Sad Story: Anthropology Student Gets Involved With Yanomami Woman And They Have A Kid
I know Nap Chagnon, with whom this guy worked (who jokes that I say "Yanomami" -- the name of this woman's tribe, which he studied -- like it's a Japanese venereal disease).
There's a story in the NYPost about the child of anthropology student Kenneth Good and the woman from the Yanomami tribe he got involved with and brought back to America. Of course, this worked predictably well, and the kid ended up growing up without a mom. Maureen Callahan writes about the mother:
She was born and raised in the jungle, in a remote village that rarely, if ever, encounters any outsiders, let alone Westerners. Her age is unknown, because the Yanomami count only up to 2; anything more than that is called "many." They have no electricity, no plumbing, no paved roads, no written language, no markets or currency, no medicine.
Good got involved with the mother when she was 12 or 13. He went away for a time and she was attacked and gang-raped -- apparently because he was not there to protect her. He then took her to Caracas for modern medical care -- and then convinced her to come to America. Yeah, take the woman who lives like it's the Stone Age out of her culture and bring her to the most modern country in the world, with all that offers and means. What could possibly go wrong?
At the time, Yarima was nine months pregnant with David. They found a doctor to write a note, falsely claiming she was less far along, so that she could fly.In November 1986, within a week of arriving in Bryn Mawr, Pa., Yarima went into labor and was panicked by the American hospital: the gurneys, the monitors, the machines, the needles. Once admitted, she sprung herself out of bed and attempted to give birth by squatting in the corner of the hospital room.
"It was so unnatural to her," Kenneth says. "It went against everything she ever learned."
After David was born, Kenneth attempted to settle Yarima into modern American domesticity, with a sprinkling of celebrity treatment: Around that time, a reporter at People magazine caught wind of their story, and in January 1987, Kenneth and Yarima -- who spoke no English, no matter -- were profiled in a feature called "An Amazon Love Story: Romance -- and a Jumbo Jet -- Took Yarima from the Stone Age to Philadelphia."
Kenneth got movie offers.
Meanwhile, his wife was becoming ever more isolated and desperate. While Kenneth was teaching, Yarima would take the $20 he left every morning and go to Dunkin' Donuts, then the $10 store, where she never knew how much she could buy. She had to adapt to wearing clothes every day and thought that running cars were animals on the attack. She had no friends."I miss my family," Yarima told People magazine. "I want to go home." Kenneth was her translator.
She went home and stayed, and their son told people his mother had died in a car crash. He then saw her in a photo of her with a bone through her nose and face paint at the Museum of Natural history. And now, as an adult, he's back down there with her.







That was an absolutely horrific tale. It was also very poorly written. I still don't have an exact sense of the timeline, but it appears that they had more than this kid, David. The father sounds like a real piece of work. I feel bad for the kids (now adults) who are nothing more that the leftover products of an experiment gone wrong.
Sheep mommy at May 29, 2014 7:03 AM
When this kid finally loses it, at least he'll only be shooting at Yanomani or Venezuelans.
So there's that.
Oschisms at May 29, 2014 7:39 AM
Not a horrific tale. Just another example of people making reproductive decisions without looking long term.
Probably several million of those a year.
The other two children don't have the angst about their beginnings that the writer does. Wonder why?
Isab at May 29, 2014 7:44 AM
"Her age is unknown, because the Yanomami count only up to 2; anything more than that is called 'many.' They have no electricity, no plumbing, no paved roads, no written language, no markets or currency, no medicine."
An aside, but does anyone see a cause and effect here? There ought to be a lesson for people who support our own civilization-destroyers.
Cousin Dave at May 29, 2014 7:52 AM
What an idiot. First, he shouldn't have brought her to the States. Second, assuming he did, there's a lot he could have done to make life easier... perhaps living in the country, giving birth in a natural birthing center, living on a nudist commune, whatever. It's not like there aren't options once you're in the States.
But maybe he couldnt leave her because she would get gang raped again.
NicoleK at May 29, 2014 8:24 AM
To steal an old joke from an African-American stand up comic named Steve White:
"Kenneth Good! What's his middle name? Ain't?"
Oschisms at May 29, 2014 8:33 AM
What are you talking about Isab, this a horrific tale, plenty of people choose poorly their reproductive partners but Jesus look at what this guy did:
1. Is given a 9 year old bride but doesn't fuck her till 13
2. Woman is gang raped by 20-30 men and he just shrugs it off as an opsie.
3. Mother abandons kids and anytime his son asks about it he doesn't answer
4. Son is distraught and the dad thinks its because he is 5'4" aka a short little brown boy.
5. Son finally finds out what happened to mom when he sees her in the Museum on school trip
As to why only the eldest is having a crisis. Isn't the answer obvious? He's the only one that remembers her, the others were just babies/toddlers.
Ppen at May 29, 2014 8:47 AM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2014/05/29/sad_story_anthr.html#comment-4696760">comment from PpenExactly right, Ppen.
Amy Alkon
at May 29, 2014 8:58 AM
So Good was a student at the time? Wonder what kind of grade he got in "Ethics of Anthropology"...
bkmale at May 29, 2014 9:26 AM
@ppen
The history of human kind is people surviving awful situations, and awful beginnings and moving on with their own individual lives.
Wallowing in his angst about shit does nothing for this guy, and does nothing for anyone else.
as Crid says, it isn't "helpful".
