The Approved Look Of Feminism: Lena Dunham Ugly
Lena Dunham accused the Spanish magazine Tentaciones, from the newspaper El Pais, of photoshopping her image. Here's the bit from her Instagram:
In fact, they hadn't altered her image; they'd used an image approved by Dunham's own publicist, and they'd left it unretouched.
More of Dunham's remarks from another one of her Instagrams of the magazine cover:
Hey Tentaciones- thank you for sending the uncropped image (note to the confused: not unretouched, uncropped!) and for being so good natured about my request for accuracy. I understand that a whole bunch of people approved this photo before it got to you- and why wouldn't they? I look great. But it's a weird feeling to see a photo and not know if it's your own body anymore (and I'm pretty sure that will never be my thigh width but I honestly can't tell what's been slimmed and what hasn't.) I'm not blaming anyone (y'know, except society at large.) I have a long and complicated history with retouching. I wanna live in this wild world and play the game and get my work seen, and I also want to be honest about who I am and what I stand for. Maybe it's turning 30. Maybe it's seeing my candidate of choice get bashed as much for having a normal woman's body as she is for her policies. Maybe it's getting sick and realizing ALL that matters is that this body work, not that it be milky white and slim. But I want something different now. Thanks for helping me figure that out and sorry to make you the problem, you cool Spanish magazine you. Time to get to the bottom of this in a bigger way. Time to walk the talk. With endless love, Lena PS I'd love the Tentaciones subscription I was offered!
At The Spectator, Katie Glass nails it:
Dunham has criticised El Pais not because of something that actually happened, but because of something she felt. I suspect Dunham feels a few things. I suspect she feels pressure to look bad in photos. Because having a raw, un-retouched image is part of her brand. Although it's a shame - and feels very Seventies feminist - if she thinks you can't fight for gender equality and look hot. Dunham also seems to feel like a victim - at least that seems to be the mentality she has come into this interaction with. She joins the modern cult of victimhood, in which the overly sensitive are able to find grievances anywhere, in any micro-aggression, handclap or un-safe space. It is part of the same victim paranoia sweeping campuses. Key to this victimhood culture is how subjective it is. Someone can nominate themselves an aggrieved party regardless of fact. That is what Dunham has done in this case. It is interesting that in Dunham's 'apology' to El Pais she does not actually apologise. Instead she reiterates how the photograph makes her feel. 'That will never be my thigh gap,' she says - although then admits 'I honestly can't tell what's been slimmed and what hasn't.' Yet, if the picture hasn't been altered by El Pais, we must assume that this is how Dunham looks. If she cannot see this it is not the image at fault.
I would say that it's the narrow confines of modern feminism, where, say, trying to look attractive to men or wanting to stay home with your kids are crimes against the sisterhood.








Dunham seems to think her fan base will desert her if she looks too good. She's very ill at ease with other women who do care about how they look. Personally, I think her whole routine is tiresome.
KateC at March 6, 2016 8:55 AM
Personally, I think she, and every their child molester, should be shot it the head and have the corpse hung from the nearest bridge
lujlp at March 6, 2016 9:08 AM
Lena Dunham: killing woodies for more than a few years.
I R A Darth Aggie at March 6, 2016 9:22 AM
I think that it's fair to say that Lena Dunham likes drawing attention to herself. That's what always gets her into trouble.
At least she's not claiming the camera man molester her.
And I think that Katie Glass is right. Lena's 'brand' is being the dumpy white wictim girl who speaks truth to power. She's like the SJW's answer to Kim Kardasian.
Being seen in flattering photos, in a fashion shoot no less, goes against that image. So she had to claim that she was tricked. And then when it came to light that she wasn't - blame society!
Not Lena Dunham at March 6, 2016 9:26 AM
Kick 'er while she's down, okay? Her cysts are all 'splodey.
Crid at March 6, 2016 9:33 AM
She is like Bridget Jones
NicoleK at March 6, 2016 10:16 AM
So, lujlp, what are you trying to say? How do you really feel about Lena Dunham.
Honestly, it's just so tiresome sometimes trying to figure out how you feel about something. Seriously, work on being more direct.
Kidding aside, I did not know this about her. I Googled it and discovered she was sexually experimenting on her younger sister. How disgusting. Now I'm wondering why anyone hires her for anything.
Patrick at March 6, 2016 10:36 AM
I dont care about her a a person either way, I just hate child molesters and think the death penalty should be expanded to include them
lujlp at March 6, 2016 10:49 AM
Lena Dunham wants to be that girl who's unsure about herself, who has issues feeling she'll never be "pretty," who dresses frumpily because she's not a perfect body-type like the Victoria's Secret models, and who will always be slightly (or more) neurotic; she wants to be a female Woody Allen.
If she shows up pretty on a magazine cover, that puts a lie to her carefully constructed self-image; it means she can be attractive. She must then insist she was photoshopped and retouched, so she can get back to being a self-loathing creative genius.
This kind of person is always down. Down is part of her self-identity.
