Murder Bugs Me
Last week, at a journalist event I went to, a squat, gray-haired older woman -- one of those sad-eyed multi-culti types -- overheard me talking rather opinionatedly, shall we say, about the dangers to Western society from Islam. More about her later.
I was talking to some PR agency woman who looked like a public service announcement for why not to have plastic surgery and her female friend/client whose book the PR lady mistakenly tried to push on me.
It turns out the author woman had married one of Arafat's chief advisors, and seemed to have a problem with that only because her husband tried to keep her children -- and keep them in the West Bank, to boot -- after they had marital problems. I was appalled at the woman's choice of partner, and appalled that she wasn't appalled, and made no bones about that. In fact, I got on my broom, and didn't get off for about 20 minutes.
My favorite was when the author said we need more "interfaith" sessions. "No we don't!" I said. "Christians and Jews aren't the problem!" Lecturing them on Islam doesn't change Islam, the real problem, an iota.
I pointed out that I am no fan of the evidence-free belief in god, and find plenty wrong with all religions. I find "The Chosen People" moniker immature and offensive and think religiously-based circumcision of boys is barbaric. I fight efforts by Christians to legislate their beliefs on me, and I don't know how anybody can continue in the Catholic church after the pedophilia scandals and the way they covered them up. I went on to express how disgusted I am by the way Los Angeles Cardinal Roger Mahony is going to parishioners with his hand out, so the Church, said to be the wealthiest landowner in the world, won't have to part with any of their real estate wealth. Whatta scumbag.
That said, of all the religions in the world, Islam is by far the worst. As I pointed out to the woman, there are maybe five Christian nutbags running around blowing stuff up, but they're batshit crazy, or at least sociopathic, and you don't see rabbis or ministers standing up before their flock and telling them to go out and murder people who don't believe as they do.
You can predict what came next: "Not all Muslims..."
No, but far too many Muslims... Twelve percent of Canadian Muslims, for example, thought it was okay to murder the Prime Minister and blow up Parliament, for example. That's 84,000 people.
I told her that I'm an atheist, and if atheists were murdering other people in the name of their beliefs (or, rather, nonbelief), I'd be out marching the streets loudly proclaiming them to be barbarians. Where could I find her speaking out about those who murder in the name of Islam?
She argued that the problem is that people get Islam wrong (as in, it's really "a religion of peace"). Heh. Wrong girl to trot that one out for. I informed her that I'd been reading about Islam since 9/11, and the Koran actually commands Muslims to kill, convert, or tax and humiliate (through "dhimmitude") anyone who is not Muslim. And there's all manner of creepy stuff in there, probably written to justify Mohammed's immoralities, like how he married Aisha when she was six, and consummated the marriage when she was nine.
Islam threatens everything I value -- Western Enlightenment values -- and I think Muslims who remain silent while people are murdering in the name of their religion (and by "silent" I mean Muslims who do not go on the air and vocally protest this, or stage protest marches and the like, just for starters) are near-accomplices to the terror.
I do understand, I told the woman, why Muslims don't speak out. When former Muslims like Wafa Sultan and Ayaan Hirsi Ali do, there are death threats against them. And that's probably why, as Christopher Hitchens told me, Sam Harris doesn't write or speak in his real name, and when he writes a letter to the editor of a magazine, his location is always printed as something like "via Internet," while others have "Stamford, Connecticut" and the like printed under their names.
I pointed out that I say all manner of offensive things about how ridiculous I think it is to believe, without evidence, in god, but when I do, Jews and Christians sometimes tell me or e-mail me that they think I'm "offensive" or will "burn in Hell" (Christians say that), but nobody ever e-mails me to tell me they're worried for my safety, as many people did after I wrote THE most mild column mentioning some of the problems for women in Islam.
I could tell that the author and her apparently surgically reconstructed friend/handler were appalled by what I said, and frankly, I was glad. I only wished that they were appalled by what comes out of Islam instead of the fact that I have a problem with it, which I have no problem being vocal about.
I turned to leave, and the squat, gray-haired older woman approached me. She, said, with solemn earnestness, she wanted to tell me about a "study" she'd heard about. "Yes?" I said, smiling a little, and laughing on the inside. (I knew this was going to be good.)
