The Self-Interest In Precious-izing People With Disabilities
I've really had it with all the "woke" who seem to stake out positions on social media so they can always be at the ready to pounce on any bit of humor that hasn't been approved by, oh, 6 out of 5 gender studies professors and Judith Butler's coffee mug.
A dear friend of mine -- a truly sweet guy who makes the world a better place -- posted a shot on Facebook that I found hilarious, with the comment, "lol Happy Halloween."
One commenter there scolded him (with a little sad face at the end of her remark):
Being funny ideally means punching up and not punching down 😕
Another commenter went right to the Teen Vogue article scold in a link:
While we often talk about not culturally appropriating on Halloween, it's equally as important that we don't dress up as any kind of marginalized or stigmatized group -- including people with health issues or disabled people.
And let's do a lap around the track on Ralph, the reasoning pony. The pilot wasn't mocking being blind. He was playing on people's fears about flying -- making people laugh with the momentary scare that the airline had hired a guy to fly their plane who couldn't see...being able to see to land and read the instruments being a rather integral part of that job.
Surely nobody did a doubletake at Ray Charles in his dark glasses at the piano because vision isn't a meaningful part of piano playing.
In response to the scoldies' remarks, I posted in the comments on my friend's post:
The humor police are out in force!...signaling that they are members of the PC tribe. (The photo is hilarious, by the way.)Here's my late quadriplegic cartoonist friend John Callahan on how dehumanizing it is for people with disabilities to be treated as too precious to joke about. Excerpt from a column I wrote:
Callahan ... buzzed around Portland in a motorized wheelchair, cracking jokes like, "See my new shoes? I hear they're very comfortable."Callahan understood that a person's disability often becomes a big wall between them and the rest of us because we're afraid of doing or saying the wrong thing. But through his refusal to, uh, pussychair around the subject, Callahan told people how the disabled want to be treated, which is "just like everyone else." And because the rest of us get poked fun of, Callahan did cartoons featuring disabled people. One of these has a posse on horseback in the desert looking down at an empty wheelchair. The posse leader reassures the others, "Don't worry, he won't get far on foot" -- which became the title of Callahan's autobiography.
I have a friend who buzzes around Manhattan in purple, leopard, and a motorized wheelchair, so I pinged her in the comments on my friend's post to see what she thought:
Hey, Jacquie, what do you think about this cartoon and what I wrote? Figured you might have a perspective, since you are one of the few these days whose sense of humor has yet to fall into a sidewalk grate and be lost forever.
Before she commented, I posted this about that "punching down" remark, with her quote in at the start:
"Being funny ideally means punching up and not punching down 😕" -- this "punching down" in relation to the photo suggests that the person who wrote that believes blind people are "less than." Yick.
(Side note: Always love when dour people lecture funny people on what humor is. And sure, sorry -- just guessing on the dour, but I'm guessing I'm right.)
Jacquie wrote:
It's like a skit I saw with Stevie Wonder himself at the wheel of a car. We're in on the joke - but then you know me, I'm not terribly crip-sensitive and goof on my own disability, so maybe I'm the wrong person to weigh in! That said, for years I've search for what I believe WAS a Callahan cartoon I once saw of a gallows pole with a hangman's noose that had a wheelchair sign and ramp going up to it! I think it was in one of the men's mags before the ADA passed and I STILL crack-up when I think about it!! The guy was brilliant AND twisted!!
I wrote back:
Thanks, Jacquie -- that's a hilarious cartoon...I bet it is a Callahan. I think I might remember it, or maybe it's just being able to picture it from your email.I just see a lot of this -- people condescendingly "protecting" people with disabilities. I think they need to ask themselves if they're getting something out of doing this -- like maybe a little "I'm in the PC tribe" bump or a feeling of virtuousness.
Jacquie replied:
Amy Alkon I think maybe it's because it seems like pretty much everyone knows someone with some sort of disability and are (and I really hate the latter half of this term) are "semi-woke". I also think non-disabled people are unconsciously realizing that being disabled is the ONLY minority that anyone can "join" at any time. The old "there but for the grace of god go I" thing.
It's ironic that in a world that's physically safer for humans than at any other time in history, so many people feel so compelled to reach out and "protect" others.
So much social media, so much virtue signaling still left undone!
UPDATE: This guy is one of those people who didn't click on the link to the post I tweeted, but I love this:
There was a photo of an airline pilot wearing dark glasses and using a white cane on Halloween that had the woke crowd upset. I asked my blind sister if it offended her. She said "I don't know, i didn't see it"
— S2 Pedasso (@Mstewable) November 2, 2018
Callahan used to laugh when people in his presence unthinkingly shot off lines like, "You can get there on your own two feet," and then were horrified.








