gender stereotyping
However, "stereotype accuracy -- the correspondence of stereotype beliefs with criteria -- is one of the largest relationships in all of social psychology. The correlations of stereotypes with criteria range from .4 to over .9, and average almost .8 for cultural stereotypes (the correlation of beliefs that are widely shared with criteria) and.5 for personal stereotypes (the correlation of one individual's stereotypes with criteria, averaged over lots of individuals). The average effect in social psychology is about .20. Stereotypes are more valid than most social psychological hypotheses."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/rabble-rouser/201210/stereotype-inaccuracy
Snoopy at October 12, 2018 6:31 AM
But the ad would have been more amusing had she also been reading the same paper. As it stands, it’s sort of lazy imagery.
KateC at October 12, 2018 7:25 AM
Better they had put her in greasy overalls crawling under the sink with a wrench in her hand and a copy of Engineering Times sticking out of her pocket?
Conan the Grammarian at October 12, 2018 7:52 AM
NicoleK, I really appreciate your open-mindedness, willingness to rethink.
Amy Alkon at October 12, 2018 8:48 AM
I have traveled for years so observe business people as well as vacationers on planes and at the airport. Many people do not read on the plane. Of those who do, I would say it is 10:1 men:women reading something serious as opposed to a novel or women's magazine. So this stereotype is true.
cc at October 13, 2018 7:54 PM
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