I actually HATE being called. My friends know not to call me, and especially not during my writing day. I nap at odd hours when I'm writing, and I have ADHD, and if I get in some good flow and the phone rings, it kills it.

I talk to a few friends on the phone, occasionally, but in the early evening or if there's something we really need to discuss that can't wait until we're in person, or if we can't get together for a while. In general, email is always preferred, as is getting together for quality time, face to face.

And no, Jim P., I don't consider your emails spam! Not at all. But, you don't overdo it, either. Nor does Rad and nor do most people who comment here.