Advice Goddess Free Swim
It's Sunday night, and I'm wiped out.
You pick the topics. I'll try to post a piece in the morning.
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Advice Goddess Free Swim
It's Sunday night, and I'm wiped out.
You pick the topics. I'll try to post a piece in the morning.
P.S. One link per comment or my spam filter will eat your post.





• Maybe it will kinda blow over.
• "They did not resign from the police department, only from their roles on the team."
Crid at June 7, 2020 10:54 PM
Epidemiology touches every part of our lives. This, from months ago, awaits further explication:
Crid at June 7, 2020 10:59 PM
Is there anything that would make Trump voters feel they'd been hoodwinked?
Both the silly old men seem to be doing everything they can to avoid winning the election.
Crid at June 8, 2020 12:51 AM
You guys seen the 2020 quarter?
Crid at June 8, 2020 1:51 AM
They're transparent, so you can either wear them over your head, or, better, wrap them around your face several times.
NicoleK at June 8, 2020 6:20 AM
You guys seen the 2020 quarter?
Seems oddly appropriate.
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 7:12 AM
Oh. I would simply say "you owe me a replacement".
https://carbuzz.com/news/owner-furious-after-dealership-drops-c8-corvette-from-lift
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 7:56 AM
Probably not. The sane ones, who voted for him over Hillary, knew what they were getting but felt it was better than the alternative. The fan-boys voted for him to upset the status quo and to piss off Democrats. These were the folks who resented that the TEA Party was treated as an unruly bunch of racists by the media and the establishment, but BLM, Occupy, and Antifa are treasured. They wanted payback and Trump gives them that every time they see the media and the Democrats go nuts over him.
Same with the hardcore leftists. Antifa could brutally murder a police officer on a public street and the leftists would fall all over themselves to explain it as an understandable response to the systemic racism at the core of America. That those organizations are daily giving Republicans and Trumpistas apoplexy only reaffirms leftist support for them and forgiveness for any actions committed by them.
The US Civil War was preceded by a decade of hostility and bloodshed - Bloody Kansas, Harpers Ferry, fistfights in Congress, Nat Turner's Rebellion, et al. Is history repeating? Have we become that divided?
I worry for the future of the republic. We are the heirs of the greatest experiment in individual liberty in the history of the human race; and we're throwing it all away in a fit of petulance. At least the Civil War was about something. The current unrest is just a childish temper tantrum writ large.
If Trump is elected, the country will tear itself apart on inauguration day. If Biden is elected, it will take a few weeks longer.
Conan the Grammarian at June 8, 2020 8:20 AM
Here's an op-ed that nobody at the New York Times had any problem publishing
https://twitter.com/greg_price11/status/1268681976044797956
Ben David at June 8, 2020 9:34 AM
SJWs always project:
https://mobile.twitter.com/ADHD_Extreme/status/1270010119502233601
Sixclaws at June 8, 2020 9:37 AM
https://www.thecollegefix.com/canadian-professor-canned-for-opinion-that-biological-sex-is-a-real-thing/
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 9:57 AM
When they say "silence is violence" but also tell you STFU.
https://twitter.com/RantyAmyCurtis/status/1270033960735780867
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 10:39 AM
Ben David, I looked up the word, just to be sure. As I suspected, the definition is about feelings, NOT actions, criminal or otherwise.
OK, I didn't read the op-ed just yet, so maybe the title is misleading.
At any rate, I can only hope that if someone with a CLEAN record is somehow revealed to have those feelings (likely because of some unethical blabbermouth) that person would still be legally allowed to go to any public park.
Not to mention that when we have no compassion for people's feelings, whether they're based on anger or not, that makes it all the harder for the subjects to repress their bad actions. Take, for example, the five year old who is bitterly jealous of the new baby but who gets no sympathy or attention. Such a child is more likely to hit the baby or worse, right?
Lenona at June 8, 2020 10:43 AM
When momma finds out you've been up to no good. An oldie, but a goodie.
https://twitter.com/mel_faith1/status/1163422333371072512
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 11:10 AM
Lenona, that's not the problem. The problem comes somewhere down the line when an op-ed runs with
"Time to Decriminalize Pedophilia?"
Is that 6 months from now? two years from now? at some point, a line must be drawn of "This far. No further. Or else."
