A Man Can Lose Everything
If a woman files a false accusation of rape against a man, and a jury believes it, he's pretty much screwed for life. It's my belief women should pay for filing false allegations by serving the time the man would've had the charge stuck...plus pay cash restitution to the man for the fear and suffering he went through in being falsely accused and/or defending against the false allegation.
And, yes, the female false-accuser can run on a hamster wheel in prison to make electricity or make license plates until they pay him back. I'm a firm believer in forcing criminals to pay substantive restitution to their victims. Speaking of which, I have to get on my car thief's back to pay me the court-ordered restitution he's fallen behind on, surprise, surprise.
But back to the made-up rape charges, here are two unrelated cases where women were arrested for falsely accusing men of rape, from Ft. Myers' WBBH-TV:
In the first case, Stephanie Ebbert, 20, called the sheriff’s office saying a cab driver took her to a field and then forced her to have sex with him.Detectives met with the cab driver who said the sex was consensual. He told authorities that Ebbert made up the story because he wouldn’t pay her for the encounter.
When deputies confronted Ebbert she said she no longer wanted to press charges. She was then arrested for filing a false report.
Around 9 a.m. Carey Studybaker, 27, called deputies saying she went to a home in Pine Manor to buy some pills. When she went inside she says a man forced her to smoke crack and then raped her.
Studybaker’s story changed several times while detectives interviewed her. Eventually, authorities determined it was all a lie so she was arrested for filing a false report.
Both women made up their lies to keep from getting "in trouble" with their boyfriends -- apparently, thinking nothing of what they could be doing to the men they accused.
It is indeed mind-blowing how casually SOME women will deal out a rape accusation. On college campuses during the 90's was the worst, when a guy could be accused of rape, without coercion or surreptitious drugs involved; just pissing the girl off was enough. At least one campus (I've forgotten which) made lying to your partner (well, let's be honest, the girl, a guy would get laughed off-campus trying to press charges on a girl like this) enough to cry rape.
I think this stemmed/stems from several different things, among them a true contempt for and dislike of men in general.
I've been thinking for years, there's nothing so much like an asshole guy thinking, she was asking for it, she wore a short skirt and had that look in her eye, and a woman thinking, yeah, this is close enough to rape for me, and they're all bastards anyway...One doesn't think rape is a big deal, the other doesn't think being accused of a felony that gets you 10 to 20 and the very real possibility of very un-ambiguous rape, is a big deal.
If you read the thoughts from either mindset, they've both got the exact same 'well, s/he should have thought of that first, before..." mindset.
Cat brother at December 12, 2006 7:28 AM
she says a man forced her to smoke crack and then raped her
NOW we know what happened to Ted Haggard!
Darry at December 12, 2006 7:42 AM
Other than making officials who encourage and expedite this behavior, like Mike Nifong, equally liable, I can't disagree with anything you said.
Ken Hahn at December 12, 2006 8:19 AM
You and I don't agree on much, except the need for keeping a sense of humor and now this. Clearly it's despicable. And it shouldn't just end with women who accuse men falsely of rape, but others who falsely accuse others for attention and promotion of a badge of victimhood in many other areas of life. It's a sign they surely haven't got much else better to do. So maybe making it a crime is a good remedy.
Webutante at December 12, 2006 9:07 AM
You used to be able to follow the Adam Lack case on the Brown Daily Herald, online. There was exactly ONE faculty member with the stones to call bullshit on the whole deal, a music professor named Josephson, who wrote some great letters exposing the gaping holes in the railroading Lack was getting. I don't believe those are still up, however.
The truly disgusting thing is how intolerant of dissent to their opinions these ideologues are - they don't even want to talk about what may or may not be rape. If you bring up something like, "If the guy and the girl buy their own drinks, and get equally drunk, then have consensual sex, who's the rapist? Both of them? Neither of them? " you're in the camp of the enemy, a rape apologist.
I still read the Seattle City Paper online, one of these arguments was going on in their daily blog...Amy, I guarantee, if you'd posted this there, you'd have been right there with Satan.
Cat brother at December 12, 2006 9:50 AM
I am watching "The Ballad of Jack and Rose" (so far VERY disappointing), and wondering, Why are bat-shit crazy people so fun to take to bed? They just are. They're interesting, destructive, available, dangerous....anything beats boredom.
eric at December 12, 2006 3:25 PM
In the case of Ebbert, I don't see enough here to conclude that she made a false accusation. It could be that the driver really did rape her, but when she learned what his story was, she decided that it came down to his word against hers and that she'd be dragged through the mud by defense lawyers if she pressed charges.
