The Talibanization Of Childhood In Britain
Muslim parents are denying their children numerous simple childhood pleasures in the name of Islam, writes Yasmin Alibhai-Brown in the Daily Mail, like drawing pictures, taking music lessons, having a teddy bear or a pet:
How about the daughter of a relative of mine, who was having a birthday-party and invited all the girls in her class. The Muslim pupils organised a boycott because she had invited 'unbelievers'.In one secondary school, a talented Muslim pupil was cast in the leading role in the George Bernard Shaw play Caesar And Cleopatra.
Her parents didn't seem to object, and all was going well until the dress rehearsal, when she turned up at school with bruises on her face, crying and refusing to go on stage.
The local imam had summoned her family and warned them that acting in plays was 'worse than whoredom'.The father, an engineer, refused to be cowed, but the mother, scared of what people would say, beat her daughter and threatened to take her out of school (which she duly did).
In my role as chair of the BMSD, I am advising young people in such hard situations.
Take 13-year-old Femida, who lives in a refuge with her Jordanian mother, a wedding singer.Her father, a convert to Islam, had become more and more authoritarian.
Mother and daughter fled after he took a hammer to the CD player and TV set, and tried to throttle his wife.
'He was screaming that he wanted to kill my voice so I could be a good Muslim,' says Femida.
...Free-thinking Muslims have lacked courage to oppose what is going on, while politicians do nothing for cynical reasons - best, they think, not to antagonise possible voters.
Meanwhile, the liberal position is to let people be and do what they wish within the law.
BSMD is an acronym for British Muslims for Secular Democracy.
Ben at Eye On Islam vets Ms. Alibhai-Brown's piece, which he calls "a rare note of Muslim protest against the 'extremists'":
Ms Alibhai-Brown could have admitted that Islam itself, at least as it has been institutionalised by the most respected Islamic scholarly and spiritual authorities throughout history, is a totalitarian belief system that contributes to the disturbing trends she outlines in her article, and articulated a plea for a grass-roots reform of Islam that would eradicate its political character and reject any assumptions - even long-held, cherished ones - that contradict modern constructs of democracy, freedom and human rights. But she does not do this. Instead, she blames Wahhabism - a "version" of Islam which has only existed since the eighteenth century, long after the aforementioned totalitarian impulse was institutionalised in the Islamic world.She ignores other things, as well. She ignores the Qur'anic and hadithic teachings that are used to justify the banning of music and art, as well as domestic abuse and honour killing. The problem is that she ultimately has no valid explanation as to why so many Muslims end up becoming "radicals" when Islam is supposed to be a Religion of Peace, and she has no clear method in mind for making this trend change. That is sad, and while I wish her well, I also have little hope that she will succeed in modernising Islam when she fails to acknowledge where the problems are coming from in the first place.







Please assume my normal warnings about reading the Daily Mail. Yes it's worrying, you know the line in that that really worries me?
'Meanwhile, the liberal position is to let people be and do what they wish within the law.'
Yup, that's my position, what's wrong with that? If people want to worship whatever beard in the sky they can, I also don't mind what they chose to stick in any of their orifices in private.
The thing is the line seems to imply that such a liberal would ignore these actions, that we would turn a blind eye but that's complete hokum. As a liberal (heck I even voted for them in our last election) I'm appalled. The first case (children boycotting a birthday party) is sad but people will do stupid things.
But a mother beating up her child? That's against the law, a pretty good law if you ask me beating up children == bad. So the mother and the Iman should be arrested, her for child abuse and him for accessory to child abuse.
I'm pretty sure trying to strangle your wife is against the law too.
My point here is that wishy washy liberals like myself are outraged by such things because they step over the bound from personal belief and freedom into being (to coin a simple brit phrase) a dick.
Yes it's a problem, and it's going to continue being a problem for a while but I hope that as a country Britain can make it through yet another period of religious dickery, preferably without having to burn too many people at the stake.
Simon Proctor at August 6, 2010 1:48 AM
Heard on Bill Bennett show this morning per Former senator Rick Santorum. The current administration just came out with there new list of terror groups and the Taliban is NOT on it.
