Feel The Bubbling Joy
And then scroll down for the bubbling ugly. In the New York Observer, a guy named Felix Gillette posts a story about ABC News producer Mimi Gurbst, who's quitting to become a high school guidance counselor:
In recent years, when she wasn't putting together stories as a senior producer for ABC's World News or helping to oversee global news-gathering operations as a network vice president, Mimi Gurbst liked to advise her colleagues on various ways to improve their personal and professional lives.Somewhere along the say, sources tell The Observer, Ms. Gurbst became a kind of cherished, if unofficial, career counselor at ABC News, helping countless young producers and correspondents find their way at a particularly tumultuous time in an already confusing business.
Soon Ms. Gurbst will be counseling uncertain youngsters, full-time.
Awwww..."cherished"? Wet kissies all around? Well, not exactly. Posted below the piece are comments about how Gurbst apparently ran the place, for 30 years -- apparently, like the news bureau version of Mean Girls.
Most of these comments seem to be anonymous, but the number and vehemence is stunning. It seems the tongue job Gillette did was just too much for Gurbst's former colleagues to bear.
Response defending Gurbst here.







I loved the 'defense'
Come on you guys shes a woman so it was hard even though she had enough money to hire people to raise her kids for her - it was tough.
God that woman was dispised, 8!!! pgs of people calling her a bitch
lujlp at May 20, 2010 8:03 AM
I haven't seen comments like that since the CIO who outsourced all our application developers got the axe.
There was a going away party. After he left. He wasn't invited.
MarkD at May 20, 2010 9:10 AM
Ugh, that brings back memories of a place where I used to work. My bosses were great people, but they turned over every six months because of the horrible shrew they reported to. So, during the year and ten months I worked there, I went through a parade of three different bosses. The first two were women who went home crying at least one night a week, and the third was a guy who skipped all the crying and simply walked away from the job one day with no notice.
It's so irritating when companies keep people around who cause that kind of turnover. This woman threw screaming tantrums on a weekly basis and would publicly humiliate and undermine the people who reported to her. Memo to senior management: Your departments are never going to accomplish anything if they never keep people around past the training phase!
The only satisfying part for me was that one day I listened to a 30-minute tirade get unleashed on the same recruiter who placed me in that hellhole. Apparently she even made the recruiter cry! I couldn't feel too sorry for her, though - by filling the same positions at the company over and over again, she must have raked in a bundle.
Screaming lady's boss was a ditzy flake who was never in the office and seemed unaware of what was going on. Probably because her personal life was a complete mess and her kid kept winding up in jail. A few years later, screaming lady and her ditzy boss were both gone.
Pirate Jo at May 20, 2010 9:23 AM
I gues only the Observer knows if it's several people making many comments, or just a few people, going crazy and trolling, but it seems to be the former.
You read something like this and wonder how someone can go from the very top to a high school. Maybe she's getting the torture she desserves?
Heidi at May 20, 2010 9:33 AM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2010/05/20/feel_the_bubbli.html#comment-1717418">comment from HeidiThe Observer would be able to see if it's several people or many (by the IP addresses) and that would be a story itself, so I'd bet these are from different people. Also, that's my take on it, being somebody who's pretty intimate with words, dialogue, and language -- that these are different people. It's hard to fake it in long comments.
Amy Alkon
at May 20, 2010 10:01 AM
Sounds like The Devil Wears Prada. Maybe they'll make a movie out of it.
lovelysoul at May 20, 2010 11:39 AM
There are only two ways to handle people who get off on humiliating and or abusing their workers.
The most obvious is to quit.
The second, is to have them convinced that you're a borderline psychotic without actually giving them reason to complain.
They'll either promote you out of the way, or avoid you themselves. Either way it works out.
I remember reading one of Scott Adams humor books, and he suggested:
"Keep new copies of guns & ammo, and soldier of fortune, magazine on your desk. Offer neither discussion or comment on them, every now and then, ask for a little time off to "take care of a personal problem."
That one made me laugh.
Robert at May 20, 2010 12:46 PM
Ouch! Not a lot of love there.
JT at May 20, 2010 12:47 PM
No comment yet, but to admire the locution "bubbling ugly".
Crid at May 20, 2010 2:49 PM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2010/05/20/feel_the_bubbli.html#comment-1717477">comment from CridWhy, thank you!
Amy Alkon
at May 20, 2010 2:51 PM
...aaannnd it's amazing what assumptions people make based on the possession of a magazine.
Chances are, the police in your town have subscriptions to G&A, American Handgunner and the like. Zounds! Bunches, notably the shooters (as opposed to political positions) belong to the NRA. Horrors!
Horrors?
I mean, imagine! The gall of believing that the ultimate power belongs to the people in the USA!
(And the abject ignorance of the level of firearms possession in this country. With more than half of the firearms in private hands worldwide - do the math- we're actually doing fine.)
You're supposed to be unarmed, and to do what you are told by people better than you.
Like your boss.
Radwaste at May 21, 2010 6:07 AM
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