Rex Little at December 12, 2006 5:12 PM
I agree with rex little here. I do believe that women should be prosecuted for false accusations but how do you determine that it was a false accusation unless a woman admits that?. Not wanting to have their whole lives put under a microscope is the reason many women do not report or press charges on rape. Changing your mind about reporting it is not evidence that you are a liar.
christina at December 12, 2006 6:50 PM
Regarding the "Studybaker" girls - be careful, VERY, VERY, CAREFUL. Theese girls are dangerous. They will lie, cheat, steal -anything - if it helps along whatever "scheme" they happen to be cooking up. I would go into more detail, however, I fear for my son & cousins well being. To quote Aimee - "we own the judicial system, we're untouchable". They need to be stopped. Maybe check on taking her to court in another county? I wish you both the best. Good luck. You'll need it.
Suzanne at April 11, 2007 10:16 AM
I agree with Suzanne - and i have herd the same comment from Aimee- you people need to beware of these girls they are both very horrible people and care for no one but themselves. Espesically Aimee- i have personally witnessed her putting her children in danger - like suzanne i would also go into more detail but fear for the well being of my children and friends children. Someone needs to stop these girl before the kids get hurt.
Kaitlyn at April 16, 2007 1:34 PM
I know "Aimee" had nothing to do with this. It clearly states in the report "Carey". Please do not be confused with the two names as to "Aimee" is a very nice lady whom cares a lot about herself, her children and her family. "Carey" has had many of her own problems in the past and many people confuse the two people. They have nothing to do with each other. To Suzanne and Kaitlyn (being fictious names to slander "Aimee") It is people like you whom live fake lives. These two people are really an old man whom is very unhappy with his Wife and his Life. Eric Davis and Michael Cook are very ignorant men. These two men staulk women and make up stories about them just the way "Carey and Stephanie" made their stories up.
I have known "Aimee" for many many years and love her to death. She is a wonderful mother and a good hearted person. I love you Aimee and do not worry about these 2 people and their family that are involved, they just wish they had a wonderful life and friends that adored them as well. Keep up the good work honey! We all love you and your a beautiful wonderful mother.
Sabrina at May 8, 2007 11:10 AM
I feel so sorry for Aimee, the way these people are making up lies. She's a great lady and very dedicated to her children. I am so sorry you have to go through this Aimee. Just remember, everyone knows who you really are and that you are going through a nasty divorce right now and that his family and/or friends are just trying to slander you. You are a beautiful person and a wonderful, compasionate, caring, loving mother. We all love you.
Lisa at May 8, 2007 11:32 AM
Aimee I love you to pieces. I think you are a wonderful mother and a great person. I hope all this is over for you soon. All of us at myspace understand whats going on and wish you the best of luck. Don't worry yourself about those two men. Your right, they have nothing better to do. We all know the real you and know all of this are a bunch of lies.
Love ya
Karen at May 9, 2007 5:26 AM
This blog is the most ridiculous thing I have ever seen. Most adults these days have nothing better to do but talk bad about one another. My advice for those of you warning the world about a certain two women is to grow up and live your own lives. Just because these two are sisters doesn't mean they are one in the same. I have a sister who is locked up for murder, but here I am an upstanding citizen who has never been arrested or even received a speeding ticket.
Sandra at May 9, 2007 8:57 AM
Thats right Sandra. You said it for all of us.
Jim at May 10, 2007 12:03 PM
Dear Sabrina, Lisa, Karen, I have known the Studybaker family for over 23 years. I understand how they can fool you. And you sound like you have a good heart, Just please be careful. They both dont care about the lives they ruin. And Sandra, this is about "A Man Can Lose Everything" HELLO - Suzane & Kaitlyn are pointing out these girls think its funny to lie to the system even if it destroys a mans life. They BOTH are guilty of this, if you research, you will clearly see BOTH of them have a pattern of when they are ready to move on to another man, they file ABUSE charges on them. Therefore, destroying a mans life with NO regard!
Kelly at May 14, 2007 9:23 AM
So "Kelly" you say you have known the "Studybakers" for 23 years, thats funny, that means you have known them since they were 4 & 7 years of age. HA HA - They were not even in Florida at this age - Gatcha Assholes.
So - for everyone else who reads this - Now you know what kind of iggnorant, staulkers these people are. "Suzanne & Kaitlyn" probally the same person. Loser!!!!!!!!!!!!
Life for them must really truley suck! Too bad for them.
Again Aimee - we love you to pieces and wish you the best of luck - thank god you have great friends like us to keep everyone else in check, us who know the real you.
I love you, can't wait to get together at the big party. Congratulations - You and your awsome kids Rock!!!!!!!!!
Sabrina at May 17, 2007 12:06 PM
okay- sabrina your stupid cause it seems that Kelly is talking about the studybaker family not just those girls. the studybaker family exsisted long before those kids were adoped. but i do see that your congratulating Aimee- what is she pregnant AGAIN by another man!! This blog is about women who destroy mens lifes without concern - try to stick to it- bottom line here Aimee and Carey do not care about the mens lifes that they destroy- or the children involved! Stick to the topic!
Deb at May 17, 2007 3:36 PM
This is my blog, not a battleground. You want to have some personal battle between yourselves, start your own blogs. I'm closing comments on this entry.
Amy Alkon at May 17, 2007 3:43 PM