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Islam means submission. Especially for women.

In an article headlined, "Family of teen Muslim invited men to rape her," Abul Taher writes in The Times/UK of a Muslim girl who arrived in the UK from Pakistan after being tricked into marrying a retarded man, and was then locked up and forced to have sex with men for money by the man's family:

A GIRL of 15 was tricked into a "telephone marriage" ceremony to a Sheffield man with a mental age of five in a ceremony recognised by sharia (Islamic law).

When the girl arrived from Pakistan expecting to meet the handsome man she had been shown in a photograph, she found that he was 40 years old, unemployed and disabled.

To make matters worse, her mother-in-law decided to exploit her attractive looks by forcing her into prostitution.

The family invited men to the family home to rape her before she managed to escape to the police by bolting through the front door. She was taken into care and now lives in a refuge.

The case is highlighted in a report by the Centre for Social Cohesion, which has found that policemen, councillors and taxi drivers are turning a blind eye or even conniving in enforcing the Asian community's strict "moral code" on young women.

The girl's marriage last April was not recognised by the Home Office but was approved by the Islamic Sharia Council in Britain. She is typical of the runaway brides at risk of an "honour killing". According to official figures, 10 to 12 women are murdered in Britain in honour killings each year, but the government has been warned by MPs that this is a serious underestimate. Police often record the deaths as cases of domestic violence, while other girls are driven to suicide or taken away to their family's country of origin and never seen again. Many Asian parents would rather resort to violence against their children than see their reputation tarnished by the perceived dishonour of allowing them to become "westernised".

The report, Crimes of the Community, claims the problem is no longer an issue of first-generation migrants importing attitudes from "back home" but is "indigenous and self-perpetuating" because it is sustained by third and fourth-generation immigrants.

The study reveals the case of Saamiya, a 16-year-old girl from Birmingham, whose parents were so angry when they discovered she had a boyfriend that they flew her to Pakistan and told her they had arranged a marriage two hours before the ceremony.

"During the Islamic ceremony my dad was standing behind me with one hand on my shoulder and with his other hand he had a gun which was pointed at my back so that I didn't say 'no'," Saamiya said.

"To everyone else it looked natural — he was just standing there stroking my shoulder — but just before he had told me that he would shoot me if I didn't go through with it."

She was rescued from Pakistan by the Foreign and Commonwealth Office's forced marriage unit and now lives in a refuge in the Midlands, but has been told that she will be murdered by her brothers. The girl told investigators: "I haven't been back home since then. My brothers say that they want to take me back to Pakistan so they can kill me basically. They'll just pay the police there to keep quiet... I don't want to be killed. I'm only 16. I want to live my life."

A commenter on the site writes:

I am always stunned at the hypocrisy of some people. "Many Asian parents would rather resort to violence against their children than see their reputation tarnished by the perceived dishonour of allowing them to become "westernised"." But you are quite happy to live here, and in this case, obtain benefits. If being "westernised" is so disgraceful why did you come here? How can you bear to live in this society? Is anyone forcing you to? One day decent people (and that especially includes those who have accepted the westerised way of life), will say "no more". I personally am fed up with being treated like a second rate citizen in my own country, while politicians pander to the whims of an ungrateful few.

Graeme, London

I think many come to western society to take advantage of our freedoms and all the benefits and discoveries that come out of a free society -- with the intention of growing their population until they are in enough of a number to turn a free society into a primitive one like the ones they came from.

thanks, lujlp

Posted by aalkon at February 4, 2008 9:39 AM

Comments

Suicide by "tolerance".

Posted by: Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg at February 4, 2008 8:36 AM

Then we better get our run-away feminism under control before a true backlash begins. Back. Lash.

Posted by: Jay R at February 4, 2008 4:36 PM

>>>Then we better get our run-away feminism under control before a true backlash begins. Back. Lash.

I'm not sure what you mean by this Jay. I don't agree with the NOW on much but they really don't bother me, we just see things differently. The barbarism that is the cult of islam, on the other hand, is an aggressive metastasising cancer on humanity that kills what ever don't submit to it. Kinda don't see the similarity.

Posted by: Bikerken at February 4, 2008 8:59 PM

I hate reading these stories Amy, but I always do just to remind myself that there are thousands of these stories that happen every single day in the world of a cult over a billion people strong. We must never get to the point of accepting this garbage and blowing it off. I'm surprised none of your islam apologists have showed up yet to preach to all of us on how this is the life these people choose so it's ok with them.

Posted by: Bikerken at February 4, 2008 9:04 PM

Bikerken

If I can guess, the point to Jay's post might be that the "runaway feminism" that NOW generally practices causes people to shut down their reactions and tune them out. This tuning out of "the NOW who cried wolf" will not be useful if and when they ever decide to concentrate on actual substantive issues where women are actually victimized.

It is just hard for me to take anything seriously from an organization that has a conniption over some chick being paid market value to make a snow angel on a Target logo, but can't be too concerned with the true atrocities against women that are regularly featured in this blog and on a few other websites.

Posted by: cpabroker at February 4, 2008 10:20 PM

OH, Nevermind.

Posted by: Bikerken at February 5, 2008 12:18 AM

So, let's see, Jay -- your thought is to fight oppression of women by oppressing women? While NOW has gotten ridiculous, I gotta say your logic's even worse. Yeah, shutting those bitches up will really do tons to keep these women from being killed. More like, it'll make damned sure we don't hear about it.

Posted by: Donna at February 5, 2008 10:47 AM

""Many Asian parents would rather resort to violence against their children than see their reputation tarnished by the perceived dishonour of allowing them to become "westernised"."

'Asian'? Asia's a big place...I don't see this happening in Japan (where I live), Korea, or China...we see where it is happening, why can't people just say so clearly? I see this kind of padded remark often.

Posted by: crella at February 6, 2008 8:20 PM

"Asian" is multi-culti code in England for Muslim. No...they aren't talking about sushi-eaters!

Posted by: Amy Alkon Author Profile Page at February 6, 2008 9:30 PM

Really! I had no idea. Inventive if nothing else!

Posted by: crella at February 6, 2008 11:24 PM

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