I Believe This Is Called "Life"
It sometimes gets uncomfortable. (Deal with it, kittens.)
There's a story at latimes.com by Larry Gordon, "Quarter of UC population had bad experiences on campus, survey finds":
SAN FRANCISCO -- About a quarter of UC students, faculty and staff reported that they had experienced some exclusionary, intimidating or offensive situations on campus and 9% said that had interfered with their abilities to study or work, according to a survey by the university system released Wednesday.Those results in the long-awaited Campus Climate survey elicited mixed responses from leaders of the 10-campus UC system. They said they were pleased that 73% of UC undergraduates reported feeling "comfortable" or "very comfortable" in their classes and only about 7% "uncomfortable." But the officials were concerned about the reports of discrimination and isolation. (Sizable portions of the survey participants said they were neither comfortable nor uncomfortable.)
UC Regent Sherry Lansing said UC's goal should be to reduce the number of people who report feeling isolated and snubbed. "We want a welcoming environment. We know that if 1% feels uncomfortable, that's an environment we don't want," she said at the regents' meeting at a UC San Francisco facility.
I was uncomfortable a lot because I was socially awkward. I worked hard on that. Now I'm far less socially awkward. But I don't expect the world to be all sunshine and flowers and yellow brick road, and I don't think the goal of making an environment "welcoming" is a realistic one. And I'm guessing it involves de facto or explicit censorship. Of course, UC President Janet Napolitano said publicly that that the push to make things sunny and wonderful at all times for all (though that's obviously not exactly how she put it) shouldn't diminish the (already-diminished) free speech on campuses.








Well we know they are special (as is everyone of course) so we MUST NOT blame the VICTIM.
Of course we MUST NOT acknowledge that some percentage of the students are immature, emotionally needy in some regard, and are not fully rational in the concepts of what they need. (Naturally, males and adults are not that way.)
I'm sure that another non-teaching administrator is needed to fully study this problem so that the student's needs are addressed with an appropriate action plan.
(Gag reflex setting in. Must stop.)
Bob in Texas at March 20, 2014 10:10 AM
"Sizable portions of the survey participants said they were neither comfortable nor uncomfortable."
What that says to me is that the majority of respondants, failing to find a "this whole thing is stupid" choice on the survey, just marked the same choice on every question, and that they only bothered that much because they were required to, or because there was some incentive for turning the survey in.
Cousin Dave at March 20, 2014 10:32 AM
And yes, the yellow brick road. Where the dogs of society howl.
Cousin Dave at March 20, 2014 10:34 AM
uncomefortable... yup, eng student in one of the all party dorms at the university of colorado? Room mate, a basketball player with groupies? He moved out a month later, 'cuz his coaches wanted him with the rest of the team... which makes sens, as they have to keep those guys corralled. Cool guy, but not there to study same sort of thing.
"man, you study ALL THE TIME. What's wrong with you?"
I wasn't exactly socially awkward, but also, not an extrovert.
Did it make me whine about being uncomfortable? Nah, on the contrary, it exposed me to a wider variety of people.
SwissArmyD at March 20, 2014 11:02 AM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2014/03/i-believe-this.html#comment-4408038">comment from Cousin Dave"the yellow brick road. Where the dogs of society howl."
I love that line.
Amy Alkon
at March 20, 2014 11:37 AM
I can just hear the next total breakthrough in research:
"Many soldiers find being shot at gives them the feeling of rejection!"
"Being arrested a downer", say those in jail.
Radwaste at March 20, 2014 11:49 AM
That was kind of interesting, actually. While the Times article didn't really discuss specific questions, it seemed to me that the survey was similar to the climate surveys we were asked to respond to in the Air Force during my time there.
The other thing that occurred to me was the differences in how the responses could be interpreted. A respondent saying that he or she had been the victim of a crime is a pretty concrete matter, particularly if such responses correlate with police reports for those campuses.
However, some responses seem to generate even more questions. Regarding students feeling left out or isolated, the article doesn't go into why the students felt that way, or what their perceptions were based on. I don't know if the survey was designed to do that. Was their feeling of isolation along the lines of, "Gee, those other folks are having such a good time and I'm not. What's wrong with me?" or was it a matter of, "Damn, that guy just threw a rock at me and called me a racial slur," or was it, "People shut the door when they see me coming down the hall?"
Old RPM Daddy (OldRPMDaddy at GMail dot com) at March 20, 2014 12:00 PM
I thought I was uncomfortable at Big U, when I was placed in an honors English class and had to write, extensively, about me, for every class. Face it, not many 18 year olds have lead an interesting life, and I found that both difficult and painful.
Parris Island showed me their were nuances of uncomfortable I had yet to learn, and a whole spectrum of people I had never met. A bell curve has two ends, and the Marines had examples of both in abundance.
Had I gone back to that school, and taken that class again, I would have had plenty to write about, and discomfort to share.
MarkD at March 20, 2014 12:17 PM
As a white male in graduate school I ALWAYS felt uncomfortable; especially when professors would single me out (sometimes being the only white male in the classroom beside the teacher) as an example of the oppressor class. This was, of course, based only on their observation of my race and gender, and not based upon me as an individual person.
Charles at March 20, 2014 12:36 PM
I thought college was where you were supposed to be facing challenges, learning about life, experimenting, etc. What the hell does "comfortable" have to do with it? Ye gods.
Pricklypear at March 20, 2014 1:36 PM
as an example of the oppressor class
You should have stood up, and said in a loud voice bow down before me or I shall taunt you again.
I mean, if you're part of the oppressor class, you should reap the perks. Amirite?
I R A Darth Aggie at March 20, 2014 3:30 PM
If I get pointed at as an example of the oppressor class, I'll have my best evil supervillain laughter ready to go.
Robert at March 20, 2014 6:26 PM
No, Sweetie, life isn't an all inclusive resort. The people around you have not been trained in outstanding customer service. And in fact, they look at you as part of their own experience. Don't let the pressure get to you.
Canvasback at March 20, 2014 7:31 PM
I actually did get pointed out once in some B.S. sociology class, as the oppressor class, and did the evil laugh. The professor never did point out that I was the oppressor class again. The class thought it was hilarious though.
spqr2008 at March 21, 2014 5:40 AM
I disagree. I've worked in a number of schools, summer camps, after school programs, etc. and ABSOLUTELY the culture of the school makes a difference in how kids treat each other. There will always be some incidents, there will always be some people who are meaner than others, but school culture plays a large role.
NicoleK at March 21, 2014 12:07 PM
The yellow brick road is a bad metaphor for sweetness and light, by the way. It was full of Kalidahs and other nasty things.
NicoleK at March 21, 2014 12:08 PM
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