Sheryl Sandberg's Tarnished Golden Bullshit
Here, from Bloomberg (via Ad Age), is a sample:
In October 2017, Facebook was preparing for its first-ever congressional hearing on Russia's interference in the U.S. presidential election. Before the public grilling, Sandberg wanted to make a personal visit to Washington D.C., thinking she could smooth things over behind the scenes. But the company didn't have much to say about how it was fixing holes in its system that let Russia run its manipulation campaign, and it didn't have satisfying answers about why it failed to catch the operation. So the company's policy advisers asked Sandberg not to go. And if she did go, they suggested she listen more than talk, according to people familiar with the matter.Sandberg went anyway, with plenty of talking points. It didn't work. She mostly told lawmakers that Facebook should have moved faster to find problems, and promised to do better. In some cases, like in a meeting with the Congressional Black Caucus, the lack of substance backfired. Members of the caucus told the media afterwards that they wanted concrete changes, not promises.
It was the beginning of a campaign that focused largely on the perception of Facebook, not the reality of its flaws. The company said Sandberg took this approach, however unsatisfying, because world leaders were interested in hearing from people in power at Facebook, and it seemed better than not showing up. But The New York Times detailed how Sandberg's side of the organization obfuscated and denied problems. That included hiring a firm that helped Facebook smear critics behind the scenes, in part by linking a Facebook protest group to the billionaire George Soros, who is often the subject of anti-Semitic conspiracy theories.
Duff McDonald writes at Vanity Fair about how Harvard B-school grad Sheryl Sandberg fooled people for quite a while with her stylish veneer of integrity -- but like others in the "leadership" industry (versus the former business culture of developing "managers"), she lacks a "functioning moral compass":
Facebook's leadership culture, as should be clear by now, has been anything but open, transparent, or authentic. A true leader would not have had to write a post defending herself in light of her company's hiring of a P.R. firm, Definers, that leveraged anti-Semitic conspiracy theories about George Soros to deflect attention from Facebook's own missteps. ("I did not know we hired them or about the work they were doing, but I should have," wrote Sandberg, who was hired, in part, to manage Facebook's Washington relationships.) A true leader would not have overseen the company's rampant abuse and sale of user data, after promising the Federal Trade Commission that it would be more responsible about doing so. A true leader would not have spent five whole days staying silent after The New York Times reported on Cambridge Analytica's access and exploitation of Facebook user data in March 2018, only to later claim that she and Zuckerberg had previously asked the source of that leak to destroy said data but had failed to confirm that they had done so. Sandberg and Zuckerberg--another Harvard alum--included the same line in their respective mea culpas: "We have a responsibility to protect your data--if we can't, then we don't deserve to serve you."That's a hilarious statement for those familiar with the serpentine argot of America's ruling class. Consider the use of the word "serve"--that's the kind of nonsense they spew at McKinsey, working "in service" of their clients when they're just as mercenary and self-interested as the next M.B.A. Does Sheryl Sandberg, the C.O.O. of a company whose primary product is user data, want us to believe she's been trying to "protect" it all this time?
Perhaps on some level, Sandberg, like Zuckerberg, still believes Facebook are the good guys. "They're in Silicon Valley, surrounded by their white liberal friends, peddling their version of how great for society they are because they've been connecting people," a prominent female C.E.O. of a New York-based firm told me. But, she explained, "There's also a kind of entrepreneurial delusion that seems unavoidable when you get that big, that fast. They were too focused on making every sale, making Wall Street happy, raising the stock price, and making themselves rich and self-satisfied. When you get that wealthy, you start to buy your own bullshit."
...Especially when it comes to moral issues like privacy, around which both Sandberg and Facebook have a history of demonstrating poor judgment. While H.B.S. is correct in its assertion that it produces people who can make decisions, the fact of the matter is that they have never emphasized how to make the right ones.
Consider investment banker Bowen McCoy's "The Parable of the Sadhu," published in Harvard Business Review in 1977, and again 20 years later. It addressed what seemed, at least to the H.B.S. crowd, to be an ethical dilemma. McCoy was on a trip to the Himalayas when his expedition encountered a sadhu, or holy man, near death from hypothermia and exposure. Their compassion extended only to clothing the man and leaving him in the sun, before continuing on to the summit. One of McCoy's group saw a "breakdown between the individual ethic and the group ethic," and was gripped by guilt that the climbers had not made absolutely sure that the sadhu made it down the mountain alive. McCoy's response: "Here we are . . . at the apex of one of the most powerful experiences of our lives. . . . What right does an almost naked pilgrim who chooses the wrong trail have to disrupt our lives?"