The woman was one of those sad-eyed "spread the love!" types who doesn't understand the difference between "tolerance" and tolerance for a religion in which large numbers of the leaders tell their worshippers to go out and kill the "infidel" (people like the woman and me, who I highly doubt was a Muslim).
The woman described a situation somebody'd set up -- one I'd actually read about in passing but wasn't terribly interested in -- where a man in a cafe refused to serve a girl in a hijab.
The point of the study, apparently, was whether others in the café would speak up against the guy behind the counter. The woman said she was moved to "tears" by how people behaved.
Oh, boo frigging hoo.
I wonder if she's moved to tears for all the people who've died in the 9,000-some attacks by Islamists since 9-11...like the Tibetan Buddhist teachers who were killed for being infidels. As I asked before..."D'ya think that one has something to do with Gaza?"
It seemed she thought the idea that she was moved to tears would be enough and I would be persuaded that Islam isn't a death cult. (Of course, she doesn't think in those terms.)
Whoopsie!
Furthermore, I'm largely libertarian, and rather fond of the act of thinking (as opposed to the act of blind acceptance), so I asked the woman a question: What if the person who came up to the counter was somebody who believed in Nazism, and in full Nazi regalia?
"That's different!" said the woman.
"No it's not," I told her. I told her I find Nazism reprehensible, and I was guessing she did, too, but if you dislike somebody's belief system, and it's your café, why shouldn't you have a right to decide not to serve them?
And yes, this, of course, goes for those café owners who don't want to serve atheists with red hair and skin the color of fresh Wite-Out (me, for example) -- Wite-Out-skinned atheists whose problem isn't that they don't understand Islam...but that they do.







This is not a religion of peace (in most of it's interpretations). While fundies are the treat when I see women in a burka I get quite cautious. If your wearing a burka you are definatly a fundy, I don't give a rats ass why your wearing it.
The hijab is worn by many groups and usually can't be differentiated from what Russian gradmas wear when the get that certain kind of old. Using the Nazi example, that's like turning on someone when the swastica is facing the wrong way. To the uniformed they look identical but one is a symbol of oppression and hate and the other is a symbol for prosperity (I think not sure).
I'm all for discrimination when used in such sense but also caution against setting for definitions too broadly.
vlad at April 30, 2008 6:48 AM
I always laugh when people try to persuade me to be "tolerant" of ALL cultures -
Oh, you mean I am to be "tolerant" of a culture that allows women to get stoned to death for adultery and doesn't allow women to show their faces or drive... I am to be tolerant of people who blow up Buddhists sculptures, beat women (as the Taliban did/possibly still does) for laughing or making too much noise; I am to be tolerant of people who strap bombs to children and remove girls' clitorises?
Sorry, guess I'm just not that tolerant.
Michele at April 30, 2008 7:40 AM
Hey Amy, why not just say what you think straight out without sugarcoating it?
Great post! Your words are a breath of fresh air clearing away the cobwebs of deceit spun by Islamic apologists, except they're really more like a tornado.
Tolerance of evil is evil itself.
Kirk at April 30, 2008 8:06 AM
Thanks so much, Kirk.
P.S. If anyone knows Rebecca Solnit's e-mail address, my offer still stands on training her on how to speak up when men "explain things" to her.
Amy Alkon at April 30, 2008 8:20 AM
P.S. I do love when people make the assumption that polite conversation involves this mistaken idea that you'll "tolerate" the intolerable, and give all beliefs equal weight. I'm guessing the ladies approached me in that spirit. They were pretty astonished when I got on my broom. I mean, you married Arafat's spokesterrorist, and you want me to give you a book party for it? Right.
Amy Alkon at April 30, 2008 8:22 AM
That "Religion of Peace" notion never seems to include the little disclaimer that their concept of peace is everyone bowing to Islam , or dying.Funny that.
mbruce at April 30, 2008 8:39 AM
heh, such a trouble-maker you :D... I think the answer I will use when confronted with this 'but they're/we're the religion of peace.' Is to say, "are you ready to denounce the people who are hijacking your faith? I'm not railing against those who are peaceful, but against those who incite violence against everyone else. If the one dosn't distance itself from the other, they are implicitly accepting what the others are doing." I realize that this is dangerous for them, but it is better to say nothing than to defend a murderous zealot. He will target them next. 'Course a lot of the defenders aren't Muslim, and may never have even met one... They don't realize how different this is from other religions.
