Because THOSE women are only interested in us for our money.

Ummmm...

Why bother? Won't change their mind any.

I take mine to the rippers, sometimes we go with his buddies, sometimes he goes alone with his buddies.

That's the thing....they ARE only interested in the money. I think most women are worried it will turn out like the Hangover.

I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he eats at home.

Seeing a racetrack filled with formula one cars makes me appreciate that I have too have a car with excellent handling and power, though a lot less finicky.

Walking through a rose garden makes me appreciates roses more and more apt to enjoy flowers at home.

Also, tits.

She shouldn't worry. I'm as emotionally indifferent to them as I am to her.

If I wanted to go to a strip club, my wife would be right to worry. I've never had an interest in them before, and major changes in behavior can be a sign of brain damage.

As for Hooters, every time I've been to one of those, it was because that was where she wanted to go to eat.

I like looking at beautiful women the same way I like looking at any other beautiful thing. Since when did marriage mean not appreciating beauty? That's just one more thing we "all" started buying that we never should've been buying.

My wife can look at beautiful women. She can look at beautiful men, too. And heck, I can certainly notice physically fit men, nothing "gay" about that. It's a motivator. "Bet that guy can run faster than I can, I gotta get up off my butt and get in shape." Actually, lately that happens all the time, especially this time of year.

We've somehow just recently started accepting that anyone who sees anyone else as something more important than one-more-human-in-the-way, must want to sleep with that person. This is one of the great delusions of our times.

Also: Hooters != strip club. Spread the word.

I admit I would be SUPER offended if my SO went to Hooters. I would loathe it.

Please go to a proper strip club. Don't waste your money on tits you can't see and frozen chicken wings.

> Please go to a proper strip club. Don't waste your money on tits you can't see and frozen chicken wings.

And 80s fashion. I don't think my grandmother wore support hose as thick as a Hooter's girl's nylons.

And that's my take on the food. Titty bar food prices for G rated titillation and subpar onion rings.

Errr.....

I've never been in any Hooters or strip clubs, ever?

"Why bother? Won't change their mind any" .Posted by: Nick

I'm with Nick... if they freak out over stuff like that, there is not thing one you can do about it... either put up, or MOA. My ex found out my officemate was a woman, and you should've seen the shitstorm. A couple of years later, she found out my officemate was good looking, and another storm. I shoulda been looking for the signs of an insecure control freak, but a lot of those traits didn'a come out, until we were married.

Hate to tell chicas this, but there are beautiful women everywhere, and guys can certainly imagine what the form under the clothes looks like.

whatever it is that sets you apart will continue to do so.

I enjoy Hooters every once in a while, if it is convenient to where I'm staying (usually a hotel).

I would advise women to worry about the local Waffle House or Denny's where the waitresses are actually paid to make the customer happy, not to just look g0od.

And if the women is a lady, she'll understand that while he enjoys the quick meal at the Waffle House, he will more enjoy eating at home as long as she is willing to make him feel important enough to enjoy the meal, and not make him feel guilty for her work to cook it up.

Then the flip-side is that he needs to appreciate that his lady is working to make life better for him and them at the same time.

As always, it depends on the guy. Myself, I prefer screwing. A tease isn't worth paying for. I've never been to Hooters so I can't comment. I suppose hot wings and a Laker game might get me in the door.

I prefer the wings at Wing House to those at Hooters, but as far as this article is concerned, they're the same thing. Strip clubs, I wouldn't waste another red cent on.

As for our women not needing to worry about us going there...well, it really depends. If you're really worried that your man is going to pick up one of those girls and trade you in, then consider either hitting the gym or dumping him.

As for strip clubs.....how much disposable income does he have? Some of those girls are less than professional and will do anything for some extra cash...

If he spends the rent money on a stripper...worry.

If he throws down some ones and watches some tits shake before he comes home to nail you...don't worry.

If he comes home from throwing down ones, and he 'doesn't' nail you...join a gym.

Went to a strip club once. Went to Hooters once. I found both to be unpleasant and depressing, and the food at Hooters made me feel queasy. No desire to ever go back to either again.

"Seeing a racetrack filled with formula one cars makes me appreciate that I have too have a car with excellent handling and power, though a lot less finicky."

That's a great analogy, Jerry. For those who don't know anything about race cars, the analogy I use is the art musuem. You go to look at stuff, because it's interesting and different. You don't go with the idea that you're actually going to buy or handle any of it. You may not even be attracted to any of it.

I will say, for the record, that my wife has no problem with me doing any of these things. In fact, she usually goes to Hooters with me. She likes to point out one of the waitresses and say, "Mine are bigger than that!"

Also: I've known some strippers. And in my experience, most of them have seriously screwed-up attitudes towards me. That's another reason for women not to worry -- the more you get to know a stripper, the less you'll like her.

I've never been to a strip club; I would find it a little embarrassing. In addition, as Canvasback says, a tease isn't worth paying for.

In the immortal words of Ron Swanson, "Strippers don't do anything for me, but I'll take an all-you-can-eat breakfast bar any time."

All strippers are the same, huh?

Not quite.

As the noted sage Ron White says, " Once you've seen one set of tits…you want to see them all"

I have no interest in going to a strip club or Hooters. Now, my wife would not have a problem with me going to Hooters, UNLESS I wound up with an Asian waitress. If she were to find out about that, she would hit the roof.

Let me let you in on a nasty secret: men like to drink beer, eat fatty food, and get waited on hand and foot by beautiful women.

Alas, my bride is not the "wait on hand and foot" type. So on occasion, I go to Hooters.

I've never understood the "I don't care where he/she gets their appetite as long as they eat at home" bullcrap. It's insulting-he's got to get it up to other tits then come home, close his eyes and hold his nose and get off in you? Really? That's ok with you? (Or, she's got to get wet to some sparkly vampire, then come home and close her eyes....). Sorry, for me, you coming home and announcing (verbally or otherwise) "some other chic hot me horny, now you come take care of it" isn't getting you laid. And I already hit the gym, so it's not a lazy or insecure thing. It's an "I don't clean up other people's leftovers" thing.

I've never understood the "I don't care where he/she gets their appetite as long as they eat at home" bullcrap. -- Momof4 at November 30, 2013 9:38 PM

And you never had a single time that you sat down and read a book, or saw a movie, that put you in the mood?

You never walked down the street and saw a handsome guy and then went home and had a romantic evening?

In my limited experience with them, Hooter's food quality has varied quite a bit. I don't see a problem with it unless he is going there a lot and really going out his way to do so. For example, years ago I worked at a customer's data center for about 2 weeks. It was on the out skirts of town but just down the street was a Hooters and some nasty looking dive bar. A co-worker and I ended up going to Hooters a few times - probably would have more if another co-worker had not threated to complain to HR if we went there. We went when she was out installing stuff at the customers retail locations.

Strip clubs I think is going to depend also. Where I used to live there was only a couple and they were expensive. Where I am now there are quite a few and they are cheap...if you want to eat cheap that is were you go.

And for things like bachelor parties I think there is nothing to worry about beyond him spending too much.