"Frog legs."
Crid at November 1, 2018 11:36 PM
I volunteer a lot of time helping and coaching Special Olympians. What people with disabilities want is what non disabled people want, to be included in the group and part of the action. Being part of the joke is a strong way to include people in the group. I sometimes tease, but I also let my team members tease me back. All the team members and other coaches know that I hate Fruit Punch GatorAid. So, at the end of the game, when drinks are handed out, all that’s left for me is a Fruit Punch GatorAid, and I make a show of gagging, grimacing and lots of “This is awful. Why’d you take all the good drinks!”. And, the team members all laugh that they’ve pulled one off on coach (again). And, win or loose, we’re The Ice Cream Team. It seems to work since for six years straight we have made it to the state tournament. My athletes were the ones who were “protected” in school by the SJW types, so they were left on the sidelines. Now, they are part of the group, and learn to become part of a team, and get to play at state and now say “Been there, done that, and got the T-shirt.” Being in on the joke and bonding through laughter is an essential part of that. IMO, it is excluding people to “protect” them which is cruel.
Wfjag at November 2, 2018 1:53 AM
The woke people do have a sense of humor.
Just check how much much they laugh when they bully businesses into firing someone they don't like.
Or when a conservative gets assaulted, they laugh even harder if said conservative is wounded and bleeding on the ground.
Remember how much they enjoyed sharing the video of Eric Clanton hitting that poor guy in the head with a bike lock. That's comedy gold.
Sixclaws at November 2, 2018 6:13 AM
It must be so tiring to be constantly offended at everything in the world and doubly so when you are feeling offended on someone else's behalf.
Shtetl G at November 2, 2018 6:56 AM
"The woke people do have a sense of humor.
Just check how much much they laugh when they bully businesses into firing someone they don't like."
A characteristic of people within the cluster B personality disorders (narcissistic, borderline, histrionic) is that they don't "get" ordinary humor. They consider it a waste of their time, and some of them are aggressively opposed to it. But almost universally, they consider cruelty towards anyone or anything that isn't in their "in' group to be uproariously funny. Many of them committed acts of animal cruelty as children (and some continue to as adults), because they were amused by the poor animal's suffering.
If you know someone with this characteristic, stay far, far away.
Cousin Dave at November 2, 2018 7:06 AM
So I and two buddies can't go as the Three Blind Refs? I've seen that on more than one occasion at hockey games, as typically they use a 3 person ref team.
And on more than one occasion I've yelled at the actual refs "which game are you watching? I'm pretty sure it isn't this one!". Which is why the costume is so funny.
I R A Darth Aggie at November 2, 2018 7:20 AM
One Mardi Gras, when Charlie Sheen was all over the news, I donned a bowling shirt, an Afro wig and a sign that said "Charlie Afro Sheen."
I'm white; most of the folks who thought it was hilarious and wanted a picture with me were black.
Kevin at November 2, 2018 11:00 AM
Since the ADA passed, employment of the disabled has fallen. How? Because the disabled can be incompetent jerks just like anyone else, and if the employer fears he can never fire them, he won't hire them. duh
We are all disabled in some ways, just not so visible. If you saw me shoot hoops you would say "disabled". Some people are tone-deaf or color-blind. People have learning disabilities. Injured knees. If you think being elderly isn't a disability it is only because you haven't gotten there yet. And some, sad to say, are humor-challenged. The internet has given this last group a bull-horn, unfortunately.
I have some black friends and we had been talking about Rosa Parks and a few days later as I came into church I walked past them sitting in the back. I leaned over and whispered "You know, you don't HAVE to sit in the back..." and they just busted up. I am sure some idiot would find that inappropriate, but screw them.
cc at November 2, 2018 11:24 AM
To borrow from the famous (or infamous) phrase by Johnnie Cochran...
If it's not a joke, you must be woke.
JD at November 3, 2018 12:03 PM
I R A Darth Aggie: So I and two buddies can't go as the Three Blind Refs?
Absolutely not. And you also can't go as Three Blonde Mice because that would be offensive to People of Hair Color.
JD at November 3, 2018 12:25 PM
That photo showed up on my facebook feed on Halloween. I chuckled about it, thinking "what a great Halloween prank," then went on with my day without giving it another thought.
I guess I'm not "woke" since I didn't immediately feel an offense toward blind people.
Conan the Grammarian at November 3, 2018 12:44 PM
It's not enough to be offended on your own behalf: you must be offended for others!
Radwaste at November 4, 2018 1:22 AM
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