SwissArmyD at April 30, 2008 9:25 AM
I was reading this article and a little idea came to me:
What if they were Vikings?
Let's think about it; suddenly, in Norway, a religious group chose to revive the old medieval Viking traditions of Odin and all their irks. Let's just say that they are using some Petro-Dollars to finance a huge movement with the goal of reversing modern culture and save the proud heritage of raiding cities living next to the atlantic coast?
If this was the case, how long we would tolerate the presence of armed psychos in the atlantic ocean? Do we will search for excuse is sociology for their pillage and rape of women? How long would it take for the people of Norway to react? Would we be afraid to invade Norway because they are the second global producer of crude oil?
Tolerance is a easy dialogue when the offending party is away.
Toubrouk at April 30, 2008 9:37 AM
I saw the "experiment" the older woman was talking about, it was an offshoot of ABC's 20/20, something like "What Would You Do?" I believe every private establishment legally reserves the right to refuse service to anyone they want to, and me, not being an owner or employee, well, I have no say in the matter. There were plenty of people on both sides of the fence that spoke up, but as for me, I wouldn't have said anything one way or the other. None of my business. However, if someone asks me what I think about it, well, they just might regret that. I keep my broom in my back pocket, for just such emergencies. o_O
Flynne at April 30, 2008 9:55 AM
I completely agree. Private property and free markets means nothing, if people can't decide freely with whom to trade, with whom to cooperate. There is no distinction between social and economic rights.
Jeff at April 30, 2008 1:20 PM
Amy,
The Catholic Church pedophile scandal was horrible. But I continue as a Catholic, and I am proud of Pope Benedict. Pope Benedict has been establishing himself as one religious leader (are there any others?) who is not afraid to confront Islam. The Pope definitely "gets" the threat of Islam. Remember his famous quoting of Paleologus:
http://www.martinfrost.ws/htmlfiles/july2007/warning_islam.html
Then, more recently, there was Benedict's very public baptism of ex-Muslim Magdi Allam:
http://darwincatholic.blogspot.com/2008/03/pope-benedict-baptises-ex-muslim.html
If western civilization is going to have a "prayer" (pun intended) of surviving the Ilamic onslaught, we are going to need many more Benedicts springing up from the Judeo Christian community.
Ken at April 30, 2008 1:25 PM
Amy, your excellent post raises an issue which I have been pondering lately: What would it take actually to win the War on Terror and how would we know when we have won?
The second part is easier to answer than the first. The War on Terror will have been won when there are no more groups in this world who are bent on destroying our culture using the weapons of terrorism -- or at least when there are no more than a handful of weak and isolated groups left.
But the first part is very difficult. I do not think it is possible for those of us in the West to eliminate all of the terrorist cells who want to kill us. They are too intimately intertwined with the rest of the "civilian" Islamic culture. So long as Islamic schools teach jihad to children, so long as mosques preach hatred against the West, so long as homicide-bombers are regarded as heroes and held in high esteem, it will be impossible for us to separate, and thus neutralize, violent Islamists from ordinary Muslims, who, though they may hate us, at least are not trying to kill us.
I do not think that we of the West can win this war. I do think that by constant vigilance and swift, determined action we can stave off defeat, but I do not think that we are the ones who can win it. By our own action alone I believe we can prevent another disaster like 9/11, but we will not be able to end the threat, and so we will not be able to quit and go home.
As you have hinted in your post, Amy, I think it is moderate Muslims who must fight and ultimately win this war. When moderate Muslims -- and I hope and believe there are many -- have the temerity to stand up and speak out against the terrorists, when they refuse to allow terrorists safe haven in their midst, when they deride rather than honor the bombers, then and only then do I think we can begin to hope for an end of the War on Terror.
I believe, then, that the best we can do is find as many moderate Muslims as we can and give them all the support and protection we can muster. I believe this to be our only hope and I think, coincidentally, that it is basically the same strategy that General Petraeus has used with such success in Iraq.
What do the rest of you think? Do any of you have any other ideas?
Kirk at April 30, 2008 3:50 PM
And at the very least, as Amy has made clear, we have no business making friendly with terrorists, and we need to keep our eyes focused on the big issues -- not trivialities like whether a girl in a hijab can get good service in a restaurant. Sheesh!