Conan the Grammarian at March 6, 2016 10:55 AM
One more thing she has in common with Woody Allen, bot took advantage of people too young to stop them.
Conan the Grammarian at March 6, 2016 10:58 AM
There was a story that she'd molested a little cousin or something... I'll never care enough to learn the details. But the thing is, no mere child has the erotic imagination to lasciviously molest another without having had it happen to his- or her- self, whether by an adult or another abused child. Pinsky used to talk about this on his radio show... A lot of endometriosis and similar ailments are the body's way of expressing pain from older intrusion.
She's a clumsy buffoon, but the cheapjack layer of tawdry entertainment is full of clumsy buffoons. If you wanted grace and thoughtful insight, you had no business surfing those channels or reading those books or going to those theaters (etc) anyway.
A simple woman is hurting. No reason not to wish her the best.
Crid at March 6, 2016 11:18 AM
She was too attractive in that photo?
Ben at March 6, 2016 11:32 AM
Pinsky used to talk about this on his radio show... A lot of endometriosis and similar ailments are the body's way of expressing pain from older intrusion.
This sounds pleasingly plausible but there's no evidence for it.
And she's taking the easy way out -- to give up on trying to look attractive instead of doing the best with what she has. It's a marketing ploy; it's not about being a "better" sort of person.
Amy Alkon at March 6, 2016 11:40 AM
Amy Alkon
https://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2016/03/the-approved-lo.html#comment-6447427">comment from Amy AlkonPS Younger women use her as a role model at their peril. To be proudly unattractive doesn't work so well when you aren't famous.
Amy Alkon
at March 6, 2016 11:42 AM
Amy, that's just so fucked up. It's pathetic. I quote a doctor describing his personal observation, one from his career spent dealing with people troubled with weakness and be-drugged, broken families; You reply that there's no "evidence."
As if you've made a great study of the matter, and have a file cabinet full of indexed data which you'd consulted before posting the reply.
Could this BE a more transparent defense mechanism? Is your presumption of your own rationality that deep, so profound that you can't even see it?
Over many years we've agreed on many things. But no case, not one, has our alignment (or your persuasion) been enabled by your chatter about "science-based" thinking or "evidence." Not once.
It's hokey.
Crid at March 6, 2016 12:30 PM
> Younger women use her as a role
> model at their peril.
Yes, but so what? It was the same with Ellie Mae Clampett and Ethel Mertz. We don't have to hate this kid just because she's the latest.
"Role models," both as exemplars and as a paradigm of mutual influence, are useless.
Crid at March 6, 2016 12:33 PM
>> Now I'm wondering why anyone hires her for anything.
They don't. Her only professional writing credit is for Girls, which is her own show. And her only professional collaboration has been with Judd Apatow.
But as to why she gets a pass, I think there are a couple of reasons..
1. She reliably promotes Progressive causes and candidates, which gains her a certain amount of protection.
2. I think that a lot of her supporters chose not to believe the account in her autobiography - she has an established history of salacious lies and exaggerations, so there is reason to believe that the molestation story may have been the same.
I remember when her account of molesting her sister, over many years, became public. She tried to claim that the backlash was part of a right wing conspiracy and her supporters in the media tried to paint the account as a minor and accidental incident of childhood curiosity.
They deliberately concealed the fact that she'd written an extensive account of sexual behavior towards her sister that proceeded well into her teens. And she characterized her own behavior as molestation in her boook.
Soon after, she had to retract a claim that she'd been raped by a Republican at Oberlin, and then want underground for a while.
But I think that even a lot of her original supporters are sick of her at this point. She's honestly kind of creepy and pathetic, and a huge attention whore.
mew mew at March 6, 2016 12:36 PM
Dunham: I'm not blaming anyone (y'know, except society at large.)
Monty Python's Dead Bishop sketch:
JD at March 6, 2016 12:36 PM
Crid. I think it was a case of overactive curiosity with her little sister. As I recalled she said she enjoyed it, so it continued. I don't recall if she said she was molested earlier, but I guess she could have been. At any rate, she didn't think it was wrong.
Dave B at March 6, 2016 12:40 PM
Look, I'm embarrassed for the "defense mechanism" thing, because I'm not a psychology kind of guy... It's precisely the sort of witless presumption I was trying to discredit.
But Shit Fuck, it's just so OBVIOUS.
A person says But I'm more rational than others, so I see deeper truths.
Why the fuck should anyone believe you, except that you desperately want them to?
Yeah... Sure... You can tell some people on a blog that you're a Nigerian prince with short-term cash flow problem. AND A FEW OF THEM WILL BELIEVE YOU. But why should they?
Not for pompous, childlike chatter about "evidence," as a koan.
Crid at March 6, 2016 12:43 PM
Sheesh, here's this woman again...
Crid at March 6, 2016 12:45 PM
Ben: She was too attractive in that photo?
Maybe not to you and me but it's got thousands of male raccoons furiously masturbating.
JD at March 6, 2016 1:11 PM
Yeah JD. The eye liner thing doesn't do much for me. All I see is an average woman in an unattractive dress (sack'o'potato style). I'm not clear what the coffee mug with the 'ON' is about in the overlay. Or even the don't symbols.
