This Seems A Little Nuts
Somebody sent me this quote:
"But the greatest insult to our troops in the field, and to the officers who lead them, may be a new battlefield medal designed by the Obama team. It is called the Courageous Restraint Medal and is awarded to soldiers and Marines who demonstrate uncommon restrain in combat by not firing their weapons even when they feel threatened by the enemy. Would we be surprised to learn that the preponderance of these medals were awarded posthumously?" --Paul Hollrah
Checked Snopes. Nope.
Seems it's true. And here's Hollrah's original column.
UPDATE: The information above is apparently inaccurate. See comments below.
NEW UPDATE: Hollrah responded in a classy manner. I don't agree with him, but he was polite and accountable for what he initially wrote. The editor's reply to me, on the other hand, was ugly and rather shocking. See the comments below.
Other brief entry on this here: "Calls For Accuracy In Media So Piss Some People Off"







Did you check Google?
http://www.military.com/news/article/mcchrystal-quashes-restraint-medal-rumor.html
None of them have been awarded posthumously because none have been awarded. This medal does not exist.
You're welcome.
franko at July 6, 2010 12:22 AM
Great Franko, glad to hear it's not real. But the liberal fascination with emotional manipulation in the craft of civilization continues.
The holiday weekend's latest example: I just saw Micmacs, the new French film.
SPOILER ALERT
In the master plot point, war criminals are punished by exposure on YouTube. Lefties think shame, and the encouragements fit for a school child, are the best tools for crafting civilization... Which is lunacy.
Crid [CridComment at gmail] at July 6, 2010 12:55 AM
To play devils advocate...
When you're fighting a regular army, such as the Germans in WW2, it makes sense to award bravery. Both you and the opposing army come together and fight, and in the end, the loser surrenders, the winner gets spoils, peace treaty signed, and you're done.
Insurgency is different. There is no standing army to fight, and there isn't a peace treaty to sign in the end. The end of the conflict, when it comes, won't be celebrated with a ticket tape parade in NYC. It'll be a tiny whimper.
An insurgency like the Taliban are a cancer: they live and work among the people, able to blend back into the population at a moments notice. In order to win, you have to get the "host," the population in this case, to reject the cancer. This is incredibly hard because traditional tactics don't work.
For example, during the occupation of Germany, if Army units were met with sniper fire, they would pull out of a town, shell it for a day, and then move back in the next day (a good book on this is The Candy Bomber by Andrei Churney). The Taliban know this, so they'll launch mortars from a mosque and then turn and run. If we shell the mosque, we anger the locals, who will continue to support the Taliban.
You win the way the British won in Malay. They divided themselves into small units, lived among the population, altered the populations rules to make it hard to hide insurgents. For example, they made all rice cooking communal, and done in the center of the town under their supervision, so that the insurgents couldn't be fed by the population. They also launched night raids because the insurgents operated at night. Above all, they were very specific on how they punished the local population, and restrained their use of force. A good read on this is Learning to eat soup with a knife by John Nagl (both books are Navy War College recommendations, BTW).
Generals Petraeus and McChrystal are both soldiers, and they wouldn't put restrictions on their men and women without careful thought to both the strategic, operational, and tactical levels of war. It seems odd, and a bit un-American, to reward soldiers for holding fire. But not doing that means we lose sight of the big picture, like missing the forest for the trees.
Ryan at July 6, 2010 2:49 AM
From the link franko posted:
Seems they were going to do this but decided not to.
Amy Alkon at July 6, 2010 5:33 AM
I am glad they decided not to make this medal official. It just seems so... counter productive... if that is the right word.
U.S. Troops don't make a habit out of going around shooting civilians anyway so why would this medal even be considered. WE ARE AT WAR. People die in war. Our troops are very well trained and actually have amazing restraint considering the circumstances but unfortunately in war, things happen so fast that civilians can be killed unintentionally. Collateral damage is actually pretty minimal on the U.S. side in most situations but obviously expected in time of war. The fact that ONLY 2400 civilians have been killed in the 8 years we have been at war is actually pretty good in my opinion. I don't dismiss the fact that someone lost their life, but the fact is, we lost more people in ONE DAY on 9/11 when we weren't at war.