Kirk at April 30, 2008 4:01 PM
Kirk,
With all due respect, terror is only one facet, maybe not even the most threatening facet, of what western civilization is up against. Islam is conquering Europe, as we speak, through demographics. Muslim immigrants are rapidly out-reproducing the indigenous populations of their host European countries. Guess what happens when they become a majority? … Answer: Sharia Law.
How many mosques in the U.S. are currently preaching the Wahhabi version of Islam? I don’t know, but I have seen some vary troubling data from parties who have infiltrated a number of U.S. mosques to answer that very question. The fact that our government doesn’t even bother to ask the question is very troublesome, also.
Let me pose a question to you.
If you were in charge of immigration in this country, and a large number of people were waiting to come in, people, coming from parts of the world where, using your description, “… Islamic schools teach jihad to children, so long as mosques preach hatred against the West, so long as homicide-bombers are regarded as heroes and held in high esteem, it will be impossible for us to separate, and thus neutralize, violent Islamists from ordinary Muslims, who, though they may hate us, at least are not trying to kill us.”
Would you let them in?
With Saudi petro dollars spreading the vilest form of Islam (Wahabbi) over all the globe, I think our first priority is to self preservation and self defense, not “just” defense against terror. Prior generations in the western world were able to turn back Islam because they realized their first priority was to survive. They recognized the threat Islam posed to their very existence, and they were not burdened with political correctness and multiculturalism as we are today.
I think your idea of appealing to moderate Muslims is pie in the sky stuff. Islam has been at war with western civilization for 1400 years. That’s 1400 years that the “moderate” wing of Islam has failed to reel in the fundamentalists. After we have taken the appropriate steps towards self preservation and self defense, perhaps we can then try to appeal to moderate Muslims. Just exactly what are moderate Muslims, anyway? Are they “ordinary Muslims, who, though they may hate us, at least are not trying to kill us” as you put it? How much of the Koran does a Muslim need to refute to be deemed a moderate?
Actually I do believe there are moderate Muslims, but their religion is decidedly not moderate.
One piece of advice … Stop calling this a war on terror. Makes as much sense as declaring a war against sneak attacks after Pearl Harbor. We are at war with Jihadists.
Ken at April 30, 2008 5:14 PM
I just heard Patt Morrison interviewing T. Boone Pickens about alternative energy sources he's developing. But for our need for oil, these people would all still be goatherds.
I thought these guys had a pretty wise take on things:
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2008/04/our-failed-mult.html
Amy Alkon at April 30, 2008 5:24 PM
I'm telling you people nuke the ice caps, flood out the low lying lands of the middle east, and a bunch of other places. After a few decades of rampant illness and overcrowding society will get back on track.
Got to cull the heard occasionally to keep it from rotting from within
lujlp at May 1, 2008 12:42 AM
I used to hate Pat the Hat. In retrospect, it was because she wore a hat, which seemed hokey. But in the last year or so she's become my favorite radio performer. She's spotlessly alert to the meaning of the things she's talking about. She never gratuitously interjects her opinions into the topics, but she never lets people get away with brazen bullshit, either. Her interviews at the Milken conference on Tuesday were just golden, money in the bank. In her three broadcasts this week, she's changed my thoughts about a lot of stuff. And it's not like Kitty Feldy didn't do a good job. In a righteous world, she'd have Terry Gross's audience.
I disagree with this from your linked piece:
> Terrorism stems from a religious
> ideological movement that seeks
> our destruction and that that
> movement is widely supported by
> Muslim peoples and states.
Religion is a problem, but it's not the problem. The strictures of Islam (and most other faith) collapse into manageable, attenuated customs once the populations feel the blessings of modernity. I'm not sure that the nations under discussion in that post (Afghanistan and Iraq) are as hip to *germ theory* as they ought to be, let alone market forces and the scientific method and all the rest or our American treats....
Kirk (above) is kinda right: Moderate muslims are the solution. But the best way to moderate religious belief is to give the faithful something better to think about than Allah. Specifically, we need to relieve their suffering and answer their fundamental human aspirations.
Nothing does that better than modernity.
Crid at May 1, 2008 1:11 AM
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