I feel sorry for people who are attracted to children. They have a tough road to walk if they wish to stay out of prison. And if they falter and end up in prison, that road got just that much tougher.
That said, these aren't 5 year olds with jealousy issues.
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 11:20 AM
If you had "snailien" on your 2020 ShitStorm bingo card, you might be a winner!
https://www.facebook.com/papajimsecola/photos/a.2147885092127350/2527196050862917/?type=3
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 11:23 AM
When everybody already knows what the truth is, who needs a paper of record?
Well, actually, the people annoyed by the resignation presumably understand that there are new things to learn every morning.
BTW, duzzinibuddy remember that time muscular mooks were issued fraudulent LEO badges by the Chicago Department of Aviation and then dispatched by a contractor for United Airlines to walk onto an airliner, crush the face of a paying passenger, and drag his semi-conscious ass back out to into the terminal at O'Hare?
You do? Good. BOLO.
Might be seeing more of that, and not just in the City of the Broad Shoulders.
Crid at June 8, 2020 11:42 AM
> you can either wear them
> over your head, or
Got it.
Was amused by the concept of Belly Dancing Days, and how they came to an end.
Crazy ways are evident in the way you're wearing your clothes....
Crid at June 8, 2020 11:50 AM
Of course legal lines have to be drawn - and kept.
Did you mean that hypothetical title to say "Time to Decriminalize Pedophilic Behavior"? (I trust just having those feelings is not a crime.)
Unfortunately for me, I was too hasty. (Never look up just ONE source, online!) I looked up "pedophilia" again, and Psychology Today said:
"Pedophilia is defined as recurrent and intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors involving sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children—generally age 13 years or younger—over a period of at least six months."
So it would help if we had separate words for feelings and actions in that case.
The fact is, we simply can't have "thought crime." We very much need to learn to distinguish between feelings and behaviors - and work to UNDERSTAND where feelings come from and how to deal with them, whether in ourselves or other people, to prevent worse things from happening. (Yes, one could argue that most of the time, controlling feelings - whether they're dangerous or not - is more important than expressing those feelings, if only because the odds are too high that some gossip will distort your expressions, in the retelling, to all the wrong people.)
Btw, small jealous children are no laughing matter. Even non-jealous ones. Just a few years ago, there was a father who left his daughter - younger than 6, maybe - in the back seat of a car with her baby brother while he went shopping for at least an hour. The baby's constant crying made her so angry, she accidentally strangled him with the seat belt. (She was crying when the father got back - she had thought the baby was sleeping, but soon realized what had happened. The father got charged, of course.)
While of course there are often laws against letting small children "babysit" in empty houses or cars, that doesn't change the fact that most people don't really expect THAT type of violence to happen, because they don't really understand or anticipate how angry kids can get. They only anticipate innocent accidents that happen out of neglect, not anger.
Lenona at June 8, 2020 11:53 AM
Here it is - it's from 2018.
https://www.newsweek.com/texas-girl-6-accused-strangling-baby-brother-seat-belt-dad-shopped-1223827
Lenona at June 8, 2020 12:02 PM
Might be seeing more of that, and not just in the City of the Broad Shoulders.
IowaHawk figured that works out to $12K each individual. I didn't check his math to see if that includes cuts of the vig from elected and un-elected officials, the company itself, union dues, taxes, withholding and so on, so forth and et cetera.
Oh, from the fine article:
Also according to the article, the $12K per figure is gross. So, if they walk with $4K that won't be too terrible. For them. They'll probably shake down the looters, too.
Lifelock was way ahead of things: https://youtu.be/x8FNVsbnwWE
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 12:16 PM
> I feel sorry for people who
> are attracted to children.
Years ago I used to listen to Carolla & Pinsky on Loveline (radio). (Radio was a popular form of electronic communication, point-to-multipoint.) Even then I was decades beyond their target demo, but human nature was exposed with humor and tremendous clarity… Nothing helps you see the outlines like a child making a mistake.
It had been a rough night, with several tragic phone calls from kids needing advice, each for some manifestation of childhood sexual abuse: An incompetent parent who'd been twisted into alcoholism and mental illness by Grandpa in the Old Country, a girl tormented by stepbrothers, on and on.
And before starting a commercial break, Carolla (the *comedian*!) boiled over with frustration and addressed his whole audience, paraphrasing— 'Listen, if you're an adult and you're sexually attracted to kids, just kill yourself, okay? I'm sorry. But IT'S NOT GOING TO GET ANY BETTER. So just go ahead an take a bullet for the team.'