David M. at August 6, 2010 6:40 AM
I really liked her article, actually. My jaw was hanging open when I read about the ban on music classes. And asking librarians not to lend out books to their children. What enriches life more than music and literature? It boggled my mind. You can read about the oppression all day long, but a specific example like that made a deep impression on me.
cornerdemon at August 6, 2010 7:31 AM
It's not all that different from what the Palestinians do to their children. They're raising them to be haters and killers.
Cousin Dave at August 6, 2010 7:52 AM
@Simon: I have every confidence that you are as sickened by these actions as I am. Unfortunately, most "politicians", liberal or conservative, turn a blind eye towards this type of abuse because they don't want to be seen as religious bigots. I agree with Yasmin when she says:
"...politicians do nothing for cynical reasons - best, they think, not to antagonise possible voters."
But the problem with: "If people want to worship whatever beard in the sky they can," is that Islam is a religion that has a totalitarian political system tightly integrated. The two cannot be separated. Islam without Sharia law is merely in a holding pattern until such time as Sharia law can be enacted. I agree with the sentiment that people can worship whatever they want, but only as long as said worship doesn't limit my rights by force. Islam fails that test.
AllenS at August 6, 2010 8:16 AM
It might be simpler to separate these abuse issues from Islam. I am reminded of the article a few years back about the Amish girl abused and raped by her family members.
The point is: rather than getting all wrapped up in complicated, just treat these issues according to the law: as child abuse, as crimes, or whatever is appropriate. Skip the whole religious issue.
bradley13 at August 6, 2010 8:31 AM
"The point is: rather than getting all wrapped up in complicated, just treat these issues according to the law: as child abuse, as crimes, or whatever is appropriate. Skip the whole religious issue."
I have to agree with this. As much as I despise Islam, the fact is, nothing can be done to change their minds or get them to convert to another religion, so, do what you can. Punish the crimes as they are committed. It won't change them, but it will get them off the streets.
Sabrina at August 6, 2010 8:45 AM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2010/08/06/the_talibanizat.html#comment-1740173">comment from SabrinaYou might be able to get a beating to be classified as child abuse -- and I say "might" because Western judges are increasingly "respecting" other cultures. Primitive cultures that allow such things (go on YouTube, and you'll hear Muslim holy men advising men to beat their wives and telling them how to go about it).
Amy Alkon
at August 6, 2010 9:04 AM
It might be simpler to separate these abuse issues from Islam. I am reminded of the article a few years back about the Amish girl abused and raped by her family members
I want a link on that one bradley13
lujlp at August 6, 2010 10:40 AM
When life on earth sucks, people turn to imaginary friends. And that's not the worst part - it's the imaginary friends' self-appointed armies you gotta watch out for. Make life better for all people on earth and I bet there'd be a lot less dickery. How to make life better? Get off your ass and do something real. Take action. Send protest postcards. Raise hell. Stay visible. Vote. Clicking on facebook is ok but it doesn't really count, sorry. You can do better than that.
Little Shiva at August 6, 2010 11:25 AM
Lujlp: Here is a link about the Amish girl who was raped by her relatives, and had all her teeth pulled as punishment when she tried to report it.
The point is: there are bad apples, and sometimes entire bad crates of apples. This can happen in any culture (granted, in some more than others), but it is the crime that is punishable. Justice is supposed to be "blind", in the sense of being applied equally to everyone, and that's all that is really required.
bradley12 at August 6, 2010 1:05 PM
Free thinking muslim is a contradiction in terms.
Robert at August 6, 2010 2:28 PM
I just hated any islamic people that tried to make use of their islamic abuse stories to threaten us nonbelievers.
WLIL at August 6, 2010 6:39 PM
If those islamic people can't even change for the better when living in a western society and still persist in imposing their abusive totalitarian system in a democracy, then there is no point them migrating to the western world.
WLIL at August 6, 2010 6:44 PM
Yasmin should blame her own backward islamic people and not anyone else.
WLIL at August 6, 2010 6:56 PM
It seems those islamic people have intention to control the world via talibinasation and via making a big aggressive show about their slavelike mentality towards their god.
WLIL at August 7, 2010 1:04 AM
Theeir own islamic people should take take the initiative to ban the burka and not expect us outsider nonbelievers to do the work for them or slave over their problems which was due to their own islamic greed and which was created by their own islamic community.
WLIL at August 10, 2010 3:30 AM
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