Sects And The City
Just posted another Advice Goddess column -- from a guy whose wife (from a "conservative culture" -- a Muslim country) got her phreak on before marriage a wee bit more than she claimed. "So, do I divorce her," he asks me, "Or let this go? I'm concerned she may be hiding other things."

An excerpt from my response:

In our country, if people find out you've had premarital sex, they might hoot and slap you on the back once or twice. In Muslim countries, they bring in a guy with a bamboo cane to do it 100 times.

The entire thing, plus comments, is here.