Besides, the statistics the supporters of this medal have on the number of civilians killed in combat zones are likely skewed anyway in an attempt to make their case stronger. I would be willing to wager that many of those civilians were killed by car bombs, 'honor' killings, and suicide missions by insurgents and not by U.S. Solders at all. And if they were killed by our troops, those "civilians" were likely not just civilians but harboring insurgents or connected to terrorists organizations. The number of them that were collateral damage is likely much smaller on the U.S. side.
Sabrina at July 6, 2010 6:52 AM
Sorry, I meant 2400 civilians in one year....
But I take everything the media and UN say with a grain of salt. No one can really know the true number.
Sabrina at July 6, 2010 7:01 AM
Umm, anyone getting a whiff of "72 virgins" in the (even merely considered, not actually done) awarding of medals to soldiers who die protecting muslims? Suicide for Allah, anyone?
momof4 at July 6, 2010 7:13 AM
M4, I think there's a simpler explanation... it's some Pentagon JAG's idea of how war ought to be conducted. Not a new problem; we've had them as far back as the Civil War.
Cousin Dave at July 6, 2010 8:11 AM
> The fact that ONLY 2400 civilians have been
> killed in the 8 years we have been at war
It's a bullshit metric. Essentially zero of the enemy forces we're fighting are military in any meaningful sense. The bad guys are civilians. Complaining about civilian deaths is to buy into a child's fantasy of what this all means.
Crid [CridComment at gmail] at July 6, 2010 8:25 AM
It'll be an extra piece of fruit salad that is not needed...and redundant...
There are already 3 awards specifically for valor, and numerous others that can have the "V" (for valor) device added to it...and none of them require in the citation the verbage: "While killing or wounding enemy combatants..."
And how and to who would it be awarded? Would the award go to troops that fire second? Would it only be awarded to troops that get fired upon from an elevated position while they are talking to locals? What about the troops that drive in Afghanistan and aren't running the locals off the road? Dumb dumb dumb
About all the value I can see out of it is getting it to the forefront and military leaders recognizing that subordinates should be awarded for showing restraint...
The Soviets killed 1,000,000 Afghans...and they lost. When all else fails, new tactics.
Red at July 6, 2010 8:56 AM
">The fact that ONLY 2400 civilians have been
> killed in the 8 years we have been at war
It's a bullshit metric. Essentially zero of the enemy forces we're fighting are military in any meaningful sense. The bad guys are civilians. Complaining about civilian deaths is to buy into a child's fantasy of what this all means."
Oh I agree with you Crid. It's bullshit either way. Throwing that civilian casulty number out there is really just another tatic that the pussy foot left wing legislation and the UN uses to try to garner sympathy and support for their agenda. Like I said, the numbers likely aren't true anyway and we have no idea how many of those "civilians" are actually insurgents. All I was sayin was that hypotheically, even if the casualties were civilians in the true sense (which we know they likely aren't) 2400 still isn't a bad number and no one should be getting thier panties in a bunch over it.
Sabrina at July 6, 2010 9:09 AM
Amy wrote: Seems they were going to do this but decided not to.
Actually it seems to me the writer was using a weasel word ("may have put the kibosh") because it reads better. But as far as I can tell, this was an idea suggested by a British officer for a possible NATO medal, and really had nothing to do with Obama or the US military.
You should update your blog entry, which still claims this was a true story implicating the Obama administration. This is misleading and might give readers the impression you are some kind of partisan hack.
franko at July 6, 2010 11:22 PM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2010/07/06/this_seems_a_li.html#comment-1730188">comment from frankoI'm partisan in that I don't like politicians. Didn't like Bush. Don't like Obama.
Amy Alkon
at July 7, 2010 12:00 AM
Wrote to the reporter and his editors (again -- wrote earlier, but I was on deadline). Awaiting a reply. Here's my e-mail:
Amy Alkon at July 7, 2010 12:45 AM
"WE ARE AT WAR."
Sorry, Sabrina, but no, we are not.
And that's part of the problem.
Congress has the Constitutional duty to declare war. They have not done so. Doing so trips all sorts of triggers clarifying the conduct of Americans of all types. However, it would also interfere with Congress behaving as it wishes.
The engagement continues under the War Powers Act, exactly as it did for President Bush.
