The "Unbroken Line"
Dumbshit fundanutter Pat Boone sees one between the terrorists murdering people in Mumbai and sign-waving activists in WeHo, whom he calls, get this..."our homegrown sexual jihadists." From WorldNutDaily:
What troubles me so deeply, and should trouble all thinking Americans, is that there is a real, unbroken line between the jihadist savagery in Mumbai and the hedonistic, irresponsible, blindly selfish goals and tactics of our homegrown sexual jihadists. Hate is hate, no matter where it erupts. And by its very nature, if it's not held in check, it will escalate into acts vile, violent and destructive.
"Hate is hate"? Yeah, right. Here's my "hate"-filled, "home-grown sexual jihadist" friend Bob Morris on marrying his boyfriend Ira in The New York Times:
I had to admit that my years with Ira, perilous and fraught as they are, have been the most fulfilling of my life.Call me a little bit Stepford, but I love being a spouse and homeowner. I love having an amusing travel companion, dinner partner and life preserver when swimming in my sea of insecurities. I love having someone who critiques my work and who asks me to critique his outfit before going to the office.
And as unsettling as it is to me, a man with single survivor guilt, I can't imagine life without him.
As I left the movie feeling as vulnerable as Carrie (but not nearly as well dressed), I realized that Ira's blunt and impromptu marriage proposal, which followed my request that he join me in Los Angeles for the weekend, was the nicest thing anyone had ever said to me.
Never mind the political ramifications of marrying in California as a way of putting us on the legal record as supporters of the law -- someone was declaring that he wanted to love neurotic, despotic and increasingly sclerotic me forever. He believed I could make the ultimate leap of faith with him, despite my paunch and bad back.
And you know what? By the time I arrived home, I realized that, in fact, I could.
I guess going to a chick flick alone ended up being my bachelor party because late that night I told Ira, yes, I wanted to marry on Friday.
We had one day to pull it together.
I found and hired MarriageToGo.Com, an outfit that I describe as the Fresh Direct of weddings, and within a day our paperwork had been submitted to Los Angeles County.
And even though we only had grocery-store white flowers and toilet-paper bunting woven with daisies to stick (with chewing gum) onto the walls of our suite at the Chateau Marmont, and even though our banquet was just the sandwiches I had ordered from a deli hours before, our wedding felt sensationally, ceremonially serious. It took place during lunchtime, between my work meetings. And every local friend we invited at the last minute jumped at the chance to come and bear witness.
With seven friends and a poodle watching, Elizabeth, our nondenominational MarriageToGo minister, officiated.
She didn't know us at all, and yet every word she said reverberated so loudly it obliterated all my errant doubts (we'd had a big fight the night before, of course) along with the traffic noise outside on Sunset Boulevard.
In a voice as clear and resonant as any wedding chime, she told us that marriage is a choice people make to love each other, even in difficult times when we don't feel so loving. She told us that marriage isn't only about love. It's about a promise. And it's also about a choice to keep coming back to reinvest in that promise, year after year.
I found my cynical self fighting tears as we exchanged rings and offered vows. Then I sang "Till There Was You" while strumming my ukulele, just as I had very early on in our courtship.
We had been on a beach in Florida, during our first weekend away together. I wasn't sure I could survive three days with him in a small hotel room. And I wasn't sure as we walked along the beach one night that he wouldn't laugh in my face if I got out my ukulele and sang a love song to him.
But when I finished, there were tears in his eyes. "I never expected that from you," he said.
Neither had I. It surprises me every day, this thing called love.
I wish for two things: demolishment of Prop. 8, and that the terrorists, like our "home-grown sexual jihadists," make their weapon of choice the ukelele.







Well, both groups do use hate, violence, and intimidation to forward their personal agendas in the face of a contrary majority view. Yes, there's a difference in beating women with their own religious items and blowing people up, but it's certainly open to being called a matter of degree.
Not saying I agree with Pat-I think he's minimalizing real terrorists- but just because you agree with the goals of one group doesn't excuse their actions.
momof3 at December 12, 2008 5:21 AM
Hate is hate? Of course. I can't deny hate. I also hate, on a regular basis, some people. Right now, I am hating Robert Mugabe a lot. What he has done against the White minority and the black majority of Zimbabwe is unspeakable.
Yet, this doesn't make me a rampaging monster, running amok in hotels and shooting people randomly. I am just living the emotions linked to the disproportionate rift between the events and my values. I see it as healthy and proving me that I am not a progressive, carpet-loving hippie refusing to use his judgement.
If Mr. Boone can't see the difference between peaceful demonstration and a terrorist action, I will simply suggest to him that he take his favorite fiction book and shove it inside a chosen place. We don't need such hate mongers in a civilized society.
Toubrouk at December 12, 2008 7:01 AM
I don't think he was talking about peaceful, was he? Most of the protest in CA have been anything but. People are getting beat up. Things are being burned.
You can hate whoever you want. The way you demonstrate this makes you a rampaging monster, or not.
momof3 at December 12, 2008 7:20 AM
I'm confused - so this person is saying that homosexuality is a form of hatred? Against whom...straights?
Sorry, I am a little dense and don't get it. Can someone explain the parallel Pat is attempting to create?