There are no new lessons to be learned from this.
The father rightly caught a lot of grief for bringing her out of the jungle to begin with. He was an anthropologist for Christ sakes, and he still let his dick do his thinking for him.
Love doesn't conquer everything. We have known that for about ten thousand years,
A lot of kids lose both parents, in a traumatic fashion.(not just one)
I'm reminded of the Japanese elementary school up on the hill above a town near Sendai. While they watched, a one hundred foot wall of water made most of them orphans in about one minute.)
If you are going to use your mother going back to where she came from, and leaving you safe,housed, and well fed in another country, as an excuse to become an emotional basket case, no amount of naval gazing over past events is going to help you with that.
Isab at May 29, 2014 9:39 AM
You're missing the point.
Ppen at May 29, 2014 9:42 AM
Isab might be missing the point but she made a better one.
And from what I gathered from the article he was the youngest, not the oldest, and therefore would have had less memories of her.
His emotional problems didnt stem for his mother going home, but from his fathers callous disregard for anything or anyone other than himself
lujlp at May 29, 2014 10:14 AM
You're missing the point.
Posted by: Ppen at May 29, 2014 9:42 AM
If I am missing the point, it may be because there isn't one.
This story was written for voyeurs to sensationalize the whole exotic
'I was ashamed of my mother because she had a bone through her nose' but now I have seen the light, and joined the pure genuine, culturally authentic civilization that she came from'
with the obligatory secondary theme , all men are monsters, and look how badly my mother was treated".
It is a liberal wet dream, and you are all "tut tutting" in a unified chorus.
I frankly don't see anything but tabloid journalism here.
Isab at May 29, 2014 10:20 AM
You are wrong lujlp.
David was the son conceived in Venezuela.
"His sister Vanessa was born just over a year afterwards on a banana leaf in the Amazon, while the family were on a trip back to Hasupuweteri. A baby brother, Daniel, came along three years later"
Ppen at May 29, 2014 10:44 AM
"It is a liberal wet dream, and you are all "tut tutting" in a unified chorus. "
Why are you turning this into a "liberals wet dream"? I didn't get the impression from him at all. I'm tired of accusations that everything is liberal propaganda.
If getting his dick sucked on by mosquitos and shitting uncontrollably helps him come to terms with his mothers abandonment and fathers narcism then I'm not sure how this is nothing more than a story of a man who wants to come to terms with his roots.
I'm an atheist and I once traveled to a shitty third world country to come to terms with my family's religious roots too.
I've been to Venezuela & Peru and yes some people choose to live in the jungle for various reasons. They find it to be a spiritual experience and I really respect the ones that enjoy it.
And here is the point: We all know that bad, horrific things happen to people. Telling them that bad horrific things have always happened will no more help them get over it than them sitting in their houses whining about it.
I like to hear these stories and what kind of journey people take to come to terms with who they are.
Ppen at May 29, 2014 11:00 AM
"all men are monsters, and look how badly my mother was treated"
BTW he speaks about how badly his mother was treated by the tribe......
Ppen at May 29, 2014 11:03 AM
And finally yes you are right he is *quite* the liberal:
"He wants his organisation, called The Good Project, to help indigenous people find their way in the market economy, a process he sees as inevitable. He says that those who live in more Westernised villages near missions can struggle with their identity, just like he did"
Ppen at May 29, 2014 11:17 AM
He says that those who live in more Westernised villages near missions can struggle with their identity, just like he did
Yeah, when you dont have to spend every waking moment fighting to stay alive its easy enough for you to use leisure time to question things
lujlp at May 29, 2014 11:57 AM
"Her age is unknown, because the Yanomami count only up to 2; anything more than that is called 'many.'"
This is just bad science. Like many groups the Yanomami cannot count to two. They have basic concepts like few, many, alot. Or larger/smaller more/less. If you start off with one two is many and anything more is alot. When you go the other direction you get a different answer.
Ben at May 29, 2014 1:33 PM
I like to hear these stories and what kind of journey people take to come to terms with who they are.
Posted by: Ppen at May 29, 2014 11:00 AM
So in other words, there was no point.
This is just a New York Post version of 'go fund me'. Because of. .......feelings, and identity struggles, and coming to terms with...who ..you.. are.
Which is all new age pop psych bullshit.
So this guy voluntarily chooses to live in a culture, where any woman who is unprotected by her husband or father will be gang raped by all the other men in the tribe.
Got it. The noble savage, and all that.
And when I said, 'liberal wet dream' I was referring to the article itself, not the people mentioned in it.
Isab at May 29, 2014 1:49 PM
Sounds like an excellent opportunity for the visiting observer to invoke the Prime Directive.
Anyway, "like it's a Japanese venereal disease" - man, those Axis diseases are the WORST. Especially the German sausage diseases.
Those really are the wurst.
Gog_Magog_Carpet_Reclaimers at May 29, 2014 1:57 PM
Anyway, "like it's a Japanese venereal disease" - man, those Axis diseases are the WORST. Especially the German sausage diseases.
Those really are the wurst.
Posted by: Gog_Magog_Carpet_Reclaimers at May 29, 2014 1:57 PM
I've had one of those. Isn't the only effective treatment three liters of beer?
Isab at May 29, 2014 5:30 PM
"I've had one of those. Isn't the only effective treatment three liters of beer? "
It doesn't actually make it better, but it makes you not care.
Cousin Dave at May 30, 2014 6:39 AM
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