Radwaste at July 7, 2010 5:35 PM
Can't say which good idea fairy whispered in whose ear, but there was definitely talk of this going around in military circles about 2 months ago. Can't say who squashed it either, but the concept was met with much derision and skepticism from all of us...
the other Beth at July 7, 2010 11:15 PM
Here's my entire exchange with them, from top down to the original:
Amy Alkon
at July 8, 2010 7:11 AM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2010/07/06/this_seems_a_li.html#comment-1730616">comment from Amy AlkonLove this. There's more.
Got this response just now (apparently from Frank Salvato, who wrote previously from the same e-mail address above):
Here's what I wrote back:
Amy Alkon
at July 8, 2010 7:33 AM
Of course, all he had to say to not get the "caustic response" is "Thanks - we'll look into it." Or "Thanks, we're investigating."
Amy Alkon at July 8, 2010 8:04 AM
Amy, you nailed them. Asked the right questions and stuck with it.
"I simply asked the question, "Would we be surprised..." to learn that the preponderance of the medals were awarded posthumously."
I can see how this might be read in the manner he suggests. Is it likely the average reader will read it that way? So was this atrocious writing that demands a clarification, or a deliberate misreading? I think your correspondence with them suggests the answer.
jerry at July 8, 2010 8:16 AM
More:
My response:
Amy Alkon at July 8, 2010 8:24 AM
Got a civil response from the author, Paul Hollrah, which I appreciate. Will post in a minute or two.
Amy Alkon at July 8, 2010 8:33 AM
Hollrah wrote me:
My response to Paul:
Amy Alkon at July 8, 2010 8:37 AM
Interestingly, about the guy's response, "You are quite caustic. Civility goes further, you know."
I started quite civilly. And got nowhere!
My first note to Mr. Hollrah was quite civil.
As was my unanswered e-mail to his editor about "the Obama team":
No response. So I wrote a second e-mail about the Obama team bit:
I was embarrassed I'd blogged something apparently untrue, and sought substantiation. There's harassment for you!
More about Frank Salvato here:
http://www.gopusa.com/commentary/fsalvato/bio.shtml
Amy Alkon at July 8, 2010 9:47 AM
I do agree with Salvato on one point: "tax exempt" is not the same as "supported by taxpayers." It's normally the Left that conflates these, since their mindset is that everything rightfully belongs to the government, and whatever it lets you keep constitutes a gift.
Rex Little at July 8, 2010 11:40 AM
at least he's still "rewarding" Americans. -knock on wood-
Dave Baw at July 8, 2010 1:06 PM
Hi, Amy I'm new to your site; I've only heard as much as you mentioned in your book, about it, where i was a "you" fan. Anyway, hope I'm using the comment section right, I still need to browse around your page a bit. ~later
Dave Baw at July 8, 2010 1:10 PM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2010/07/06/this_seems_a_li.html#comment-1730758">comment from Dave BawThank you so much, Dave Baw! Welcome!
Amy Alkon
at July 8, 2010 1:24 PM
I can't believe anyone would read "were awarded" as "were to be awarded." I don't think the "to be" part is "commonly used context" or insinuated. It reads as past tense. "Were to be" is also past tense, isn't it? The problem is, "were to be" reads like the medals were discussed and dismissed before being awarded to anyone. Now, maybe I'm reading too much into the statement, but "were awarded" sounds like they were, you know, awarded. I don't buy that the "to be" was implied.
I also disagree with his definition of "the Obama team," Amy. Saying anyone in the military is part of the Obama team because he is the Commander in Chief sounds to me like he was playing it up a bit saying that it was from the Obama team. I do not consider people who keep their positions regardless of the administration to necessarily be a part of any particular president's team. By that logic, a guide at the Smithsonian Institute is part of the Obama team because he works for the federal government. I don't think anyone who actually is part of the Obama team would say that. Sounds like embellishment followed by backpedaling, in my opinion.
I have to wonder how many other readers have been accused of harassment by the editor. If he considers fact-checking to be harassment, then he must have incriminating photos of someone high up at AOL to get that many people banned. I was reading his responses and wondering the entire time he was ranting why he didn't just say they were looking into it. Seriously, isn't that what editors say to give people the brush-off? "We're looking into the situation, thanks for your continued readership." Like I used to go look in the stockroom of my store for something I knew we didn't have to make the customer happy, and so I could tell her I looked. Placate and move on. Instead, he started out with this: I think the original text is pretty straight forward; question over declaration.