It was coarse and simpleminded, and after those calls, it felt perfectly correct. Pinsky — the doctor, and usually a law & order guy with professional enthusiasm for psychotherapeutic solutions — let Carolla's rant spool out without challenging or interrupting. And it didn't seem like he was too appalled to speak, it sounded like the horrors he'd just heard about from young sufferers had put him in a similar mood.
Crid at June 8, 2020 12:17 PM
Of course legal lines have to be drawn - and kept.
Did you mean that hypothetical title to say "Time to Decriminalize Pedophilic Behavior"?
Agree with the first, and the second is what I meant. NAMBLA has been pushing that for decades. Most people think of them as screwballs and nuts, but they keep pushing for legalization of the behavior.
We certainly don't need a Bureau of Pre-Crime. Let's not give them ideas. Minority Report was supposed to be fiction, both entertaining and potentially thought provoking.
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 12:24 PM
> If Trump is elected, the country
> will tear itself apart on
> inauguration day. If Biden is
> elected, it will take a few
> weeks longer.
Sounds about right. I regard all this madness as liberalism morphed into carcinoma. We knew it when talking about "political correctness" almost thirty years ago. But the presumption and the naivete of the lefties are mutually accelerating in a non-linear curve. Their energy is nakedly religious and cannibalistic.
But the time frame of greater interest are on closer approach. Events are moving with insane speed: Within the span of days if not hours, twitchingly brittle corporations have begun furiously slamming millions (billions soon) of dollars into social services enterprises which are in no way prepared, ethically or administratively, to deploy them. A week ago, talk of dismantling police departments seemed like moonbarking madness, but enthusiasm is churning with almost literal blindness.
If there ISN'T a Covid spike by the 20th, people will be enraged, but if there IS, people will be enraged.
Also, there probably won't be political conventions. Also, voting will be tallied by mail or electronics, and many will doubt there's enough social cohesion to trust the degraded procedures.
Also, the candidates are ancient men, but not the wizened kind: One's a narcissist who's presumed to be a speedfreak, and the other's a famously poor-spoken figure whose plainly drifting into senility if not dementia. As interactions are stressed, these men do not betoken resilience.
Every 37 hours feels like two weeks… Governance in January is unimaginable.
Crid at June 8, 2020 12:55 PM
But IT'S NOT GOING TO GET ANY BETTER.
Truth.
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 12:56 PM
This sheriff is apparently controversial for other reasons.
Crid at June 8, 2020 1:17 PM
Wanting to believe it's true, but it's also from WHO.
https://www.cnbc.com/2020/06/08/asymptomatic-coronavirus-patients-arent-spreading-new-infections-who-says.html
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 1:26 PM
I'm sure they'll be able to spend the money. It just won't be particularly wise, or effective, or useful. But the NGOs will be able to afford to give themselves 6 figure salaries, and to hire their best buddy's businesses to push forward certain initiatives. Hopefully, they aren't harmful to the people they're supposed to help.
The corporations don't care about actual results. It's about what they say they've done, and what they say they're going to do.
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 1:43 PM
Whoa. From 2012:
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/8gvbg5/2012-is-bullshit-2020-is-when-well-really-be-in-trouble-fob-0003000-v19n10
I R A Darth Aggie at June 8, 2020 2:33 PM
How difficult to find "a modern, living, and well-respected scientists" of similar confidence regarding 2023, or 2017?
Crid at June 8, 2020 2:44 PM
Conan:
Which describes my reasons for voting for him in the first place. Hillary would have opened the doors for Middle Eastern refugees.
And as a veteran of Desert Storm, I can assure you that the typical Middle Easterner is not ready for Western culture.
I will not say this is true of all of them, but the prevailing attitude toward women isn't just archaic; it's barbaric.
They don't regard women as second-class citizens; that would be an improvement. They regard women as a public incidental to be used however they see fit. Much like a tin can that someone might kick down the street as they walk. To them, it is utterly incomprehensible that a woman has rights, can vote, and can dress however she wants. Any unaccompanied woman not covered from head -to-toe in anything more form-fitting than a garbage bag is fair game. It is their God-given to assault such women freely.
Much like Angela Merkle, Hillary is utterly incapable of grasping this concept. And the blinking Bambi-eyed liberals insist, "Oh, they're just like us..."
