Victim-Think Is "I'm Special!"-Think
I've been saying for a while that feminism has turned into a way for many to have unearned power over others. (The awful injustice done to Bora Zivkovic, with many "respectable" people from science journalism piling on is an example of this.) Women on college campuses and elsewhere now demand to be treated like eggshells, not equals.
Here's how economist Mark J. Perry puts it:
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Being a victim allows you to exercise power over others and shields you from responsibility. And now more people discover they're victims.
A 2010 article in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, "Victim Entitlement to Behave Selfishly," by Stanford's Emily M. Zitek and her colleagues goes into this, proposing -- and finding -- that "feeling wronged gives people a sense of entitlement to obtain positive outcomes--and to avoid negative ones--that frees them from the usual requirements of social life."
Does feeling like a victim make one behave more or less selfishly? Imagine that an individual feels wronged by an everyday event: An executive sees a colleague receive a promotion that she feels she deserved instead; an academic finds out that he is once more assigned to a tedious committee, whereas his colleagues seem miraculously spared; an author is about to send off a manuscript when a computer glitch erases weeks' worth of work, and she is penalized for missing her deadline.As these individuals contemplate their unfortunate lot, how motivated would they be to help others? One could imagine that individuals who have received the short end of the stick would be especially motivated to help others, to redress other wrongs, or to make themselves feel betterwith the warm glow that comes from doing good. In this article, wemake the opposite prediction: We propose instead that feeling wronged gives people a sense of entitlement to obtain positive outcomes--and to avoid negative ones--that frees them from the usual requirements of social life. Whereas individuals typically contend with a strong norm of benevolence that encourages helping and curbs egoism, we propose that wronged individuals, because of their heightened sense of entitlement, feel relieved from this communal obligation and therefore exhibit more selfish intentions and behavior.
Conclusion:
Our research has shown that people who have just been wronged or reminded of a time when they were wronged feel entitled to positive outcomes, leading them to behave selfishly. They no longer feel obligated to suffer for others and therefore pass up opportunities to be helpful. By contributing to our general understanding of the determinants of selfishness, this research points toward one possible impediment to people's engagement in charitable behavior. Future research in this vein thus has the potential to identify novel methods to encourage altruism in people who feel wronged, thereby stemming the cycle of suffering-to-selfishness suggested by our research.
study via @SteveStuWill








I wish I could call them Special Needs Persons, but that would imply they actually had something special to begin with.
Sixclaws at November 14, 2016 7:45 AM
This is also crab bucket mentality. Rather than build myself up I'll just tear everyone down around me.
Ben at November 14, 2016 7:51 AM
Everyone wants to be important but in fact the universe and other people don't really notice us. We would like to be praised and admired, but any praise one might get is usually short-lived and may be accompanied by jealousy. If one is accomplished one tends to associate with similar people for whom your accomplishments are "normal" so you get no praise.
Given our desire for just outcomes, which experiments have shown we share with other social species like primates, if you combine "specialness" and participation trophies with the fact that no one really cares, you get a bad combination which leads to resentment. If you now make it acceptable to whine and reward it, guess what happens? snowflakes happen.
cc at November 14, 2016 9:25 AM
Victimhood- When bad behavior is rewarded, you get more of it.
Wfjag at November 14, 2016 10:42 AM
Yes -- it's also called the Tyranny of the Weak.
Omnibabe at November 14, 2016 2:10 PM
It has been my observation that those who have experienced terrible, nightmarish trauma seem to fall into one of two general categories -
1. A desire for a just world, a desire to seek justice for others, an intrinsic understanding that injustice for one is injustice for all.
or,
2. Use their trauma as permission to swing their baggage like a wrecking ball; an excuse to indulge their character defects and lash out, explaining away their self indulgent witch hunting, lynch mob mentality by saying "what do you expect - look what happened to me."
The first group is much smaller than the second, it would seem.
The irony is that he second group shares this sense of entitlement, driven by no other principle than the indulgence of their wants, with the person or people who victimized them.
What a triumphant consummation of the rapists violation, He or She made you just like them.
This time, with your active, "enthusiastic" consent.
The WolfMan at November 14, 2016 5:47 PM
Our forefathers set up our government and Constitution to mitigate what Jefferson called the "tyranny of the majority." Now, the minority has figured out how to use that same Constitution to create the tyranny of the minority.
Conan hte Grammarian at November 14, 2016 8:15 PM
I will always be tremendously grateful for the timing of this blog post, happenstance though it may have been.
Crid at November 15, 2016 4:55 AM
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