Obviously not straightforward, honey, since you had many, many questions on it. I'm betting he'd been defending the sentence in question to others already and was getting quite testy about it. He's also essentially admitting to playing up the sensational aspect of the story: it's a question, not a declaration, therefore we can say what we want. If you're not making a declarative statement, then you have an out when it turns out not to be true. But you've planted it in the minds of your readers anyway.
Yes, from the editor's responses, this now reeks of sensationalism rather than honest mistake.
NumberSix at July 8, 2010 2:59 PM
CRM: Not even wrong.
DaveG at July 8, 2010 5:34 PM
Amy Alkon, FOTC (Friend of The Corps)
Amy - I love the way you sign your blog, You are indeed a very good FOTC.
Here is the word on this, this medal does not exist, but this is worth commenting on. As leaders, we don't so much exercise restraint as we exercise judgment in order to accomplish the misson and to protect our personnel to the degree possible while conducting operations. Wars are bad things and combatants and civilians get killed, but we do everything possible to minimize civilians casualities and to protect civilians from harm. We are good at what we do and our efforts to protect the innocent from harm does not hinder our ability to violently kill the enemy.
Hope all is well in your world. Let me know if you need anymore shirts, maybe we'll start an Amy FOTC chapter.
Hunter at July 8, 2010 5:50 PM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2010/07/06/this_seems_a_li.html#comment-1730865">comment from HunterThanks -- I'm so grateful to you and all of those in the military.
Thanks so much for your comment on this. When a country harbors terrorists, sometimes bad things will happen to civilians. Unlike the terrorists, we don't have a mission to attack civilians, but sometimes people get hurt or die.
I'm working day and night on my next book. Love the shirt -- looks great with formalwear (an evening dress skirt) and a leather jacket.
Stay safe! And thank you again.
Amy Alkon
at July 8, 2010 6:46 PM
Another e-mail exchange with Paul Hollrah:
His e-mail:
My reply:
Amy Alkon at July 8, 2010 9:27 PM
While I respect that the author keeps responding in such a thoughtful and civil way, I have to say that I'm not terribly impressed that part of the defense here is "Well, we're not as bad as the mainstream media!" Or that he's saying that people who get their news from ABC, CBS, NBC, CNN, MSNBC, the New York Times and the Washington Post are all woefully underinformed. I'm not saying that the big media outlets don't make mistakes and are always fair and balanced, but come on. That's the kind of bullshit some of the über-trendy indie-movie types trot out about "mainstream" films. Just because there's money behind it doesn't make it biased or hacky. And just because a medium has little money doesn't make it better or nobler than the bigger outlets.
Integrity and the lack thereof can come from anywhere.
NumberSix at July 8, 2010 11:02 PM
That jerk Frank Salvato that you quoted above says:
Really? That's something else that I would like for him to substantiate with some links.
Because I am very aware that a rumour was spread all over the internet making exactly that claim... that they were exposed as being a liberal-leaning organization, but it's not hard at all to find the debunking of that rumor.
So this guy is just digging his hole deeper the more he flies off at the mouth.
http://www.factcheck.org/2009/04/snopescom/
Mark at July 9, 2010 9:58 PM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2010/07/06/this_seems_a_li.html#comment-1731347">comment from MarkThanks, Mark - that's great.
Amy Alkon
at July 9, 2010 11:43 PM
You're welcome Amy.
I laughed at the hypocrisy when I saw Salvato say that. Here is a guy trying to defend the fact that he has some in-depth journalism to do and you just have to hold your horses. He criticizes you for being shoddy for using Snopes as a reference to see if they have researched the claim. Then he relies on a false rumor about Snopes that that was propagated all over the Internet, without any reliable references, to try criticize you. Why should he need more time? Shouldn't the research have been done ahead of time? He should already have his list of references, which you requested, handy. You caught him with his pants down, and his reaction is to bite your head off.
More proof (as if we need any more) that many journalists can't manage their own biases when doing their job, are lazy, and their gold standard is no longer reliable sources but instead is simply whether the story has enough truthiness.
Frank Salvato has some explaining to do and owes you an apology.
Mark at July 10, 2010 5:06 AM
Leave a comment