Oh, no, they're not.
Patrick at June 8, 2020 3:55 PM
His vehemence is his own, but still— The human beings of any given generation are not infinitely adaptable. He's got his eyes on the ball.
✔ Patrick at June 8, 2020 3:55 PM
Crid at June 8, 2020 5:02 PM
Y'know, if you said that Tom Hanks was secretly Justin Bieber and that Nancy Pelosi was actually Jessica Alba, you'd only have to wait two hours for someone on Twitter to agree. Still—
> Wanting to believe it's true,
> but it's also from WHO.
Via McArdle, your doubts are affirmed—
(This is about the fiftieth time this year to wish that there was a convenient way to transform "tweet storms" into reasonably paginated blog posts/documents. A lot of interesting ideas are squandered for being crushed into Twitter-powder.)Crid at June 8, 2020 5:16 PM
I'm not arguing they are. I voted for Trump with my eyes wide open. I knew I was getting a narcissistic ass, but one at least grounded in some form of reality. The people who would have been empowered by a Hillary election frightened me - both in their naiveté and their lust for power.
BLM and Antifa have spent the last week proving my concerns valid.
Conan the Grammarian at June 8, 2020 8:17 PM
BLM and Antifa have spent the last week proving my concerns valid.
Conan the Grammarian at June 8, 2020 8:17 PM
Just the last week?
Isab at June 8, 2020 9:23 PM
Interesting, Patrick, that wasn't my experience at all in the Palestinian territories in the 90s (similar time frame to you). Most people I met, particularly in the West Bank (Gaza was more conservative), were pretty modern. The guys as a group were a little sleazy, but in a Latin kind of way, in fact, my time in Italy was worse.
I even hitch hiked with no problems. (Yes, I now know how stupid that was and how lucky I ended up being, I was 19 so I was immortal).
NicoleK at June 8, 2020 10:08 PM
If you offered a better choice something like 70% of Trump supporters would switch. There really isn't much of a cult of personality around the guy. At least not among his voters.
That said you have to actually offer a better choice. No Mitt Romney doesn't count. No Gary Johnson either. The closest real alternative I can think of is Ted Cruz. But we will have to see who is available in 2024.
Ben at June 9, 2020 7:07 AM
The 2024 shoo-in is Nikki Haley.
"If Trump is elected, the country will tear itself apart on inauguration day. "
Nope. Faster with Biden, whose running mate COUNTS and has not been announced yet, though it is widely assumed it will be some suppurating pustule claiming victim status, used to wiping her feet on the Constitution, having never read it. Trump's people have nearly all firearms in personal hands, though there is doubt about how readily they will be used if necessary.
You can already see hints at what the nation thinks of blue-state thinking by the number of Sheriffs simply not enforcing executive orders.
There is a fundamental difference in who "the enemy" of liberty is in each case. For unrest under Trump? Deranged individuals. For unrest under Biden? A grasping State.
Perspective.
Radwaste at June 9, 2020 8:22 AM
I'd vote for Nikki Haley. I'd vote for Cruz, but a lot of people find him unlikable. I'd vote for Greg Abbott, but he doesn't have a national profile and hasn't shown any interest in a presidential run.
ahw at June 9, 2020 11:52 AM
Cruz has calmed down a lot since 2016. Though someone does need to talk to him about grooming. His current hair cut and beard thing just makes him look old and redneck. It may be silly but that alone can cost him the nomination.
I'm flexible on Haley. I don't really know enough about where she stands on issues I'm focused on. But that will all come out in a primary. Some have raised the issue of her being a Sikh. Well, the evangelicals don't have much pull anymore. And even where they do have pull they are also more interested in getting policy they favor passed than having the same faith as their representative, so I don't see that holding her back much. Certainly Trump with his 'favorite part of the bible' being 'those two Corinthian guys' was painful comedy but it didn't hold him back any with evangelical voters.
I agree with you on Abbott.
Ben at June 9, 2020 2:26 PM
“Certainly Trump with his 'favorite part of the bible' being 'those two Corinthian guys' was painful comedy but it didn't hold him back any with evangelical voters.”
Evangelicals are not the sort to be one issue voters, or to be hoodwinked into voting for who the Christian hating news media defines as the “better Christian”.
Isab at June 10, 2020 12:18 PM
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