The Jaunty Mr. Purple Carnation
Love this old guy I sometimes see and say hello to at Starbucks. Today, he came in wearing a pocket protector in his pocket with, I think, a purple carnation in it. When he sat down, he put it in this cup of water. Like a pet.







Seeing old folks like this, do you ever wonder what they'd have to tell you, the life experiences they had? I remember being assigned to the U.K., and sitting in the pub across the street from my apartment one night. An old gent sitting next to me, not knowing me from Adam, decided to share his wisdom: "I worked the land, boy, for fifteen shillings a week. Write it in your diary, boy, write it in your bloody diary!"
I never could figure out exactly what he meant, but neither could I escape the feeling I was missing something.
Old RPM Daddy at January 16, 2012 4:43 AM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2012/01/jaunty.html#comment-2918301">comment from Old RPM DaddySeeing old folks like this, do you ever wonder what they'd have to tell you, the life experiences they had?
No, I don't wonder, because I talk to people all the time and ask them about themselves.
For example, in this LA Times piece, Kay and Earl.
http://articles.latimes.com/2011/feb/08/opinion/la-oe-alkon-rude-20110208
Until recently, she was volunteering teaching kids to read at the library (she's now just working with one man) and Earl is a pediatrician who retired but volunteered at the Venice Free Clinic for 30 years. They both just retired from everything but the one man Kay works with, teaching him to read, because Earl's had some health issues. They read mysteries, visit Earl's kids in San Diego, and see Kay's adorable gay weatherman son and his partner from time to time (when he visits).
Amy Alkon
at January 16, 2012 6:25 AM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2012/01/jaunty.html#comment-2918313">comment from Amy AlkonAlthough I haven't talked at any length with this man, at the same Starbucks, I met Thom Fritz, who has Friedrich's Ataxia and can barely move his body or talk but doesn't let that stop him from getting out. He goes around in his motorized wheelchair with his lab California on a leash behind him. Thom wanted to see Australia -- so he did. He rode his wheelchair across it and wrote a book called Rollabout Austrailia. He works as a computer programmer.
He also blogged about the danger to people like him from shopping carts strewn about:
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2011/09/19/shopping_carts.html
At this same Starbucks, I met a guy who became a music publisher for a Motown group by coming out here from Detroit and knocking on somebody's door (after he wasn't into practicing law after going to law school) and a guy whose family owned the first black funeral home in Detroit (my now-friend Charlie). Charlie, who is a vet, is very light-skinned and refers to his color as "beige" or "incognegro," and knows is friends with Herb Jeffries, the first black cowboy.
The point: You can meet some of the most amazing people if you just say hello. Also, people who have some physical disability are not idiots. They just sometimes have a hard time talking and if you listen they may have a lot to say.
Amy Alkon
at January 16, 2012 6:36 AM
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Crid [CridComment at Gmail] at January 16, 2012 7:36 AM
I remember being assigned to the U.K., and sitting in the pub across the street from my apartment one night. An old gent sitting next to me, not knowing me from Adam, decided to share his wisdom
This reminds me of a segment on yesterday's Sunday Morning show, on War Horse.
JD at January 16, 2012 11:44 AM
In 1997, my Shift Manager had a heart attack, and I determined I would drive the hour-plus to see him in the hospital (standing joke - "get well, or I'll come visit again!). I took my bike, a Buell S2T.
I got lost in Columbia, SC. I knew he was at a Providence Health Care facility, though, and so when I saw their logo, I pulled in to ask where the hospital was.
I was at the Senior Care center. As I walked in, there were several people outside in the afternoon air taking it in, orderlies tending to them.
When I walked to the nurse's station, no one was there. OK, I thought, I'll wait. After a couple of minutes, one of the orderlies came back in with his charge, a very elderly lady, hair obviously dyed red. She held up a hand to stop, so I knelt to speak to her.
"Yes, ma'am?" I was shocked. Her eyes were still clear and brilliant blue in that frail and ancient face.
"Do you like that motorcycle of yours?"
"Yes, ma'am. That's why I'm out on it today."
"I used to ride one of those, you see. I was a courier in England during the World War."
I'm still amazed.
Radwaste at January 16, 2012 2:54 PM
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