Now don't get me wrong. I'm not calling her ugly. As I said, average. Playboy bunny this certainly aint. So I don't get the 'I'm too attractive in that photo. You must have altered it without my consent.' thing.
Ben at March 6, 2016 1:37 PM
Lena Dunhams parents are class 5 creepazoids, so I would be too surprised if she'd been molested.
Check out her dad's (Caroll Dunham) paintings - zeeesh!
mmm at March 6, 2016 2:17 PM
Class *5* is creepazoidal indeed.
Crid at March 6, 2016 2:39 PM
Maybe she just does a great job of looking bad, but I don't believe those thighs aren't photoshopped. She's bigger than that, plain and simple.
Allison at March 6, 2016 5:30 PM
Sheezus, you fuckers is harsh.
Y'know, I've never consumed ten seconds of Dunham product. I'm 57 years old, male, and don't give a rat's ass. I'm not her customer, and she knows it.
But if you came to me and told me that there was a celebrity, even a (typically) brittle one, who was trying to make a living by saying "Hollywood's beauty standards have little to do with the appearance of typical woman," and you told me this celebrity was furthermore wrapping this sensibility in a banner of feminism, however poorly defined...
...I'd be totally cool with it.
Again, I haven't bought any of her product, so I don't know with certainty.
But if you're reaching out into the world to tell others that Dunham just isn't *pretty* enough, you might be experiencing a failure of awareness.
Crid at March 6, 2016 5:52 PM
She'll always have more feminist cred with me than Steinem.
Crid at March 6, 2016 5:53 PM
The waitress in the donut shop has more feminist cred than Steinem.
Crid at March 6, 2016 5:54 PM
Actually (at least in Florida), the death penalty does include child molesters...sort of. It will never happen, but capital punishment can be applied if the victim is 12 years old or younger, or if the sexual organs are injured.
Patrick at March 7, 2016 1:00 AM
FWIW, it *is* photoshopped, and it *is* a crappy job. Look at the legs - especially the left leg. There's no way it attaches to the rest of the body, unless her left hip is dislocated.
The legs in the actual, original pic are different.
a_random_guy at March 7, 2016 1:30 AM
Crid,
I'm not complaining she isn't pretty enough. I'm expressing confusion and incredulity that she feels she is too pretty/sexy in that picture. The posing is awkward. And that dress is hideous. Clearly the woman has body image issues.
We all look bad sometimes. But she is bothered she doesn't look worse?
Ben at March 7, 2016 6:34 AM
"A simple woman is hurting. "
She may be "simple" in terms of intellect, but she's not "simple" in terms of being an average Jane. She's a textbook Cluster B in full-up, pedal-to-the-metal narcissistic rage mode, which is where she stays pretty much all of the time. As for why she is successful, mew mew nailed it above: She's a Party hack dressed up as an entertainer. A glorified apparatchik.
Cousin Dave at March 7, 2016 7:28 AM
> Clearly the woman has body
> image issues.
Clearly, you say? She has "issues"? The "body image" kind? Because these are terms of fierce condemnation. So if they're true, we should probably beat the shit out of her and be really angry. We should take her favorite parking space and knock her garbage cans over in the alley.
> She's a Party hack dressed up
> as an entertainer. A glorified
> apparatchik.
Fuck everything, let's just hire a drifter to get her out of our way. This morning I saw a guy with beard stubble hanging out by the 7-11... He had a bundle of stuff on a stick, won't be in town too long, but I could see from the way his eyes moved that he knew who was who and what was what, if you catch my meaning. Okay everybody, $10. Let's do this. Here we go: Conan, Nicole, Me, Gog, Amy, Darth....
Celebrities exist for just this purpose... Stipulated. And I mean actually, the comeuppance! phase of fame is the favorite for anyone with a clear view of human nature.
It's just that the expressions of dislike for Dunham are always very wordy for being so meatless. What did she ever do to anyone?
Crid at March 7, 2016 11:16 AM
Note to self. Never invite Crid to a bulimia support group. Those people have enough problems without being physically attacked.
Ben at March 7, 2016 12:07 PM
Correct: NEVER INVITE ME TO A BULIMIA SUPPORT GROUP.
Sheezus.
Crid at March 7, 2016 1:15 PM
@a_random_guy: I don't see the difference, aside from cropping the original picture above the knees. Scale the pictures so the heads are the same size and the thigh gap is the same.
Now, the original picture might be photoshopped to widen the hips and push the thighs outward - it's not anatomically impossible, but the width of the dress in that area implies the pelvic girdle of a much larger woman. Also, do knees bend that way?
markm at March 14, 2016 6:56 AM
I know this is tangential, but this is the second time I've seen you trot out the "feminists are pitting themselves against SAHM" in an article that doesn't have anything to do with that and I just can't take it at face value.
I see feminists defending the value of the work that I do taking care of my kids. I see anti-feminists making fun of women for calling it "work". Can you guess which group I think is more likely to have my back?
Renee at March 15, 2016 3:08 PM
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