Boston Bombers' Mosque Recommended Wife-Beating As Marital Aid
From The Daily Caller, Patrick Howley writes:
The Islamic Society of Boston, the mosque attended by Boston Marathon bombing suspects Tamerlan and Dzhokar Tsarnaev, posted an article on its website in September 2004 that advocated for the beating of women as a last resort to force them to behave.The Cambridge, Massachusetts-based mosque posted an English translation of Saudi cleric Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajid's 1997 work, "The Muslim Home: 40 Recommendations in Light of the Quran and Sunnah," which the mosque headlined, "40 Recommendations for the Muslim Home."
"Hinting at punishment is an effective means of discipline, so the reason for hanging up a whip or stick in the house was explained in another report, where the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: 'Hang up the whip where the members of the household can see it, for this is more effective in disciplining them,'" the article states.
"Seeing the means of punishment hanging up will make those who have bad intentions refrain from indulging in bad behaviour, lest they get a taste of the punishment. It will motivate them to behave themselves and be good mannered," it says.
"Hitting is not the way to discipline; it is not to be resorted to, except when all other means are exhausted, or when it is needed to force someone to do obligatory acts of obedience, as Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): '... As to those women on whose part you fear ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful),'" it goes on.
Well, isn't that civilized!







File under least surprising news of the day.
Meanwhile also in MA:
BELCHERTOWN, Mass. (MyFoxBoston.com) – Seven individuals originally from Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, and Singapore will be summonsed to court for trespassing after a Mass. State Police trooper found them on the grounds of the Quabbin Reservoir early Tuesday morning.
http://www.myfoxboston.com/story/22252661/2013/05/14/seven-individuals-summonsed-to-for-trespassing-at-quabbin-reservoir
JFP at May 15, 2013 1:38 AM
Well fuck , do i need to drink bottled water this summer?
Nicolek at May 15, 2013 3:07 AM
And yet I'm fairly certain an overwhelming majority of people in the US believe hitting their kid to discipline them is appropriate, and not always "as a last resort".
Chris at May 15, 2013 10:17 AM
Really? I always assumed most people thought spanking was the nuclear bomb of parenting techniques... in the arsenal, but not to be used unless urgent.
NicoleK at May 15, 2013 10:47 AM
Admonishing, then not sharing beds and then hitting lightly...he is giving step by step punishments which is how all punishments go about.
What is the alternative you suggest? Divorce at the first instance of indiscipline?
What the mosque has mentioned is no different from what feminists tell women....feminists never tell women to introspect and do mutual discussion and understanding with the men because women are never wrong. Same way the mosque is assuming that men are never wrong and telling the same thing to the men that feminists tell women. No big deal if you ask me.
Redrajesh at May 15, 2013 11:17 AM
That's exactly what I'm talking about: Can I hit my wife to discipline her if it's "urgent"? I suspect most people would find the idea abhorrent.
Chris at May 15, 2013 11:18 AM
Can I hit my wife to discipline her if it's "urgent"?
Compare and contrast, your wife and a 4 year old. Which can be reasoned with and can follow an argument?
Feel free to take your time with this one.
Alternatively, you may discipline her if that's lifestyle you both have chosen. I would consider converts to Islam to be in this category.
Those who face the possibility of a bad marriage to an abusive husband or the possibility of a honor killing or being labeled an apostate will gain my sympathy.
I R A Darth Aggie at May 15, 2013 12:54 PM
I've had some arguments with my wife where, in my opinion, she was being unreasonable, just wasn't listening, and couldn't follow the argument.
Based on your criteria for hitting kids, couldn't I just save hitting my wife as a "last resort"?
Chris at May 15, 2013 3:12 PM
Wives aren't kids, and you aren't supposed to control and mold a wife's behavior. Parents are, however, supposed to control and mold their kids. If you are using ANY discipline technique with your wife, you're an ass and she's an idiot for staying with you.
I spanked the tar out of my kids the first time aech ran in the road. It never happened again. I'm not trying to reason why a toddler shouldn't try to get run over and killed. YMMV.
momof4 at May 15, 2013 3:21 PM
You don't talk to your wife about things in your relationship that cause friction and you wish would change? Isn't that "molding behavior"? If she doesn't agree with your suggestion, why can't you just hit her to change her behavior like you hit your children to change theirs?
(Also, I love when people justify beating their kids because they, as parents, failed to pay attention. I guess you don't really need to go through the difficulty of parenting if you can just beat your kids whenever you personally fail.)
Chris at May 15, 2013 3:36 PM
If either or both partners are acting as adults when they enter a marriage, they realize it is a partnership not ruled and regulated beyond the superficial outside forces of the religious, political or other dogmas. An example of that is James Carville (D) and his wife Mary Matalin (R).
You are saying that the Islamic dogma of beating your wife is just as acceptable as a feminist woman saying that all men are rapists while going home to her husband that disagrees with her but doesn't fuck her without express permission.
There is a philosophy I have finally learned. There is only one thing I can make another person do; that is to make them die. That is generally only by murder.
So anything beyond talking to another person to get them to change is the use of inappropriate force; outside of the justice system or war. That is being a civilized human.
There is an additional factor: There is acting outside of societal norms and being illegal. In Muslim countries with Sharia law, being a female and walking around without a hijab or niqāb may be illegal.
In the U.S. that a female and walking around without a hijab or niqāb is not illegal. So while your subculture may abhor it, this is perfectly legal. So in the U.S. if you support beating on anyone, you are guilty of assault.
When you can get these concepts through your head, we can have a discussion. Until then I consider you a neanderthal.
Jim P. at May 15, 2013 7:09 PM
Amy Alkon
http://www.advicegoddess.com/archives/2013/05/15/boston_bombers.html#comment-3709623">comment from Jim P.Jim P. Is right on.
Amy Alkon
at May 15, 2013 7:21 PM
"outside of the justice system or war" - does the USA have a proper justice system or a feminazi legal system? How many feminists have actually used it to screw the innocent american male with the active support of the system?
"So in the U.S. if you support beating on anyone, you are guilty of assault" - how many feminists are guilty of assault and what is being done about them?And if the answer is nothing, then why on earth should anything be done about the islamic version of assault which is the same as feminist assault with just the genders reversed.
Redrajesh at May 19, 2013 10:23 AM
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