Gretchen at December 12, 2008 8:19 AM
I have a question I ask repeatedly: if you think "due process" is necessary and a wonderful thing when it goes your way, why do you insist it be changed when it doesn't?
The process isn't wrong. Prop 8 failed because of simple public opinion, that's all. That's what has to be changed.
Short-sighted people are so eager to throw away things when they don't work for them. For instance, the idea that a police state is a bad thing was everywhere just recently, and for good reason due to abuses, but Obama supporters want a national police force now, apprently thinking he's magic. A "special prosecutor" was a necessary thing to deal with Richard Nixon, according to Democrats, but useless and wasteful when dealing with Bill Clinton. The War Powers Act was needed to let the Commander-in-Chief do his job, even though Congress has the explicit duty to declare war.
Don't be an idiot. Don't throw away a process that actually protects you because it's inconvenient today.
Radwaste at December 12, 2008 9:39 AM
Amy, you're harshing Pat Boone.
Crid [cridcridatgmail] at December 12, 2008 9:44 AM
"The process isn't wrong. Prop 8 failed because of simple public opinion, that's all. That's what has to be changed."
Changing public opinion is not how slavery was destroyed, and it's not how segregation was destroyed. As GEN Westmoreland pointed out about the Viet Cong "When you have them by the balls, their hearts and minds will tend to follow."
Sometimes the only way to get people to change their minds is to get them on their knees and get them to say they have repented. And then shoot them in the back of the head, because they are lying anyway.
Jim at December 12, 2008 9:44 AM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2008/12/the-unbroken-li.html#comment-1613050">comment from momof3Most of the protest in CA have been anything but.
Um, I've driven past a number of these. They're waving signs in support of overturning Prop 8. I honk in support and give them a thumbs up. Believe me, the people who lost loved ones in Mumbai are wishing this sort of "violence" could have been what went down there. Equating the two is repugnantly asinine.
Amy Alkon
at December 12, 2008 10:16 AM
Are you suggesting fighting a shooting war over gay marriage?
Dude. Check your head. The "right" to government goodies is insignificant compared with the right to not be someone else's property.
brian at December 12, 2008 10:48 AM
Amy, a few weeks ago, just about every Mormon, Evangelical, & Catholic in the country sat in front of their TV or computer and watched the spectacle of a huge crowd of outraged gays surrounding a little old church lady, screaming hatred & threats at her, and grabbing a cross out of her hands & stomping on it:
http://malcontent.biz/blog/?p=1804
Yes, Boone's attempt at moral equivalence is insane. And yes, much of the Prop 8 campaign was built on paranoia about gays. But by their own actions, many gay protesters are making religious Prop 8 supporters believe that their paranoia is entirely justified. In WestHo, some gays did in fact go out into the streets screaming "Nigger!" at the top of their lungs and threatening any blacks who happenned to stray into their neighborhood. In Sacramento, the artistic director of the California Musical Theater was blacklisted & forced to resign for supporting Prop 8. And some crowds of Prop 8 protesters did indeed get ugly & violent.
If Prop 8 could be voted on again today, it might pass by an even wider margin than last time. If gays think that screaming "Nigger!" and threatening to lynch blacks is OK, then most Americans will be on the other side. If gays think that blacklisting anyone who dares to oppose them is OK, then most Americans will be on the other side. And if gays think it's OK to threaten and violate little old church ladies who stand up for their religious convictions (however wrong they may be), then most Americans will be on the other side.
Boone's gibbering is indefensible, but also irrelevant. The actions of gay protesters who think that any tactic is justified because their cause is righteous will have a much greater influence on public opinion.
Martin at December 12, 2008 11:20 AM
Ooops. The link I posted above at 11:20 seems to have gone dead. Sorry about that, folks. You can watch the protest in question here:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=1VS3Us-TRU0&NR=1
I'm not lumping all Prop 8 opponents together. Just saying that the actions of some will be used to put all gays in the worst possible light, and to convince Prop 8 supporters that they were right all along.
Martin at December 12, 2008 12:04 PM
Off-topic, but I have to interrupt and mourn the passing of an American icon:
http://www.cnn.com/2008/US/12/12/bettie.page.obit/index.html
Gog_Magog_Carpet_Reclaimers at December 12, 2008 2:57 PM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2008/12/the-unbroken-li.html#comment-1613134">comment from Gog_Magog_Carpet_ReclaimersI join you in that, Gog.
Amy Alkon
at December 12, 2008 3:17 PM
I had to get to nearly fifty before agreeing with this comment about Page from Greg Beato. It takes distance to see that her allure wasn't eroticism: Page's figure was almost plain. (It calls to mind what Etcoff said, that beauty is what we call the one who represents the average of the gene pool. And the sex play in those photos is all sort of imaginary.
But she was just freakishly pretty.
Crid [cridcridatgmail] at December 13, 2008 10:35 AM
Note also that in most pictures, Page's handsome teeth are receptively parted in the style now seen on the default smile of the Governor of Alaska.
(By the way, did the daughter marry that guy yet?)
Maybe because Page was never at the forefront of public attention, she had to die before I recognized why Lala's playful allure always seemed so familiar. (episodes 1-10 are best)
Crid [cridcridatgmail] at December 13, 2008 10:38 AM
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