McCoy later felt guilt over the incident, but his parable nevertheless illustrated the extent to which aspiring managers might justify putting personal accomplishment ahead of collateral damage--including the life of a dying man. The fact that H.B.S. enthusiastically incorporated said parable into its curriculum says far more about the fundamental mindset of the school than almost anything else that has come out of it.
Nobody's expecting business to go all touchy-feely/never mind about the profits. But the difference here is between the veneer of running a much better sort of company and the reality.
RELATED: Here's my piece on Sandberg's book from the New York Observer, "Science Says 'Lean In' Is Filled With Flawed Advice, Likely to Hurt Women."








Amy often seems too harsh on feminism as a revolutionary force in world affairs, but so is most everybody nowadays. People oughta think big. Having women finally take part (and leadership) in so many fields in the past century (+) has been an incalculable blessing for all of our lives.
But Amy is VERY resistant to many of contemporary feminism's trite hairdo-&-hemline fads, of which Sandberg is an outstanding exemplar.
Or maybe "was an..." Wouldn't that be cool?
Crid at November 28, 2018 11:48 PM
It almost sounds like large multinational corporations don't care about people.
Snoopy at November 29, 2018 4:20 AM
In Twain's Connecticut Yankee, the author describes Merlin as a con man who believes his own con, "he was an old numskull, a magician who believed in his own magic."
Over time, those in power start to believe the lie that got them into power.
At some point in the lives of a great institutions, the continued existence of the institution takes on paramount importance. Lately Penn State and the Catholic Church have both been mired in scandal due to people on the inside thinking that protecting the institution was more important than protecting the people the institution purported to serve.
In McCoy's parable, protecting the mission of getting to the top, was of paramount importance, to the exclusion of any competing moral obligation.
That works in military missions, wherein the wounded might be left behind, or worse, in order to make sure the mission is completed. However, in cases like that, the participants accept the primacy of "the mission" over themselves. Witness the spy movie cyanide capsule trope, wherein the spy ingests poison rather than risk the mission.
In the case of the priest abuse scandals, the molested children (or their parents) never accepted that the Church might have to molest them in pursuit of its mission, a mission that was ostensibly, and ironically, protecting them from evil.
In Penn State's case, Joe Paterno trusted the institution and its guardians so completely that he ignored evidence in front of his own eyes that nothing had been done to correct an evil. He did not risk the institution by going to outside authorities. Unfortunately for "Joe Pa," the institution survived, but his good name did not.
We're celebrating (too strong a word) the anniversary of the Jonestown Massacre this month. Another example of the institution, the cult, being more important than the lives of the individuals in it.
Collectivism is a monstrous evil. The institution should never be able to put itself put ahead of the welfare of the people in it or affected by it, whether it's the government, the Church, the university, or the company.
"Whenever someone demands blind obedience, you'd be a fool not to peek." ~ Anonymous
Conan the Grammarian at November 29, 2018 5:33 AM
Sandberg, Holmes, and especially female elected leaders like Merkel show that gender really is irrelevant when you get to that level. You've eliminated so much of the population that general group characteristics don't matter. They are just as cruel and corrupt as any man in a similar position.
Ben at November 29, 2018 6:17 AM
Good essay Amy on Sandberg's book. A question you kind of circle around is why men are more comfortable with hierarchies? For a million years, men went out to hunt or do battle in groups. Such a group is many times more successful with a good and strong leader than as a mob. In group settings, men will vote for a leader and pretty consistently pick the most competent/confident guy. Ball teams, committees, volunteer groups. It need not be imposed, they will pick one. It reduces competition/jostling and makes the group more effective. Research on primates has shown that if you remove the troup head male, fighting breaks out, and not just among those trying to replace him. Even females and subordinate males can spend more time grooming when their is a big chief who keeps the peace and the big chief can be observed breaking up fights.
cc at November 29, 2018 9:37 AM
This is what I remember from her book:
“When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.”
Shit advice. For a lot of girls, this is exactly the way to piss off the non-bad boys, who will NEVER forget how they had been treated. At 59, I can still name the girls who acted like that in high school. I would not pee on them if they were on fire.
I always wondered how her poor sad-sack husband felt after reading that crapola.
Chester White at December 4, 2018 4:40 PM
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