Revenge Is Best Not Served At All
Just posted a couple Advice Goddess columns. Here's my excerpt from the short one, in response to a woman seeking revenge:

If you love something...slash its tires? Oh, wait -- I think that's not quite how it goes. A lot of people feel like you do, and justify it with stuff like, "You know, there's a thin line between love and hate." No, there isn't. There's just a thin line between not getting what you want and hating the person who isn't giving it to you. If your love for somebody is contingent on being wanted by them, you don't really love them; you love being wanted.

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