Feminism Has Become A "Poor We!" Industry
The line that I use to describe it is that feminism now involves women demanding to be treated like eggshells, not equals.
Christina Hoff Sommers feels similarly. Here's an excerpt from her Vox interview with Sean Illing. Sommers tells him:
Women are assumed to be the have-nots because a massive lobby devotes itself to proving Venus is worse off than Mars. Mars's afflictions go unnoticed. In fact, modern life is a complicated mix of burdens and advantages -- for each sex.When it comes to being crushed, mutilated, electrocuted, or mangled at work, men are at a distinct disadvantage. Most backbreaking, lethally dangerous jobs -- roofer, logger, roustabout, and coal miner, to name a few -- are done by men. We are often reminded that only 24 women are CEOs of the Fortune 500. But what about the Unfortunate 5,000 -- that is approximately the number of men killed on the job annually.
Education beyond high school has been called the passport to the American dream. Increasingly, women have it and men don't. From the earliest grades, our schools do a better job educating girls. Women now earn a majority of associate, bachelor, master's, and doctoral degrees, and their share of college degrees increases almost every year.
Today, the women's lobby deploys a faulty logic: In cases where men are better off than women, that's injustice. Where women are doing better -- that's life.
Why play this game? Men and women are not two opposing teams competing for some trophy. We are in this together; our fates are connected. As one wit has observed: "Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. Too much fraternizing with the enemy."
My best advice: Let's dispense with the divisive gender politics and get on with the fraternizing -- or sororitizing, as I prefer to say.
And here she is on the "wage gap":
For me, the rhetoric around the wage gap is evidence that the women's movement is failing to change with the times. As many economists have noted, the 23-cent gender pay gap is simply the difference between the average earnings of all men and women working full time. It does not account for differences in occupations, positions, education, job tenure, or hours worked per week. When such relevant points are considered, the wage gap narrows to the point of vanishing.Wage gap activists will reject this analysis, of course. They reply that women with identical backgrounds and jobs as men still earn less. But they always fail to take into account critical variables.
Activist groups like the National Organization for Women have another fallback position: They say that women's education and career choices are not truly free -- they are driven by powerful sexist stereotypes.
So, on their view, women's tendencies to retreat from the workplace to raise children or to enter fields like early childhood education and psychology, rather than better-paying professions like petroleum engineering, is evidence of continued social coercion. Here is the problem: It is 2016. American women are among the best-informed and most self-determining human beings in the world. To say that they are manipulated into their life choices by forces beyond their control is divorced from reality and demeaning.
American women want their freedoms, but it is not clear they want to be just like men. I remain fascinated by the implications of a 2008 study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. A group of international researchers compared data on gender and personality across 55 nations. In all the countries studied, women tended to be more nurturing, risk-averse, and emotionally expressive. Men were more competitive, reckless, and emotionally flat.
But the personality differences between men and women were largest in the wealthier, egalitarian countries. Why should this be the case? The authors hypothesize that in prosperous, egalitarian nations, there are more opportunities for self-actualization. Wealth, freedom, and education empower men and women to be who they are. What if gender disparities are sometimes evidence not of discrimination or hidden bias but of happiness and social well-being. I wish we had gender scholars open-minded enough to consider that possibility.








I quite like my wife and I think that she's rather fond of me. We're not unusual in that regard. Have the people pushing this WWIII crap ever met any, like actual, people?
the other rob at November 3, 2016 3:54 AM
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. Too much fraternizing with the enemy."
The fiercest warriors don't fraternize.
dee nile at November 3, 2016 5:14 AM
Those dang kids! They just don't understand.
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2016/feb/06/bernie-sanders-gloria-steinem-women-voters-men-hillary-clinton
Bob in Texas at November 3, 2016 6:03 AM
"And this my son is why I use only high end escorts and never ever give out my house key."
http://www.tmz.com/2016/10/28/mariah-carey-james-packer-breakup-50-million/
Bob in Texas at November 3, 2016 6:06 AM
Rob, I almost put that at the bottom of the post. I never thought I could be with anyone for more than two years because i get bored. Gregg and I have been together almost 14 years, and I love him to pieces. He is such a kind, good, funny, smart, interesting person, and when I say "kind," he has spent this past year, especially, doing everything he could to support me in writing this book (which was incredibly hard and terribly stressful). He goes to the grocery store, picks my my mail, gets me things I need, brings me the groceries and cooks me dinners -- and then cooks me extra food so I can just heat up a plate.
He is kind and loving and thinks of so many ways to make my life better that I don't. All he wants is a woman who's sweet and loving to him in return, and he gets that from me -- along with my believing in him, caring for his health, and supporting him in his work and other things.
This is how a relationship works. It's not about feminism or the "patriarchy." It's about two people who love each other making each other better than they would be alone.
Amy Alkon at November 3, 2016 7:00 AM
As is the case with all of the other 20th-century civil rights movements, feminism has reduced itself to a special-pleading group. The real irony is that postmodern feminism relies almost totally on traditional Western-civ male deference to women, in order to achieve its aims. It isn't trying to persuade with logic; it's making emotional appeals and portraying any pushback as abuse. If it was a group of men making similar claims against another group of men, there would be fighting.
Cousin Dave at November 3, 2016 7:05 AM
That's because feminists regard the fact that only women can have babies as a patriarchal plot to keep them subservient, and not as a fact of biology. Once you conclude that career choice and fields of study differences are matters of social coercion rather than biology, you can then attack society and take control of it.
As Camille Paglia once pointed out, if human survival had been up to women, we'd still be living in caves; perhaps warm, nurturing caves, but caves nonetheless. Paglia's reasoning is not that women cannot advance civilization, but that women are biologically driven to live in harmony with nature, men to conquer it.
Conan the Grammarian at November 3, 2016 7:11 AM
The fiercest warriors don't fraternize.
True. Also, after we've won the war, I'll have my pick of the captives.
Wut? it's right there in Deuteronomy 21:11.
I R A Darth Aggie at November 3, 2016 8:27 AM
Just pointing out what should be obvious. The most influential of feminists are Lesbians.
They don't fraternize with the enemy. Lesbians are socially dangerous because their intersexual competition and intra-sexual competition as well as their in-group allegiance all align and they don't have any motivation to temper their competition with men.
John at November 3, 2016 10:02 AM
"That's because feminists regard the fact that only women can have babies as a patriarchal plot to keep them subservient, and not as a fact of biology."
They also simultaneously argue that the fact that only the female can bear children should give them special status in society. A very traditional view.
Cousin Dave at November 3, 2016 11:04 AM
As Camille Paglia once pointed out, if human survival had been up to women, we'd still be living in caves; perhaps warm, nurturing caves, but caves nonetheless.
Yep
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wtUKdZG1o1w
lujlp at November 3, 2016 8:17 PM
https://youtu.be/wtUKdZG1o1w?t=310
meant to start it at this time stamp
lujlp at November 3, 2016 8:22 PM
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